I dream that I was breastfeeding my niece's son who is 1 year. He laughed and was very much pleased by sucking

and what is the question yacine tell me?

but it all say it's fantastic to see, and the question is??

Hello girls! Baby will be 6 months next week, and I still breastfeed. I start diversifying. I know he's going to have to wean soon, but I can not bring myself to do: I love it. Since the delivery room, breastfeeding is going really well, very naturally. One little problem: between the afternoon where it is guarded by the nanny and therefore takes a bib, where she eats lunch mashed less milk, and at night when I got him a bib for the well stall for the night, I have concern for flooding very painful night. And I tell myself that it may be a sign of the end of breastfeeding, the need to move on … In fact, I fear the withdrawal because I know I would never have that happiness. It stuck me that, I know, no baby. It's like putting an end to our merger … You lived it? How did you do? @ Fummy: Because she spits, and that milk CA is thicker. She is savvy, and sleeps 12 hours straight … Hi Hi Hi @ Alinette: Thanks! But it's such a. Hi Hi Hi @ Alinette: Thanks! But it's so unbonheur … Yes, the bib is fun too … That's another thing. @ Mamzellz: What great advice! Last night I made a bib smaller, 150ml, to finish in, and this morning, no pain! The other problem is peer pressure: the "mooooore you breastfeed?" fuse, and it bothers me to have to justify myself. You breastfed how long?

this congestion is perhaps one phase of these changes (two feedings jumping) and it takes time for your body to adapt to this new rhythm. If it does not go with the usual methods to relieve congestion until it snaps into place, you can then consider the complete cessation of breastfeeding. But if you want to keep, there is nothing wrong with that

How's the courage? What happiness?

the merger will not stop breastfeeding. you will know the happiness of giving the bibi .. eye to eye … and Dad can enjoy. congratulation for your 6 months of lactation.

Why a bib over the stall occur at night?? I do not understand your approach. If you do not want to wean, do not do it! If you have a bottleneck is that your daughter does not drink enough, it's not a sign of the end of your breastfeeding. Moreover, if your body is accustomed to feeding in the morning and evening, you will, it will have enough milk to satisfy her. For my daughter, I introduced powdered milk (infant formula) before diversification. My son and I plan to continue breastfeeding longer. Ideally, up to a year for me or if it weans itself from before. So he will have my milk with solid food mm. The difference is that I'm on parental leave. So it's not quite the managing mm. ^ ^

Aaaaah as I understand you, but good memories …. I have arrested around 7 months but only because I had more milk, if I planned to breastfeed a year. If you're really not ready and you still have milk why not keep feeding pleasure in the day.

And the reason you should wean if you just do not want? If it makes you much trouble, why do it? 're Masochistic? Especially if it's going really well … There is no expiration date on your milk does not diversify and wean. I've never wanted to wean my girls, and they never wanted either (well the second 6 months, so obviously …). The nibbles that is happiness for us! By cons, some advice. At the age of your daughter, puree it after feeding. She needs much more milk than carrots, milk should remain the main food for at least 6 months. For evening, I'm not convinced that the bib "hold" your daughter better and enable him to sleep through the night, but really good so, file it the bib after feeding (at least after 1/2h), in addition . That way you will be less congested. The fact that you are congested is not a sign that you have to wean, but simply a sign that your daughter has to feed more at source. If your daughter is not feeding time at noon. If your daughter is not feeding time lunch aulendemain morning is normal for your breasts threaten to explode! Lol! It would take at least a small feedings at night, just to relieve yourself, or when you pull your milk. At this rate, not only you put yourself through unnecessary suffering, but your lactation is likely to go haywire … At the age of your daughter (or rather your lactation), the body can very easily adapt to such a long period without feeding (18h is huge). Just a little extra feed at night would change everything … There. Regarding weaning, do as you want. Know absolutely nothing obliges you there. If you just do not want, do not do it. It would be stupid to wean when you're not ready and then make a depression.

Replaces "Baby" by my daughter. "Bib" by bottle. and gives to suck your man. Everything should be fine. Sincerely yours.

Voucher the peer pressure you do not care eh! Believe me I had to right to me too "you still breastfeeding?" "Bah uh yeah it is a pb with someone?" No but that's the thing I will never understand … For my part I thought breastfeeding 6 months and point. And then I tried 2 / 3 bottles and saw the reception I gave up and continued breast. At 8 months 1ST teeth have pushed … Sir I had got bitten so badly that I had a sudden movement of which leave him cold feet, short weaning done almost immediately after this "incident". I have not lived badly, although I missed those times and I still miss sometimes, but I passed the bottle and I also appreciate. If you do not really want to stop then continues, nothing obliged thee. You followed good advice that has calmed your bottlenecks, keep it for a while.

Hello everyone, before birth, that's what everyone told me that breastfeeding was the best natural diet that can exist. Here I breastfeed my baby almost 5 months, I give him a bottle a day since she was 2 months. Listed weight I'm just swell, breastfeeding makes me very hungry and as for the moment I'm not very active, I have not lost a kilo. What do you think, is it true that breastfeeding makes you lose weight and if so, after how long? Thank you for your testimony.

Hello, I have not heard that at all! On the contrary, my neighbor who has breastfed until about six months, has not lost weight during these months of breastfeeding because she could not make a plan. She began to lose when she stopped breastfeeding.

Hello, I think it depends on the metabolism of each, in my case I took 35 kg for my two pregnancies and I breastfed 6 months and 8 months and I lost 30kg each time very rapidly (5 / 6 months) and without any effort it tell me breastfeeding gives me no more appetite (unlike pregnancy ) So I eat normally.

if you eat balanced and do some exercise (even if that walks with your daughter) yes it can make you lose weight. but apparently you eat a lot, you probably crunching (not easy being at home all day without cracking, it was all done) so well it should motivate you to move more and also to streamline your food. Personally, I lost all my pregnancy pounds the first month of my two feedings. I was pretty tired, new schedule, nights cut, etc., not very hungry, etc. … Then I started to feel more fit and I went back to eating normally and then bein to force trainer at home, cravings for junk food (chocolate, cookies, etc. …) in short, in two months, I had it all over again. try to take advantage of breastfeeding to rebalance your diet, the weather arriving for long walks with your baby (it will do you good at both) and you should happen to lose a little weight. and then also benefits from the presence of the father on weekends to go for a. and then also benefits from the presence of the father on weekends to go hour drive sports (it will also help you refocus you on you, one time per week, it's been a very foolish not to be a mom!). courage you.

For me, it really helped. 20kg taken during pregnancy and while I lost again in four months. But at first I jumped a lot of meals because the baby monopolize so much that I realized that I had to 16H eaten anything yet.

Not that I know

My témiognage will not be very helpful since I breastfed my first for 2 months and 3 months my daughter second. I took almost 20 kg each pregnancy and I took 9 months to lose everything. I believe that nursing draws on our fat stores (the famous cellulite!) But in the long term … So it does not necessarily lose weight, especially the need to continue to eat anything and especially not to the regime. I think these are misconceptions. To lose weight there is no mystery: we must move and eat lightly.

Hello sweetie I nursed 14 months and not one gram of lost or taken, by the way I normally eat my fill and even more

yes it is very slim! I am the chocolate diet since breastfeeding (5 months), and I'm losing weight. since the beginning in fact. after, maybe it depends on people …

Bjr, I had taken only 14kg, breastfeeding, and I quickly lost in the first quarter so it depends on women can be, for cons I know that breastfeeding promotes good replacement of the uterus especially ..

No, breastfeeding does not lose weight by itself … It allows you to simply consume more calories … What makes you lose weight is to burn more calories than you consume. So if you are breastfeeding, but even when you consume more calories than what you spend, you do not lose weight, and depending on your shape, you fat … Without thinking of dieting, if you want to lose weight by continuing to breastfeed, you must consider improving the quality of your diet. What is the most fattening, it's the sugar. Not necessarily fat, you need also to breastfeeding. So just trying to reduce the intake of simple sugars (sweets) and involve systematically starchy vegetables, without worrying quantities (eat all you want) …

Concretely you almost answered your question. "Breastfeeding gives me a lot of appetite". What happens is that your body needs more energy (for the production of milk) when you are breastfeeding when you do not breastfeed. The trick is that if you compensate by eating more, well you do not lose weight. But it is quite normal to be hungry! Good luck

Everything depends on each. For my three pregnancies I was breastfeeding maigirissais at least 10 kgs. So that took no more than 5 lbs during my pregnancy.

Here is my problem: my son is 7 and a half months and my companion complains to breastfeed again. According to him it is big enough to move on, and breastfeeding would serve any more. He also says that I must cut the cord, that my life revolves only around the baby, and that this was due to breastfeeding … I'm on parental leave while it's true that I see my son all day, but I go out at night whenever I have a chance, I do not feel "too baby" to resume expression. In short, it's a little war at home, I have more than enough of his thoughts and I have no desire to stop breastfeeding. Have you experienced this? If yes, how did you do to fix things? In fact it's been a while since we began diversifying, and is the father who did eat at night. When he says he is big enough to move on, he talks about the milk industry. Otherwise, you're certainly right, there must be an element of jealousy. I organize a romantic evening for the weekend, we'll see …

Ah, Dad and baby blues … it's classic. Boring, but classic!

Maybe he just wants to make you understand that it also wants you to be his wife? Maybe he feels neglected? If you do not want to stop, do not do it, but trying to dig a little to know why he asks you that. Without the psycho counter, I would say that his request reflects a desire to participate more.

he must be bored dad, a way you gave him the best of yourself to the little bit if you allow yourself continuously.

If you value your relationship, it would be wise to know what lies behind this desire for your friend ……… I think it is deep, and speak with him, question the gently … …

Well c simple: the more you breastfeed your baby better for him .. c It will be less ill and have less risk of allergy .. Dad tries to convince … c for the sake of your son .. I agree that c the best job in the world to be a mother .. Your husband must be proud of you and support you must .. Few breastfeeding mother as long .. but you must find time for your marriage .. express your milk and handed it to your nearest … like that baby is well fed and happy dad .. good luck mama ..

It would not be a little jealous of your son? Cut the cord at 7 months, I hallucinate! Especially because your kid gently between the phase of separation anxiety. It would be nice to give complete information on the development of baby. Given my nature, I will give all the info, will try to restore the passion in my marriage and if it does not change his mind, I fuck on the door. I do not accept this kind of blackmail. Good luck!

Breastfeeding is just an excuse … Say it starts to REALLY have fed you forsake the systematic … So either you restoring some things (such as by setting specific days in the week that you spend some time with your man) or you'd better get used to being a single mom;))

It is true that your child may move on but you can also continue to breastfeed at least 2 times a day if you feel the dad may be trying to make you understand that your child is much room for house and that he is lonely and feels to have "lost" his wife? tries to discuss it with him so you can continue to breastfeed and that each finds its place and balance

Bjr, baby you should ask him to stop to eat at Dad .. m'enfin not gonna last for years feedings, he should understand and be rather pleased that his son receives them and that his wife is in full bloom .. I still do not think that AC can really put the couple at risk or so is that it does not help much but if it fucks the bad atmosphere for everyone, it's still sad that all AC leads nowhere, talk quietly, we do not know his motives or his character, there is only you who can figure out how to convince him to leave you a little .. Good luck

My man so I did it, I told him do a mega presentation showing the merits of breastfeeding long, now it is out of question for him to give a bottle to our daughter in my opinion ^ ^ c ' is mainly a call for help, he might like you to take a little more care of him? Men are often very jealous of the mother / child relationship, they often feel sidelined and did not know how to win, either side of the baby to care for them or the side of the Mom, to find the woman and not the mother … It's up to you to combine your role as a mother (with breastfeeding) and your role as a woman. It's pretty hard, I put me a little time to find myself as a woman and then again the wife of my husband, but now I combine my two roles perfectly and breastfeeding takes very little space .

Uh it's not a breastfeeding but you So you choose. He might want to be actors in the life of the child leaves the care of him anyway around 8-9 months it will start slowly diversifying food he can eat at that time. Until then leaves him some stuff to do with your son because you're overdoing it seems. The bath may also be a good laugh when, for example.

I think your husband is not a physician if he thinks it's no use you should go every two to talk to a pediatrician. If you do not want to stop do not stop or you will regret it and you put it back on constantly.

Indeed, it is your body is yours to choose, but you also live with your companion and it would be much better than that you support breastfeeding as an issue of dispute. We must find a settlement because if your man does not understand you, disputes will escalate, but if you sèvres your son while you have no desire at all, you will keep a grudge that might weaken your profondemment couple. When you're mom, it makes sense that our life revolves mainly around baby, which does not experience things in parallel, as you do. Once more, you're on parental leave, it is to take care of baby, not to go on holiday to 2, right? I guess your working companion. If you sèvres your baby, you will occupy less worry? Who will give him the bottle the day? We need to know why he thinks that at some point you have to go to the milk industry. What makes your baby is not "enough" great to have the formula and what makes it then becomes quite. What makes your baby is not "enough" great to have the formula and what makes it then becomes quite "big" to be? Is this not an infringement on human milk and breastfeeding in general? Maybe he is worried. He hears that breast milk is no longer appropriate to a "big" a nutritional point of view, breastfeeding is an impediment to the autonomy of baby, etc. … This is nonsense, but these are ideas that circulate frequently and it is legitimate to ask questions. Talk quietly with your partner, reassures him, provided him specific answers and argued. You can for example make him read articles on the subject: http://www.lllfrance.org/L-allaitement-au-fil-du-temps/Allaiter-plus-de-6-mois.html Once informed and reassured, he will have no reason "valid" for refusing to focus primarily on the welfare of his son that of his companion, and consequently his. Good luck!

Hello, I am truly saddened by your story, it only confirms what I think of men and their selfishness, dads are worse, I do not generalize because they are not all alike, but most want woman gives birth to their happiness is ok, after they have to bend over backwards to meet the needs of the baby and the desires of their rights. In short this just to say out loud what some women think. for your problem, not just demand that your husband, he should know that breastfeeding is good for your child, and 7 months is not too much, you probably know that up to 2 years Your child can still ask the breast. On the other side as a husband may be that he feels helpless, and that between being a mother and wife you can be more to reconcile the two, (I understand you, as a young mom I do find myself as well) What you can do is maybe the most engaging, whether it gives him a bottle of your milk, as it ca. On the other side as a husband may be that he feels helpless, and that between being a mother and wife you can be more to reconcile the two, (I understand you, as a young mom I do find myself as well) What you can do is maybe the most engaging, whether it gives him a bottle of your milk, you will like this ilne more glued to your son. Or maybe try out, to have more privacy. I wish you anyway good luck and I hope it gets better.

exclusive breastfeeding until six months the baby two months, a week and some days is a little boy I want to be smart: people are saying in this case it is necessary to eat fish? and you?

it will be intelligent if you only the students intelligently ,,,,,, this is not a question of food but of love and culture is often rotten fish as meat that we offer but may be you have the chance be beside the sea and the fish is good for health, c is true

should primarily eat anything, no McDonalds at every meal what, and be careful that you take each Medoc, and no alcohol of course

You must eat healthily and drink mostly milk, yoghurt and beer that promotes lactation. Avoid peppers, alcohol ..

My daughter is now 3 months. Since her birth I did not have enough milk to breastfeed .. The pediatrician advised me to do a mixed feeding (breast and bottle). At first, I insisted that I just went a little before giving him the bottle, but at a certain moment, I have milk (no drop) since then, I give my heart more and my daughter drank the milk bottle. I feel sad because I know the advantages and benefits of breastfeeding babies and I would try again and more .. I bought a breast pump manual breast .. it's tiring and I get a few drops after so much time, so I rented a breast milk supply .. it is less tiring but the result is the same (a few drops that disappear from a bottle) .. I bought a drug (Vitonic breastfeeding) may be it will get better .. The questions arise: can I have milk a day if I continue to use the pull milk and medicine? someone who has no milk at a certain period can have it one day? is that it can be regenerated?

see a lactation consultant

I could never breastfeed my children beyond two months, my milk is tarissait.Mais it does not matter, that they were still good. Above all, do not blame you, there no reason, going completely bottle and stop torturing yourself for nothing. The young grow quickly, and you are wasting precious moments, stop taking tête.Ton child needs to feel serene and happy. That's all that matters. Kiss

Do not grieve for that, you're not responsible if you can not breastfeed your little girl, if you do not get results with draws milk, do not insist. There are now trading in milks which are almost similar to maternal milk. Do not worry, you'll have a beautiful little girl and in good health. I'm sorry to tell you this, forget the breastfeeding mother, more responsible mother, forget the drugs Very often more harm than good. You have certainly heard of the famous softenon, which was given to pregnant women to avoid nausea and other discomforts in early pregnancy. Most of these women gave birth to children without arms or legs. So, be reasonable, especially since your problem is not serious at all. Good evening, big hugs to your little one.

hello, yes it is possible to resume breastfeeding. but your pediatrician has given you very bad advice by telling you to do a mixed feeding! many of them unfortunately are not specialized in breastfeeding. To boost your milk production, the most important thing is to max your baby at the breast even if only a little nibbles. Continue to take your milk also , no matter how much you shoot. (I myself have never managed to get my milk, j''allaite yet my son for almost 5 months and believe me, it eats its fill, it's a small Buddha lol). It is better that you shoot your milk 10×2 minutes 2×20 minutes. well, I do not know this drug, but it may be preferable that you take herbal teas instead of fennel, it seems that it is very effective. It is also important to rest maximum. In summary, stimulates your breasts to the max, and gradually you'll produce enough to satisfy your little piece. I advise you also to seek a pediatrician specializing in. I advise you also to seek a pediatrician specializing enallaitement. Courage, patience and above all, your breast is not lost.

You can try again, I give you my tips and tricks: pull your milk more often than long, eat almonds, almond milk drinks, alcoholic drinks a few beers a week, eat lentils, avoids the parsley, put your baby within whenever possible and especially as soon as he shows any sign of arousal even if it is not fully awake (it will be less difficult and will suckle more easily "reflex"), uses herbal tea fennel (in supermarkets there too) if you do not like taking capsules beer yeast beer (at least 6 per day, plus it looks nice dryer and beautiful nails!)

To promote lactation there is nettle tea, almond cream (no more than 2 tablespoons a day if liver problems), the tea with anise … and we must drink lots of water and sufficient food. Otherwise, the more you stimulate lactation, you produce more milk. For me it worked well. I felt like I had more milk. And after a week with this "plan" is income.

The body adapts to the demand, the more you breastfeed your baby and do you have more milk. The less you do breastfeed by providing supplements to the bottle and you have less milk. Your obviously pediatrician does not know anything at Breastfeeding, like most pediatricians do not receive a 2 hour training throughout their curriculum is very little and more during those two hours, they are not talking about diseases related to breastfeeding. In short, a pediatrician is certainly not the appropriate person to advise you in this area. Now that the damage is done, we must try to re-stimulate your breasts as much as possible. But for that, we will have drop-ins bottle and put as much as possible within your baby. This is the only way to successfully pursue your nursing. It's normal not to succeed to shoot with a breast milk. Because you can never be as effective as your baby's mouth. Yes, you can have milk again. There are even mothers who manage to find a lactation when they. There are even mothers who manage to find a lactation qu'ellesavaient then decided to base not to breastfeed. Read this article very interesting as you are concerned in particular: http://www.allaitement-jumeaux.com/espace-allaitement / lait-maternel/relancer-lactation-apres-sevrage-ou-complements.php And if you have questions about breastfeeding, do not ask your pediatrician who knows nothing obviously he's going to screw up your breast.

Sibline link is very interesting, and I confess that if I had that kind of advice I would have persevered with breastfeeding … because I experienced the same problem as you … and 4 months I switched to mixed feeding on the advice of my doctor at 5 months was the bib! … then I would have so liked to continue this wonderful experience! patience, and good luck!

I plan to breastfeed my baby but is it normal at 22 weeks of pregnancy my breasts have still not grown?

The rise of milk takes place 2 to 3 days after the birth of the baby, do not worry, you have time to admire your chest! Over breast size before, during or after pregnancy is not indicative in any way quality and duration of breastfeeding! healthy pregnancy!

Personally, my breasts did not change during pregnancy. Neither their shape or color of the nipples. Now that my chip was born, my breasts have taken a bit of volume at the onset of lactation but now they are as before and yet I breastfeed. So do not worry . The modification of breasts is not mandatory for a successful breastfeeding and leaves no one tell you otherwise.

patience, it will come ……….

On the one hand it is subjective: if the magnification is progressive, it may not worry you not realize. In all cases your breasts to grow, even if only during the first ascent of milk. However, breast size has nothing to do with the amount of milk produced or the ability to breastfeed;)

My breasts have hardly changed during my pregnancy. I breastfed five weeks after, I had to stop, but it has no link with breast size;

Legalization of abortion? Voting? Feminist movement and struggle for loss of wage inequality? Maternity leave? Pill?

Abortion Pill and even if these rights diminish today unfortunately …

Simone Veil and her right to contraception and abortion I think.

I would rather say that the legalization of divorce in Italy is much less since the gas cylinder exploding and women eloctrocutées

Voting rights for women (1944 a historic feminist movement and struggle for loss of wage inequality (as) maternity leave (bof we should not piss off too) Pill (no question to me after you refile AIDS) Condoms (what a great invention)

LOREAL action?

Right to vote and leave (s) of Motherhood which add the comforts of modern life, including home appliances because the pill, abortion and the so-called "feminist empowerment" that will allow the progression of obscurantism !

The invention of Gregory Pincus

Unlike my other baby (2.5 months) was really well accepted bibi (my milk first). Yesterday I gave the first bibi milk powder for its withdrawal ideally in a month since resumed work. Bé Well now he sulks the breast, it drop 3 seconds then weeps, gets angry! I have a few balls if I had known I would have done later +. In your opinion, I accelerate withdrawal or to insist breast (with nipple silicone I can do suck a little + long). I have a fear of flooding as early if I go too fast and I'm afraid he does not eat enough if it is not over within 2-3 min. PS: not to extremists remark like "thee to breastfeed up to 6 months as in the recommendations, it does not m'interresse. over the day because he did not let die of hunger but does that covered within the nipple silicone … and the famous bibi 150ml yesterday noon today only 80ml. Maybe he hurt bidou change milk? And can not stand my breast. Maybe he hurt bidou change milk? And can not stand my breast quigicle a bit much (the nipple mitigated this) * What patience and what is imagination to understand …

because he is "lazy"! bottle, it runs by itself, whereas breast, it must produce some effort to suck … I weaned my daughter at 2 months (death in the soul), because it sucked not and it does not grow, despite 20 feedings per day. the day she had a bib, she grew up / swollen. (I understood, but much later, that successful breastfeeding, it took two to the desire …) 2 and a half months, that is already very well, do not worry (and do not listen to the ayatollahs of tit!)

Agree with Chtonk. Since he prefers the bib, I would advise you to take your milk and give him the bottle, because if you speed up the withdrawal you might actually engorgement. Moreover, if any that you make this remark, they know that it has nothing to do with the duration of breastfeeding for even breastfed until 6 months it should be weaned and it was not easy either. Good luck .

My milk did not flow enough and the left breast made me very ill. Baby crying all the time. I realized after 2 months after his birth he satiated. So I have not stopped breastfeeding, but I opted for the complete bottle. by the time I had a program: very early in the morning, then lunch and finally the evening before bedtime. All this, interspersed with bottles. My baby is 5 years now and is doing wonderfully! Courage! Do things as you sense, because the pediatrician made me feel guilty, he accuses me of hiding behind this false argument for not breastfeed the baby at the breast and bottle feeding discouraged me for a year, I do not understand, then I did what I thought best for my baby.

I had exactly the same problem as you, but at 5 weeks ;-(. I wanted to wean because I had a breast candidiasis, very badly and I cried like a madeleine whenever I put Junior in . Once he has tasted the bib 'impossible (or difficult) to give the breast. It's normal, it's much easier to suck a bottle than a breast, it comes faster. Ca fout the balls, I imagine in what state you can be … I sympathize. You have two options – either you pull your milk and you give him the breast. As you stimulate less production, you should not have too many congestion problems, lactation alone will decrease gradually. – either you consulted for taking medication to cut the milk and you will pass immediately to 100% bottle (incompatibility between the drug and breastfeeding). This is I did, because I had never used a breast pump and I had very bad … With this solution, you have wrong (see very badly) breasts for two – three days, then it passes. … The third option might be to resume breastfeeding 100%, if you want to extend a little by telling you that your baby will not let himself die of hunger, but I do not know if it might work. Whatever your choice, I wish you lots of courage, I know it's hard to admit to a mother that her baby refuses the breast … But above all do not feel guilty, your baby, it will be very glad to bottle. After all, if he prefers. Junior has never shown any regret for abandoning the breast … Me, if … I miss again 6 months later …

you lucky that your baby gladly accepts the bib! I was 8 months he refuses TOTALLY! and therefore it is still within the bcp! G to try everything but there is nothing he wants the breast, and contact with mom .. I advise you to indent your milk (loe a breast milk he's pharmacy ben and reimbursed by the secu) and gave him the bib, plus you just freeze your milk .. Courage a toi! Bises

I had the same problem with my bb who has 2 ½ years now. I had to resume service and I started to bibi 2 months when he has tasted it has refused outright breasts and I was discouraged by in reality it helped me because if I did he would later not accept the bibi like telling his case earlier because I lived so his case with my first daughter ….."

I just answered this "When I see all the thumbs down that reaped the mothers not to breastfeed is beyond me. I'm not Mom, but I think each should respect the choice of the other, the choice is breastfeeding or breastfeeding "artificial." A mother who does not breastfeed is not necessarily a bad mother and a mother who breastfeeds is not necessarily a perfect mother ( there are no perfect mothers for that matter). Mothers who do not breast are often criticized, but they may be good reason to breastfeed their baby bottle (baby not sucking at birth, very severe pain in breast milk in quantities too low and so on). When I have children I do not know what breastfeeding (natural or artificial) I choose because I do not know if I can give him the breast, But whatever my choice, I always respect the choices of other mothers what it is, what few mothers are visible here. "this. Cettequestion http://fr.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100325020448AAzk7tV as to this question appears at the end of this page and will be less available, I relaunched the debate and I welcome your reactions to my response, thank you! @ scorpion: yes, I made my bad sentence … @ others: thank you for your answers, I expect even more! about me, as I have no children some will not be not found my answer very objective, but as I said I respect all the choices, I'm not criticizing or mums "bib" or the mothers' breasts "… and as said so Hawkgirl" better a bottle … "I let you read his response and his beautiful words.

There's no debate, there's just people tolerant and intolerant people.

I read your response. I am breastfeeding, but I am above all for freedom of choice of the mother. What matters to me is that the child and the mother goes well. I'm choosing to breastfeed, I loved the contact with my daughter and know that I gave him the best was very satisfying. Meanwhile, my sister did not breastfeed her two daughters and is his right. By cons what I could take my comments as negative on his part because I breastfeed! Short, I do not put thumbs down for the followers of the bib, I am not a place to judge the merits of their choice, they do not say it enough "better a bottle given with love one breast has reluctantly. Sibline @, with all due respect, I do not see the connection between the question and your screed pro Breastfeeding. Pelagie wants to highlight the fact that non-lactating mothers were often right moult inches below you and us an apology on breastfeeding … Moreover, if the jawbone where you have given birth was not pro-breastfeeding, it is not. Moreover, if the jawbone where you have given birth was not pro-breastfeeding, it is not LECAS everywhere! Tolerance is a two-way and if you want people to respect your choice lactation length, ALSO agrees that women do not want to offer their breasts to their child.

One realizes, in the field of nursing as in another, being pro-choice is always a difficult exercise, where the temptation to fall into the trap of "100%" or "100% cons "is very strong. The trick is not to sink into fundamentalism and trial inquisitor to punch. What many do too often, unfortunately. I'll add that, like a generation born in the 70s and generously showered with baby formula, I'm not dead. The evidence I am still here to write, I am still on my 2 legs, and I have a 3 digit IQ, or not very far ….

Indeed on Yahoo I noticed that the freedom of thought and almost doomed. If it was not the same opinion as everyone thumbs down rain … For my part I consider that there are such to try if a response is good to his question and that's not to judge others. Regarding breastfeeding my baby took the breast poorly and plus I had very little. I pulled my milk I had for 15 days but not more than one bottle per day. I'm glad I could give him my milk that said it was so hard that I breast feed may be more. We must learn to accept the choices of each .

BUT THERE IS NO DEBATE AND IS NOT TO DEBATE. We live in a democracy and we are free to choose their mode of feeding. POINT.

I agree, stop this stupid debate. It is in France and every mother has the right to choose what she wants to breastfeed or not. Breastfeeding is good, it is medically proven and everything but the artificial milk is good quality and are also healthy children. There's much more serious. There are countries where women do not decide anything. Ms. Badinter would do better to fight for them …

You know, since the time I did not even bother to respond. Wading in the meal is not worth it, explain why you've always twisted, I prefer silence, so much absurdity on the subject. Nice idea, thank you!

Honestly I do not think that what happens on this topic on the issue of breastfeeding reflects what happens in real life. It's a personal choice that affects the emotional, the blow on the Net reactions are disproportionate, at least I hope it … I also shocked me to read some sentences pro breastfeeding on this topic. After reflection and now that my girl is here, I realize that I tape Royal. My daughter I gave her the bottle and I'm delighted, I merged with it as if I had given him the breast. Period. And I confess also that those who choose to breastfeed are welcomed at first, but it lasts they are also victims of virulent criticism enough. The criticism is rife in both directions.

Breastfeeding is a natural thing for me that is extremely simple once everything is well formatted. Formerly, women were accompanied to breastfeed, they had the support of their mothers, their aunts, their grandparents mothers, neighbors. So the start on breastfeeding would probably be easier. All women breastfeeding a few exceptions and thus came together to benefit others. There was a baby suckle more if umbilicated nipple we knew the food galactogen to stimulate milk production, it helped the young mother that she sits and she might as well feed in good conditions. Since the 60 years, we encouraged women to stop breastfeeding by saying that it would be liberating. But the lure last only so long. All this knowledge transmission has fortunately not been lost and I tip my hat to associations like the League Leache that support breastfeeding women replacing the mother or the aunt who really knows. Y is there really a choice? "Yes, we pensepouvoir choose, but in the absence of real support, how breastfeeding fail and how successful breastfeeding? Nothing is done to encourage women to breastfeed or continue breastfeeding, even less time to breastfeed, although we often say the opposite and that we do believe otherwise. Must go back to work quickly as 3 months, while it was around 3 months that breastfeeding is just beginning to be well implemented. At the maternity ward, when you say you want to breastfeed, you do not more support they would have us believe. During my stay in the maternity, baby cried and 2 o'clock in the morning, I heard my daughter and did not sleep because I had trouble to give the breast. When the nurse came to see what was happening, she was brutally put in my daughter by forcing her to stay on him pressing his head. And we heard in the distance another baby would not stop crying. And the pediatric nurse rolled her eyes said, "Yeah, it's also a baby. And the pediatric nurse rolled her eyes said, "Yeah, it's also a bébéallaité" by implying that a breastfed baby can not sleep peacefully and style "you're really connes to subject it to your kids. "Then comes the pressure balance where the slightest difference in weight on the scales calls into question the success of your breastfeeding. A breastfed baby is losing weight at first, but it's something normal and yet they tell you this as something wrong and it makes you pinball, and we ask you ultimatums, style if your baby's No Tomorrow has not regained the weight they pass the bottle. When you give him an outright bottle of formula in your back. My stay in that motherhood was a hell where I had to fight constantly reminded forcefully that I did nothing for my daughter that my milk . I have even made sterile bottles in the room. I was put pressure so that I draw from colostrum to breast pumps and had interest enough to learn if they passed my daughter a bottle of formula. So where. Then westerly choice in all this? They must have a moral and steel to be 300% satisfied by breastfeeding, because it runs constantly full of things. Then when your breastfeeding is well established, we'll put even more pressure on you when asking Is what you're thinking of weaning your baby? If you are breastfeeding beyond 6 months, you pass for an alien. I recently heard in a video replayed at the site of the JT France 2 a report on the mothering female pediatric nurse who said it was pathological to want to breastfeed longer. We would'm saying women who do not want to see our children grow.

Breastfeeding is a choice no one discusses this point. But perso je trouve ca false to claim that milk powder is also "good" as breast milk is false. I'm not saying it is bad or harmful, or that children fed with bottles will all be allergic stunted. But we do not deprive me of the idea that these products made by multinationals bring to both children. there is more or less two years of Chinese children have died due to a product component in their milk powder, then the agreement is far from China, they are less stringent controls etc etc but I still tank because after the scandal bottles Advent to biphténol there will be one day the milk Nestl * enriched with hormones. breastfed by my belief (I offer the best of the best for my child) and not by choice.

Anyway whatever you do you are considered, you have not noticed? – When you got kids you're not criticized, you are treated to selfish … – If you have children (especially d 'close ages) you are treated to hen … – If you are breastfeeding you are asked a puzzled look: "Oh you are breastfeeding? And you count how long to breastfeed? not you afraid that you don' t abyss breasts? (Pfffff your bullshit and it does not deteriorate it?!), … "- Or when you're expecting twins and that you intend to breastfeed, you are asked with wide eyes:" You're going to breastfeed them both at the same time?! "- If you do not breastfeed, at any time you're considered a bad mother … And so on, I found that here in France and even now in 2010 there are still many people who are intolerant and disrespectful. It's pathetic! But everyone puree (e) mixes his c **! Pelagie Thanks for this question j'étoilise. Come on, one more star for you, I wish you much that you had a child. Bizette the dindonautes!

I recently saw a news story, where mothers breastfeed their infants until 3-4years … then I think there is a problem, anyway! After the women are what they seem, for their child point bar. The only thing I think is that those who do not breastfeed, will never know, this small privileged moment, indescribable, which is simply one between mother and baby.

I have several things to say. You write "when I see all the thumbs down that reaped the mothers not to breastfeed is beyond me." I expected to find lots of answers "anti-breastfeeding" riddled with thumbs down. So I went to read everything. It is 19h25, there are 16 responses, 16 responses posted, so none was removed and the 16 responses, only 1 is "not for" breastfeeding (which by the way is stupid, we might want or not wanting to breastfeed, but for or against a natural phenomenon that is anything, it's like being for or against earthquakes or the flight of birds). short! Only one answer on 16! Your sentence is not appropriate at all … This answer has collected 12 inches below (including my own stupidity for the double response) and 8 inches high (like how there are still quite ignorant to believe that formula milk equates milk and can be for or against. But I hate is this famous sentence etrabaissante completely hypocritical. I think everyone should be free to do whatever he wants without being judged and receive all the help they need, whatever their choice. We can only note that this is not the case. We made the big eyes of mothers who breastfeed and not be demoralized lactating. The medical staff is not trained and knows nothing about breastfeeding. It tells a lot of nonsense and its single solution for all problems is "weaning and give the bib. Hawkgirl, good for you if you got all the help you needed to maternity, but being Nursing godmother in real life and frequenting this site for several years, I can only see that you're the only one, unfortunately … I recall that does not help a mother to breastfeed, a physician violates not Only the Charter of Rights of the Child in May as the Hippocratic oath. I am in nursing long term (21 months) and since I was almost always drunk with "should stop thinking," she. I'm a long lactation period (21 months) and since I was almost always drunk with "should stop thinking", "elletète encooooooooooore !!!", etc. … At this point I stopped nursing in public. Has anyone ever seen a mother hiding in to the bottle? Furthermore, we see lots of stories extremes that do not reflect reality (the mother who forced his 7 year old son to suck). Full of anti-breastfeeding figures are publicized and stigmatize the act: everyone knows that compares Elizabeth Badinter in one of his interviews with the nursing chimpanzees, while advocating tolerance. And Marcel Rufo has become his daily broadcast on public television and says that breastfeeding more than 3 months is unhealthy and leads to serious psychological disorders in the baby … Do you know a single person pro-public breastfeeding? All that to say that currently in France, we must not delude ourselves and it is actually much more difficult to breastfeed more than 3 weeks bottle feeding. Still, it is supposed to live in a free country and there is always someone to find fault with our. Still, it is supposed to live in a free country and there is always someone to find fault with noschoix is super boring! Assume our choice Allaiton, give the bottle, nurturing us, respect us , support us, we love … Peace and love!

The response has been a lot of inches below suggests that industrial milk powder Gold = milk is a lie and I believe is misinformation. I have long nursed my daughter, my best friend did the has ever done and we get along very well! We are all mothers before and I completely respect the choice of every mother to breastfeed or not. However, I jumped when I hear that the milk industry is just as good (or better …) than breast milk because is simply false. Contrary to what you believe, virtually nothing is done to encourage or help mothers who want to breastfeed: no specific follow-through support for breastfeeding single motherhood really well trained to subject (parade of different midwives giving conflicting advice), maternity leave is too short … As the eyes of others: yes, it is "in" and saw to nurse a few weeks but when you breastfeed longer it quickly becomes an object of curiosity! In France, the breast is. As compared to other: yes, it is "in" and saw to nurse a few weeks but when you breastfeed longer it quickly becomes an object of curiosity! In France, breast estbeaucoup equated with sexuality when a mother nursing a baby "too old", people are beginning to find it disturbing if not unhealthy child … Breastfeeding is a natural act first and to create a wonderful relationship with his child. In France, we often feel that it is bottle-feeding is a natural act … therefore it seems important to support mothers who wish to breastfeed by providing advice and access to the site of La Leche League.