Hello everyone! We are a young couple of former students now in search of jobs and we just learned that we will be parents in just over 7 months! The concern is that our situation is difficult We live for the moment without resources as we seek both work but in vain, my boyfriend is going back to school in September but until then nothing is safe! My question: in our situation which aid can touch? During my pregnancy but also the arrival of baby … I wish he lacks nothing but I can not afford! So I count on you to help me! PS: I know what some will think like solution: abortion. But NO! This baby was not planned, not in our situation, but now it is here in me it grows every day and is the fruit of our love, how could I kill him?? No, never! Please give serious answers please! I should have specified: my boyfriend again alternating studies in September, ie. But NO! This baby was not planned, not in our situation, but now it is here in me it grows every day and is the fruit of our love, how could I kill him?? No, never! Please give serious answers please! I should have specified: my boyfriend takes studies alternately in September, to direqu'il is sure to have a salary (at least 800 €) per month for 2 years. For many months the only jobs being proposed replacements are just a few weeks, then it is thanks so one is never sure of anything. We are looking in all areas, thank you for the courage, we do not lack.
contact the nearest caf, but most importantly, make sure to find work quickly. I'm not quite sure either that this is the best time for your friend to resume studies … is not what will boil the kettle … Well anyway, regardless of the aid that you may have, it will not be enough to raise your child correctly. It takes at least that your friend works full time. I hope that you can count on a bit of help from your parents, or it may be very difficult … As for you, holds you now to find a way to care for your baby, otherwise you'll end up at-home mom … Courage …
during pregnancy you'll have a birth grant of 800 € at the 7th month of pregnancy and the baby once you've got the basic allowance of CAF that is € 177.80 monthly to the birth of your baby until its 3 years, and that's it! is little in order to live! If you have a paid maternity leave by secu starting 6 weeks before the DPA and will continue after 10 weeks, but as you've never worked I do not know of any basis on which will be calculated as there normally is calculated on a combination of your last 3 months of wages. Apart from this if you have no right assedic I do not want to be pessimistic but you gallery without any income. The only solution that you try working before the birth to open your rights to unemployment and then have some income when your vacation is over maternté time to find something else, but also said work to sit her child and it is expensive even with the aid of CAF. this is not the time for your friend. This is not the time for your amide resume his studies, he would do better to work on time as the situation settles and then you'll feel better when he can resume his studies. Defeat leaves you to work in anything, food, mac do, these are occupations where there is no need for qualifications and where it occurs on the job, I say this because there is a decade when I was looking for a job in my the secretariat branch I worked in acting for a living while waiting to find what I wanted it lasted 4 months, and I do not regret it because during that time I had a salary. Even if my friend was working and that we were not in your situation need j'vaais this work. There are no silly business you know. Good luck because you will have to.
Far less the idea of judging you, but you do not have the feeling to take the problem upside down?