This is what I have read "there are people who have studied the CNRS the ideal age difference for the brothers and sisters. They found that the worst – and beforehand, I'm sorry but it ' CNRS is – is an age difference of three years, what everyone does. Because only 3 years, you're independent, you have the language, cleanliness, you go to kindergarten . And here comes a boy or a girl, the mother stops working, she is breastfeeding, dad takes paternity leave. This boy is capable of anything, he does not understand, when you weigh, it does not respond and idealizes everyone as you, you are asked to be autonomous. This is the key to rivalry. CNRS researchers say that the earliest difference creates a somewhat twins but, against the distance, four, five, six years is ideal. Because the child has are his memories and so can withstand the arrival of a little brother or sister. So it is quiet.. This great age difference creates real bonds of brotherhood: they will not fight over toys. The elder will return to CE1, while the second is a baby. And that's good, because the elder has his memories to him memories of family, child of a family who belong to him. So the advice for parents who have children with this difference age is to tell him about the past, before the baby arrives rather than at birth. The idea is to say: "You, when you were a baby, that's what happened …" And we built it as a past to protect the future of brotherly two children with that age difference. "What do you think? Are you it and that of your situation and your children?

the reasoning makes sense, but in reality, 6 years is enormous. However, it is true that I am closer to my older sister (+4) that my youngest (-2) will then know

I have three children and me but first 2 are 2 years apart …. I would never do it again oulalala children of this gap. It even made me wonder whether I made the right choice to bear children. .. reassure you today I am convinced my third was 6 years and 4 years gap with brother's wedding and how perfect wowwww … the gap as big sister plays with AC and cares and medium and love it always helps me it is true that my children ask me when I was Souvant mom baby is what I fesait ca me too if I had to start again lollll I would like the same kids but it would have all 5 years apart basically I would say that I agree with your idea

The age difference of 3 years, I know. But it is true that a difference of 6 or 7 years (like my nephew who is 6 years apart with his little brother), there is no jealousy and everything goes well and the icing on the cake Mom gets forward to help the elder to the younger brother or sister. My daughters are 17 months apart and it is true they sometimes behave like binoculars. Which is the great tendency to copy the small (not wanting to grow up on some things), while small, it evolves as a second faster than the first, as is often the cadets. My daughters are very complicit but jealousy is there by now, I think, however, it is healthy if it is not unbearable but it is our case at the moment.

I am an only child. However, my two years were two years apart (2 years and 10 days) and is a bit closer. Small, it has tended to treat the great as great as it was just a baby. It was hard for her. Bigger, they were treated on an equal footing, which was hard to also since denied him his status. That said, it does not seem to have suffered too and do not complain.

What you wrote is what Marcel Rufo said this morning on his show. So there are 2 things: the study of the CNRS and the opinion of Marcel Rufo.

We are a figment of the imagination, people who échaffaudent theories to earn a meager living, as specialists in science education, or ministers without advising the other children I had hoped that my children are two years apart, nature has decided that it would be 3 ½ years I am about to study the genealogy of families in a town in the seventeenth and eighteenth centuries, beginning late sixteenth, early seventeenth century the range was 3 years, then two years .. and then often a year in the late seventeenth century. Hello dear birth control to "scholars" in the second half of the eighteenth century France, the beginning of the demographic transition C'mon … If these people did useful work instead of being paid for their rantings? That would save

I think it's anything to lather it all depends on the family balance

my son, I breastfeed exclusively, and has a month and a half, has a very big need to suck. But he refuses to take the Susu, so it is still clinging to my breasts. We tried and those silicone rubber cvelles, he does not want any. For those who have had this problem, you have succeeded in making the Susu your bits, and if so, how?? ps: this question is not a debate on whether to give or not the Susu babies! thank you to those who answer me susu = pacifier, pacifier, Totoche sorry … the usual infinite, actually, AC must be the hormones though … I went through, and I've never been unpleasant. Thank you for your constructive response, and quite relevant to my question valerie, I did not know there were different forms, it may be the solution . titelout thank you, my son tries to suck his fist, but it irritates the fast. he managed to find his thumb once, and has not resumed. for the blanket, your son has nibbles at what age?

the "susu"?? your child is a baby, but you should be able to write non-pacifier? nb: sorry, AC must be the hormones, but the baby talk adults ca me bristle. I await the thumbs down. ..

where are we going? the SUSU, you mean the vuvuzela, you have a hair on the tongue!

There are different subjects but also different forms. There are those of a round tip and curved. Have you already tried all forms in both subjects? Some babies are a little difficult …

You can try different materials and forms in effect, but if your baby does not always want, you can: – give your little finger is a little less painful than having it in all day while every so practical – the incentive to take his fingers had him – give him something else to chew on a fabric such as thou know the teddy bears in a square with knots at each corner, for example, my son loves to chew on nodes or "must" label. My son also had this enormous need, we gave her the pacifier but he had a hard time taking it, so we had him take the time he falls asleep … hopefully it did not last long, barely one month since he found his thumb thereafter, I wish you that this is the same for your baby! @ loulou also took my fist! and such that it would like the nerves fast! I thought he had this blanket that later he was already five months I think. but I think even a little younger they can do it!

cuckoo clock to answer your question I think as some people try different shape if and to which the idea of a blanket or nibbles tisue this is not a good idea because after asse movait meaning and no more c very clean or sponsored funds it is time to find an inch in terms of its meter's time I can I breastfeed this one of my twins for medical resont and has never wanted a pacifier compared are brother and great sucking a pacifier for him after I found the thumb is that my son does not find it until about age 2 I was almost hoping to be able to help you

me I try to give them but they have never wanted so I shall not insist but suddenly I gave them a bib water and occasionally (very especially for my second daughter) they fell asleep, but especially they calmed down, but after my first daughter's teddy nibbles to 8 / 9 months, but my second daughter has never done, so I was not really the answer to your question, but I wanted to let you know what I did, good evening and well darling your son