Hello! I gave birth 10 weeks ago now, and I can not recover. I am very tired every day I feel empty all my strength. Yet I am on maternity leave, and baby is almost sleeping through the night! The fact that breastfeeding is something to do? A motherhood, I was given 2 infusions of iron, so I was weak before returning home. What would you do for me? Is this normal as fatigue after you? @ FANFAN: I'm pretty beefy as the daughter, so much to feel tired, I think there might be something … But since this is my first pregnancy, I tell myself that it might be normal … I'll do a blood test, you're right. I panic a bit, I take the job in 10 days! @ Angie: You're right, I have not yet taken a bath, which I love! I think I have anemia, it's my weakness, but my morale is slightly lowered as well. What happens to my BF eats me. I force myself not to think too much, so it does not strike me these wonderful moments that I spend with my daughter.

I would do an assessment of iron ….. talk to your doc good ….. you tell me … I gave birth 17 months ago … and I'm still tired … well mine did not sleep through the night …

This is normal, you have lost a lot of blood during delivery of your two iron infusions. Talk to your doctor, I think he'll prescribe you iron or dietary supplements (vitamins). Otherwise it is normal to be tired;) do not worry it will pass even if it can be long, we have all our time for rehabilitation.

YES it is normal to be tired after 10 weeks delivery. This can last from 2 to 6 months following people … You had an iron deficiency anemia more so it's not really surprising! You have a blood refasses because you lack can be even iron! Surprising that you are breastfeeding baby is anemic, tired a lot because that breastfeeding … In your place I return to my doctor, he will probably prescribe iron (as the result of the blood) and vitamins you because breastfeeding can cause anemia … Good luck and do not hesitate to get some sleep when baby sleeps, it will do you the most good and waiting to see your doctor, drink orange juice, eat clementines, this will help a little … Kisses to you and baby

I was also very tired for some time after birth (well, I would say almost a year before I really feel as before). Breastfeeding does not help, because it forces your body to work more to produce milk, but this is not the main reason. You also lose blood, and then there is the drop in hormones. And the season does not help with all these changes in temperature … Maybe you should still do a blood test to check especially the iron but also other things, magnesium … In the meantime, try to rest a max, the same rate as baby … Courage.

hello You have enough iron, after a year of pregnancy I still lack iron, breastfeeding has nothing to do with that, goes to your doctor he will see later, I'm TARDYFERON 80 pesos for 3 more months! !

I had the same worries iron level and I give birth more or less the same time as you. I'm exhausted and I'm also back iron does not change anything … At the same time my little one is very difficult at night and have "large" with only a year … So unfortunately I can not advise you except to try to make the most of your maternity leave. Hope you feel better afterwards.

Breastfeeding a little tired but he will also secrete endorphins, which gives a feeling of well being. When you stop breastfeeding there is a big hormonal decline and often blow a big drop in morale … So I advise you rather continue to breastfeed and to check with your doctor if you do not have anemia or a disruption in the thyroid. And if you're really not in ability to return to work, you'll have a sick leave for you to retype a little! Courage!

Well for me it's the opposite of fishing I have a hell! Ewen does not sleep through the night but it leaves me 5 hours to sharpen, as is the large school in the morning I go slowly and afternoon I take a nap at the same time. For Alyssa was a thousand times more tired than this! Well I have a girlfriend that did that too except that after six months it collapsed, the cons shot from his doctor …. I think I'd be tired of my recovery. Meanwhile, the blood test is a good idea and we should know if you're tired of the lack of sleep or physically exhausted and / or morally? Because then you should leave your pucinette his dad or another to take time for yourself, if only for bathing or reading girly magazines. Good luck!

Various studies have shown that there was no significant difference in fatigue between a breastfeeding mom and not breastfeeding. It being a new mom, with all that that implies, that fatigue. You can actually make a small blood test to check if you are anemic or if you have other shortcomings. If you're really too tired, your maternity leave may be extended by one month for "pathological puerperium. Do not hesitate to ask your doctor. Take some time for you, even if only 10 minutes a day and drops with your fine son. The Grand is leaving three months, you'll have time to notify his back and tell yourself that at his age he has never been so close to leaving home, especially if it starts to taste the joys of independence. Good luck!

Hello, Do you continue to take iron? I also missed the birth of iron and I was exhausted. But as I recovered I could not breastfeed. I also remember that what I was not tired much baby because she has her nights since he was three weeks maismoi! I put pressure hell! Cleaning thoroughly sanitizing the flat limit, every morning, I stressed so much that I woke up every hour to verify that baby go well … I never confided to anyone! In short it's going better now that I have released the pressure! But requires a blood test to check your iron levels if you do not have treatment. And relax you! Enjoy a max they grow up so fast! Good luck

Several questions in one. I was wondering if you had the baby blues "shortly after childbirth. I am not talking about depression or other. I just want to talk a big pain just after the birth of your baby that has been caused by something special. I was three days after birth, when I was told that my baby had lost 800 grams (even if it was a mistake to scale) and need to think about getting a bottle, I had not made the breasts for breastfeeding (you talk, that's 14 months I breastfeed, one just tell me yet, "I broke his mouth: op). I do not know why I thought of my mother who then died several years ago and I felt so terribly alone. I cried all day, every word made me cry like a madeleine. I think it was triggered by the pressure they put me after the birth. I wonder if we can avoid it.

This is due to the drop in hormones!

I also had this little depressed hormone in the first week of life of my children. I still remember sitting on the floor in the process of folding diapers and I had a sudden urge to cry, but scream like that for nothing. No trigger, no problems that could cause this reaction. I knew it was a possibility the baby blues, I bawled my fill and I switched to something else. Strange that reaction is not it?

The baby blues is more or less clearly known. The hormonal factor is also involved in a hand trigger, fatigue, emptiness in her body. We always say that after birth we saw his own birth so it's normal that you think of your mother at this time. It must be three months on average for it to pass if it persists you should consult there may be a lack in the body (iron etc. …) to control.

Honestly, I do not know if what I have is a baby blues. On returning home, I started to cry, I wanted everything to be perfect and darling had made efforts but the house was not like I wanted: not the laundry folded, and a huge blanket (gift of beautiful mom ) loose on the armchair in the lounge. Then I knew what to do, the only advantage of living in maternity is that everything is nearby, at home it took me to rapproprie space. During 3 / 4 days I have had episodes of tears in the evening and also the first night when she woke up to eat. I think it was as much due to fatigue.

No I do not think we can not "… To avoid the hormone … I got it fairly quickly from the clinic, every night when my husband left me to 20h was a tear and I cried like a madeleine, the poor helpless every time … it was a hard 24/48h once back at home And every time I had a right to question "Darling that is there? It will not? "And it happened as quickly as it came.

For me not really baby blues but something big stress when I found a prolapse (cervix low, right over the vulva) 15 days after delivery. Berk, I suddenly felt very old and very damaged. It took me 3-4 days. So completely egocentric blues by cons as I expanded the relationship with my baby, I do not feel outdated, I felt well-doing, especially as I do felt.

As MarieCat, I do not know if it was the baby blues or not … morning because it was going really better. It was evening at the second part. I had many visits the day (but I like to be alone so I was delighted), between feedings that have happened from the start to wonder, my son slept almost all day no worries … And then came the evening around 18h-19h … Night was falling back in December, everyone was leaving, the day shift was replaced by the night shift but apart from the cries of the bb in the hallways all calmed down … … Except my son who began to cry … and it lasted all night until morning like 5am … beh and I can tell you that enclosed between four walls the night with a baby who is just screaming is super long! Direct, I'm worried to find myself alone with my bb, I remember having the reaction of a kid when my baby came home, I collapsed in tears on her "I laaaiiiisssse paassssss ouiiiinnnn" … … I do not know what to do. I do not know what to do pourqu'il be zen … In fact I felt that my bb already knew me very well, he asked me something to relieve me and I do not understand at all … I think it was due to my inexperience, the fact of not really knowing what to do? (Leave crying, put in the night, put it up against me but I was afraid of crashing, it chokes … with regurgitations short I took the lead … I was wrecked and the screams did not help …) … I heard weeping in the next room I remember I was going to kick him two fingers "Hey, I'm your neighbor … do you mind if we all feel great galley there alone?" Brief upon reflection, I think I really put the pressure alone … I understand now that the stay in maternity is completely different from home, and you really have to go by feel, maximum response to the needs of bb …. bb keep everything against us, put it in at will (I. bb keep all against one, put it in at will (moiqui am a real breadboard and despite my caesarean, two days after I had the breasts of Samantha Fox), no it does not choke, I did not 'crush not sleeping … but well maybe I could sleep at night without a cable peter!

Hou siiiiii that! Hard drive when I think … What triggered it: "Madam you the impression, we'll just take stock of their skills, see if everything goes well and if it has no consequences "because it is premature in my head …. it was like a electric shock" because it's something that can not go? "" I know it when you very concon but now think that I became the mother took her daughter for fear … And then my mom like you to thousands of kilometers, the ticket was only for one month half after birth provided Alyssa … I was alone and lonely, zom he does understand me and I confess that I myself could not understand myself. But when I said "hopefully" ouffff "but" ha: heart problem: followed mandatory, more fear than harm, it is always followed next appointment is next year and will be notified until I avoid thinking about it. By my lovely!

Ha la la … the baby blues I think few recovers … Listen … Live the hormones I'd say that by four months, yet I grew not yet laid. By the pregnancy cons' blues I know it must be like .. Suddenly, for something that normally stressful to do a little, I blubber like a madeleine … My husband thinks every time the disaster … fatigue, hormones, stress, and is the pffiuuu cata …

Me, I do not think I had the baby blues due to the drop in hormones. Immediately after birth, I was on my little cloud. Then, fatigue took over. My big blow depressed, I had one month to Junior, when breastfeeding has begun fucked (candidiasis).

Oh yes, the baby blues have I got it. I managed not to breastfeed my daughter, and how the medical team made me feel … I felt like the worst mother … My companion did not surrender yet well aware of fatigue related to the baby (he quickly realized the house) and therefore not helping me not like I wanted. Besides my father died when I was four months pregnant was not there to see my chip and it is in those moments where we know that a particular person should be where the absence becomes hard to manage. I was thinking about her last words "If I'm doing and I am blessed to be able to take your child in my arms I'd be the happiest of men …" So I cry to cry all the tears from my body but after that was better.

Oh yes, I also know: fatigue, stress, my breast has gone wrong, a fight with my parents (they have chosen their moment well huh) I did make one beautiful. I hope one thing, that my neighbor is a little less important because I really feel that my stay in the mat was ruined by that damn baby blues.

Hello, I breastfeed my son is born on 23.02. However, I want him to accept the bottle from time to time because it's a real glutton and I have very sore breasts. Do you have any tips for there is not very convincing … I also would like particpants to daddy! Thank you @ Jack say that my little application in the non-stop, the end of the day my breasts in "apple" and psychologically I take more pleasure. I tried to satisfy his nipples need sussion but he rejects … That's why

Aha, welcome to the club j'étoile your question, I hope you will have the solution, to me it was total denial

two solutions: 1) it is really because you have sore breasts that you want him to accept the bottle, in which case I suggest you contact the more 'leche league', as have sore breasts is not normal is that the position in is not good. It is easily corrected, and in any case it has nothing to do with "greed" of your child. 2) You want to wean, but for other reasons (that's what I think, basically) and then I advise you to go first as gently as possible and then gradually, you can make your own milk, and give him the bottle. It is a nice progression for him. Then gradually you put milk in another, and here we go.

I was like you at the beginning and I am at 14 months of breastfeeding with 12 days suckling breasts lol s'habitus has long but it's true that it's hard. I advise the forum "just parent" or even "the follies in tétouilleurs" you'll find answers, comfort, support and advice …

Honestly, I do not know … A man is inherently awkward in front of a tiny piece of Male or Female, I have no children and appropriate advice! But both mom and baby ( and the AHS course, if there is one) many JOYS!! Hugs!

Hello, My daughter is almost 3 months and last week I tried to introduce the bottle as I go back to work in a little over a month. She flatly refused the bottle 100% milk powder recommended by the pediatrician . He was then given a bottle with my milk (to get used to the teat and bottle feeding). No worries, she drank directly. So the problem lies in the formula that necessarily has a different taste or smell like my milk … So yesterday, I'm a bottle 3 / 4 of my milk I shoot manually and 1 / 4 of milk powder. The first 2 tests but she refused then she took! Tomorrow I'll try a bottle of 50/50. But beware, for now I can replace a feeding a day (6 to 8 depending on the day). Otherwise, if it does not work, you can give him a little quentité milk powder to a spoon or syringe or twice a day to accustom to the taste. Good luck!

There are special teats bib with breastfeeding, it is more like in the other selected a pacifier silicone, not rubber. prefers to put the bib in your milk (that you draw by hand or using a breast milk ). testing once a day to start the bib, know that after your bb wish may still be the breast is normal, give it to him. for the bib, it is possible that bb says you gave it to him, or even that you're in the room, it's normal, it feels and you want what he's used (breast), he may refuse his dad, normal, it does not smell your smell which reassures him. if you find that hard to make, sets in, and once it starts to work breast, gently insert the bib in his mouth and gently remove the breast at the same time. requires that the temperature milk you offered him more or less equal to the temperature of your milk (very difficult to find, but at first this change may disrupt bb) if he refuses, insist not, but does not hesitate to repeat. Requires that the temperature of the milk you offer him more or less equal to the temperature of your milk (very difficult to find, but at first this change may disrupt bb) if he refuses, insist not, but n does not hesitate to attempt refairedes regular (not even 50 times in the day, otherwise it will abut against and reject this thing as soon as he feels!) if not for your breasts, think after each feed to properly apply the last drop Milk (support on your breast) on the whole nipple and let it dry before repacking! you can also change the position of nursing, so that the nipple is stimulated in different places good continuation

I have my period of February 13 but I still have nothing. I take two blood samples and two urine tests, including one yesterday, all negative. : '- (In the absence of my period hard j'ovule whether or not, my doctor told me that my cycle could take a long time to come back normally,'autant that still breastfeeding. However much I confirm that even without rules can ovulate (this is true for you?) since this afternoon I have pain in left side, say between the pubis and navel, when I push the pain increases. j ' I feel like a knife in my stomach. is that it might sign of ovulation for you? thank you in advance! I was wrong for one hour or so, nothing to worry about I think in any case not enough to see!

It is best to consult a gynecologist.