Does The Attachment One Has For Her Baby Is Bound To Its Natural Smell?
Wednesday, September 22nd, 2010I ask because I noticed something: We have a little boy of one month and a half. The first month, I washed the baby a lot. Every day. (Kk for breastfed babies) Papa does not care much for babies (it very much worried by the way) He was nice, but do not take little or leaving me totally do it. When I asked him to look after, he gasped and said you have you got your marks, not me. I'll never get there. As if he had not treated this baby as their own. Since I stopped breastfeeding, it is much less dirty. I do the washing so that two or three days ( I think it's silly to attack his skin all the time) I wash it every day its seat "the Glove", and always in the eye serum physical course. But most of daily baths. When he is not washed the day His hair (there are many) feel a smell typical "baby perspiration. I like nothing more, I prefer when he feels his good shower gel. … But Dad It. Ilse literally kicking with its smell (when not washed), breathing her hair, the cuddly, the bisouille like crazy (naturally), he said 50 times that is beautiful and it smells good , softened for nothing, and even show any change in disgust. It takes them willingly, nothing to see BC in the first month. By cons, when I just wash it, it's as if the charm stopped to act: it takes care of her son so many months spontaneous. ATTENTION: it does not reject it, but there is less interest and interéagis ave him a much less natural … It's strange no? How do you explain that? (and I would add that on a completely different register, I noticed he felt more desire for me when I come not to wash …)
Men are strange animals, Henry IV when he returned from battle and his mistress would find the time to send him a message asking her to do more to wash especially when she asked him to take a bath above. It stank abominably must say …
First positive: it's better for you, for him and for your kid and that's great! For the rest no idea! But you make me feel good I smell Kinder under the nose and I'm at your feet, so … By
Already this is good news if it goes better with Dad! For your question, it would seem that you live with a "real man" … who loves body odor … Why not, after all, we're just animals, and some are more sensitive to odors than others … Also, it's okay not to wash baby every two or three days, you have everything absolutely right not to "attack" her baby's fragile skin …
bah, already, that's better … to live happy, live dirty! lol doubt, the link is also being built (especially?) by the smell. Let us not forget that we are animals, that our brain is always there, even if it was throttled by the so-called " progress ". How do lions, cows, elephants, to recognize their small (and vice versa)? it is neither the first nor the clothing, but just by the smell. Why small lion kills not it? Because the smell is foreign, even unbearable … PS totally porn on your PS: the baby's armpits end of the day, armored pheromones …. arf …. dear me more effective when he feels his male scent when he stinks shower gel. (It seems heretical to suck a soap, you know the trick? Lol) … and it is reciprocal and bounce-boing boing-on body odor, the smell of perspiration on someone else it sickens me … that of beloved m'envoûte …. The smell creates the link itself allows us to "love" the smell of the other, the two feed off each other like, my brain smoke: the term used for someone you don ' not like she is not "I can not feel it" or, "I can not blair (blair = nose slang)
I think so in this case the smell plays a role. Anyway we are mammals so it's just normal and it also has to spend time and usually it takes naturally even if it takes time!
We are mammals lol. The expression "him I can not feel" really means what it means. The smell of my baby is something that I was completely drunk at his birth. I am not tired of the smell. But to my dismay, the next day they came to me to wash. I cursed those who did this. It's like they had lost something of my daughter and I was very upset. For the next baby, I strongly refuse that washed me. When I got home, I have washed that after one week. When I felt ready to doingAnd because I wanted to find her scent, but in vain. I had already washed myself in motherhood, but I did not make him suffer that again. And then I washed every three or four days. For poop, I have not had any problems, I washed her bottom directly under the faucet and then, as I practiced HNI it was shit directly into the sink it was enough to flush a little. His poop was a. Uneodeur His poo was butterscotch, I'd almost eaten. I continue to wash with the product that was used to motherhood. This is the only smell that remains. My husband sniffs all the time, he likes the smell of sweat. lol I think it must be due to a hormonal perspective. The pheromones that we derive
@ Sibline, would you please, be kind enough to enlighten my brain on how nulliparous HNI you speak of?? Thank you!;) …/… Wikipedia is my friend … and just tell me what What natural infant hygiene. well, well, I am still childless, lol, but at least I will sleep less stupid tonight! @ Angry Chicken, I am pleased to read that the tension with your husband subsided. qu'ça Provided lasts!