Hello, Everything is fine between us, except that when we speak of "food" and although it is taboo, my husband does not hesitate to remind me that I eat too much! I have grown too, and it will take willpower to beauuucccoup I lose all those pounds. The problem is that it's true, but right now I do not have time for me to spend (sportswear, output), and have plenty of appetite for breastfeeding our baby … Have you experienced the same situation and how did you react? Thank you for your answers. PS: I ask this question here because I am a young mom and I am sure in this topic many moms will understand me. @ JE Dufour, you're certainly right, but this is not the time to make a plan. I eat what my baby needs, I do not do excess. @ Marilyn, 5 inches down, I do not understand, you're absolutely right and you understand me completely, I need time. I'm bad about myself, even when my husband made these reflections.
Hello, you must tell him, show him that the remarks offended you .. (If ill do not know) and most importantly, you should understand .. (baby, no time etc).
You know what you have to do: put yourself on a diet! I do not know how much weight you should lose it, but you'll see a few kilos less you'll feel better and get more energy to take care of your baby! And then in a lifetime where you have abused good things, what is that a diet period of several months? Courage! Even if your husband is harassing you with your weight, but he's right! and he wants to see you better in your skin! At least you're lucky to have someone beside you who reminds … How many women let themselves go without perceiving it!
Your child may also suffer from delusion your food, think about it. A measured supply would have to avoid "degrade" over the situation, right?
It seems to me that a child is 2 and your husband should be a little more understanding with respect to your weight gain. I took a lot of weight during my first pregnancy (25 kg in 6 months) and I'm actuellemtn to 1 ½ months pregnant and I already took 3 kg. Personally I very unsupported weight gain and luckily my spouse does not make me reflection of this kind. I do not know how you live your weight gain, but if something is bothering you, you will lose any motivation for these kg without someone constantly Rabache you that you should lose them. For now you are breastfeeding and it is not the time to diet or devote yourself to something other than your baby. I lost 25 kg and I took 3 other even more and less than a year so tell your husband to be patient that everything is done in his time. Good luck to you and enjoy your little piece
Men are from Mars and women from Venus … your husband is super awkward! For him, there's only to see the response @ Jean-Mi "super macho man", it "encourages you" and you "support" I'm sure you in making these kinds of remarks … Remarks for you, are hurtful, you feel belittled, humiliated see … because you're realize that you have swollen, it adds unnecessary layers … You're hungry, you eat, do not also make you feel guilty … By cons, he come to the idea of making food more often and spend time with you may be cooking dishes more balanced, making fruit salad for lunch, buy yourself a nice tunic in which you would feel beautiful and comfortable, take the initiative to go shopping and prepare healthy things … AC, I'm sure it encourage you, the problem is that it does not even crossed his mind! But hey, they're stupid and clumsy …
after my first delivery, I have not lost all my kg. before I was very thin, thin. I suffered quite a few more remarks or – offensive on the part of Homer. for my second breakfast, I took bcp fewer pounds. I lost them soon. I waited to get back to work so I could really put the "regime": matches, I lost a little over 11 pounds since the beginning of the year, part of my weight that I had never réusii to lose since my first pregnancy. Everyone tells me I "melted". same homer. matches, it's motivating and I feel better about my body bcp and … in my head. it's like cigarettes: there is no secret, it must be motivated to lose weight. I did not follow a diet, I just limited starches, sugars, fats, I drink more, eat more green vegetables, soups, and most importantly, I took the job with the torrid pace that will to deal with the fact of 2 children. all in good time, your weight loss, you'll see when you resume work, or otherwise.
ditto for mine. but I have always defended myself against these "peaks", saying that my baby had more than anything and I could sacrifice my body some time to give him the best, I breastfed until my last 13 months and anyway as soon as you stop breastfeeding you easily lose 5 pounds without thinking, then you pay attention. rooooo zommer these then!
Hello dear fellow, so firstly, it is completely normal for your husband make his remarks (in my opinion) he is afraid that too much magnification you and that you become less desirable! second, it is natural for you because of your appetite you are breastfeeding, but just have to be careful what you eat it all, do you balanced meals biensur you can eat everything but not excessively. I'm in the same case as you, I'm breastfeeding, I'm at home jene goofs off, my husband told me Always "is when you resume the sport," he repeated to me so much that it irritates me and same time he has not compared how wrong I was when he knew me …. especially since I had 20kg during my pregnancy, and until I lost the 16, but must be strengthened!! I advise you to go out with baby stroller, take long walks will do you much good you and your baby, then you can tjrs workout (especially abdominal). especially do not plan !!!!! has your husband says you have to eat so you ais milk (. especially do not plan !!!!! has your husband says you have to eat so you ais milk (but do not take advantage of the situation!) your child needs for healthy food!! here is my beautiful, too bad we is not in contact on msn, we would have discussions soon bcp