… that you put your baby on your belly when it comes out? "Excuse me, but I find it quite disgusting. I know we will say that I am not maternal or something, and that is supposedly good for children … But, there are lots of mothers who refuse to breastfeed for reasons of "disgust" sensation "animal", and it does not shock anyone! (as it is, in my opinion, much more beneficial for the child to be placed on the womb in the early minutes of his life) I want to breastfeed, with all my heart … but then that … no, I'm pregnant and this aspect of the delivery m'horrifie, and I'm afraid to send me graze by the medical team if I make this point … to talk to ? I much prefer that my first contact with my little love is when it is all good clean, rather than covered (and still plugged the cord for that matter) … to my own chest! (how horrible !!!!!) but I think I'd blocked thereafter. with my own entrails! (how horrible !!!!!) but I think I'd blocked thereafter, seriously … So, can we refuse? Is this some understand me and have done so well?
yes you can ask and you can even ask to let the cord a few minutes for the baby benefits from the blood that is rich in beneficial because I know what to release in late pregnancy. I saw it and I thought it was smart not to cut immediately
I'll tell you ma'am, you can request that you do not put your child on you in the first minutes. It certainly does not force you. Just know that, for now, you're only in projections …. When he is born, you will perhaps not at all in these provisions there. You talk about your little love you do not know … it's a perfect child as you wait, the truth is otherwise. Your baby will in any way one or a stranger with whom he will have to get acquainted, build relationships … Everything this is not automatic. The first few minutes are important, the crucial first contact. The baby in your belly is not caused directly know your skin because you have a cotton blouse. Her skin is bare him very little time we do not let them get cold. Baby is not dirty. Hence it comes, there is no dirt … This is not a bloody baby that we will put you on is your child. It is not as you imagine, it will be such that it is already. And the reality is that. And the reality is quel'on must renounce any part of this baby venue for the true … one that will grow with you. This story of cord and intestines, is something that makes no sense … When you've given birth, believe me, you'll forget the details … For me, it was a glare. I was given life and the stories of fear … was far behind.
t'inquiete there is a small towel or blanket over your belly to accommodate the baby or whether its the skin to skin contact that bother you otherwise of course you have the right to request not to have baby on your belly!
I am the same opinion as you and I do not see why the medical team should send you packing. for my 1st delivery I make clear to the midwives that I did not want me they put the baby with lots of blood on my stomach because when I saw it on TV disgusts me and I did not have a distaste for my baby and again I have breastfed more than 2 years and I've never felt like an animal. I am pregnant for the third and I'll always be on the same point of view, as the baby is not clean I would not want to put me on the belly
Sure, it's just disgusting that baby all sticky, I had 2 caesareans, dc nobody told me was not on my belly but my 1st they asked me if I wanted to do a kiss j ' I said yes, well I almost vomit! shame! I was too bad! So I told myself I walk the 2nd would not of kisses right now but the question is not asked because there was fetal distress they were soon brought to see the pediatrician as soon leaving the stomach. Then they brought me were all clean Qques moments later, there was really super super super. Talk to the medical team before, everything will be fine, courage
yes you can refuse, although it is fair to say midwives in times of childbirth by cons … I've never asked, ca s is done alone, I've just helped him out a and hop directly against me, skin to skin, c is the best time of my life …
And that I loved that I put it on me right out ………… Obviously you need to tell the midwives, rather it will not ill judge you, it is better to wait two minutes that you bring your angel a little cleaner, the sooner you spray it on! it does not make you a bad mother! I just do not understand too that it can so you shy …… but hey we're all different:) And then will know, maybe it will come out when you have that it is a desire to inflame, clean or not, I wish you a beautiful birth! By