I am in shock!! I accepted the fact that I had many adventures in the past when I've always been pretty good, but it's too hard to collect, know that the man who loves a mi another woman pregnant is really receiving a slap even if it's past. that abortion was a traumatic experience for him and he still thinks, that means that deep down maybe he wanted to keep this baby . this story makes me sick.

it is not worth the trouble leaves – the

Couples therapy with a psychiatrist, it might help if it really poses a problem for your relationship. Or at least try to talk with a specialist but it would certainly be easier. If you like I think you would succeed him forgive the mistake, which I think happens to a lot of man. Do not live in the past, but it's OK forever. ^ ^ Good luck.

I lived it but if I stayed away 1yr and a half with a man when I was younger and I fell pregnant while we were not "adult" but we were really just love this baby was no plans for projects or studies or for the mine blow our parents forced us al 'abortion but ty can not help if your man has a pregnant woman you know sometimes it's less painful to learn that after a few years relationship that your man has children hide …. the ace he will say he lives here is wrong but I think every people who have experienced abortion tromatisant I see this as a son of 3 years and I am 6 months pregnant and even today I look at this baby .. . we all have our shadows in the past some less glorious than the other but we must accept … courage you

Yes and then? it's ancient history, its not concern you, it's past …. it's as if you had met this man with a child from another marriage … What you have done? ?? never accepted? leave? seriously not see how I look at you … its just like the girl who underwent abortion … this is their story not yours.

But that was before you, and the past is the past, and you can not prevent him from having any regrets and to confide in you. It is the act that guilt is normal, this is not a trivial matter that is soon forgotten, but not necessarily the fact that he did not have this bb, they do had no desire neither one nor the other if they were to bout.Si he confides in you, is that he needs you.

Weird that you say, and you accepted that there is a second ???!!!! the problem is in you.

pfffffftt.

Hello. To make a long story short, I'll be the mother of a girl only a few details worry. When I learned to my ex boyfriend I was pregnant, he did Not at all appreciated and every sequence that I wanted to undergo an abortion, but I was not in agreement with that. After having been harassed to serious threats to that j'intérompe my pregnancy, we will resolve all this go to court (history threats …) I really want to know if in this case there is something to do so it can never to reappear out of nowhere and come to disturb the psychological growth of my child.

Unfortunately not unless it is dangerous and violent to the child but he needed proof. To name the child bears the name of the person who first recognized in this case you.

It would be best to ask you to justice or a lawyer to know what recourse you can avoir.Quoi it is we must first think about the future of the unborn child.

You can not. Any man can recognize any child in any municipality without your agreement … should know that very few men do! If the father does not recognize the child during its first year, you'll only parental authority after he admits he will have no authority over the child, which does not relieve possibly pay a pension. I was in exactly the same situation as you. I chose to keep my daughter (who is now 7 1 / 2 years) and I have never regretted! His father has never been heard from or responded to some pictures that I sent him the early years … but I do not "hate" not: without him, my darling daughter is not there and would not the person she is. She speaks often of his father, it was a painful subject and would be delighted s it reappeared … me, much less, but I would do nothing to prevent a link to create them if she wanted. If his father reappears, it does. If his father reappears, it does not "disturb" no growth of your daughter, she will be happy (and blow, thou shalt be happy for it) is painful for these children to know completely rejected by the parents. It is important not to lie about its history, and tell her that YOU, you wanted more than anything, do not overwhelm her father for his absence, even if you can complain that it makes him to her grief. My life with my daughter is a delight for 7 years, it is very full and we are very close, and it does not prevent me from meeting someone who is great with her adorable and has fully adopted. good baby … I wish you the best!