I dream that I was breastfeeding my niece's son who is 1 year. He laughed and was very much pleased by sucking

and what is the question yacine tell me?

but it all say it's fantastic to see, and the question is??

I know more and more apparent personality … everything I do is never enough for her son for her grandchildren … fortunately it is far … but still not enough … And you worry I'm not alone in this case? Before I could think was the Best of Beautiful mother but since I had my children she can make reflections as if she had a right to his grandchildren. – She wanted to give its opinion on the choice of the nanny – she blames me instead of working to keep children BEFORE: – she reproached me for my work at home because I glands for her – she blames me to reproach to my husband … because a woman should serve her husband GRRRRRRRRRRRRR strangle him for that … because she is a slave of a man who does nothing and that is all macho like the only thing he does is good sexually, so why complain …. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR I hate … I hate it too because my stepfather is also a wound … -. He called to prevent their children will see it and wonder what I intend to cook … so called because it is always disgusting ;-( – after eating it will collapse on the couch, leaving me clear the table … – THE WORST OF THINGS: It is said that cons toujorus my authority in front of children Your Mum is bad … you can take a sweet Grandpa authorize you. For the work I had to do training so I left my children with my lovely parents. and my son told me that I was a BAD MOM and more it has captured my daughter who was only four months he would give me more GENRE AHHHHHH it will not sleep I'm going to bed … Fortunately I breastfeed my children because when we were in weekend home … baby crying and told them that many arrived to take me to give them a bottle … sorry for the pavement … I wanted MY SPITTING VENOM GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR … … my parents are the ones they call to 1O minutes before coming … they still ask me if. they still ask me s'ilspeuvent take the children … brief them they respect my choice … NOT EASY …

you are very badly fallen! I hope your husband takes at least your defense! Courage! We were fortunate to have great parents on both sides!

Unfortunately, when one marries one wife, family

Ah yes not easy. This is not my case, but reassures you, the wicked stepmother is not a myth, you're not alone! I had a stepmother who did not love me (I'm too shy apparently) and that allowed everything. Fortunately I had no children, otherwise I might bite. I know a girl in your case. The parents are beautiful so heinous they see them less often. Loved the stepmother said that under the law, grandparents have the right to take the kids (to go on holiday for example) even if the parents do not want. Incredible! And that says your husband?

I understand you perfectly because my stepmother is even worse, a vixen. It behaves even worse than yours and besides, she married a man much older than her, they do not love and therefore she leaves her husband dying in her bed all day and it passes his time running after my fiance. When she speaks of her husband, she says "grandpa" because it is more x's father, she believes that my fiance is his. She harasses the phone, even when you're traveling, 10 calls per day. If it does not, unfortunately, calls for the whole family and entourage to call. She must know where he is (40), blends of business, told my fiance that I am not good to eat him x (whereas the reverse). She tried everything to separate us, really everything.

Certainly it exists, no luck for you, my son-I love me and I can not get rid of (humorous because of course I love them too) the evidence they are leaving, they came to pay a little coffee

yes and no, thank you for your questions

Sorry but my stepmother is a kindness, it's a cream. You about, I think the best would be to play cards on the table with them and get your courage to tell them what you do not like. It is true that your in-laws go too far. They do not have to interfere in your choices regarding the education of your children. Good luck

I have not encountered such a problem but I had a beautiful sister who hoarding my brothers and manipulating them up against his sister, like her children, she did not want to come see her aunts. This is sure to be a real pain in the ass mother in law to the fullest.

lol yes for some

Kellk1 Hello, I read in you feel like you live with your parents-in ….. Why you do not tell them they should let you live your life … and then calmly discuss with your husband, he can understand .. I will not tell your place, but you must not be weak and accept all of them, they'll make life impossible and cover you with reproaches … When they call you to come to you, tell them you have a bar, do this several times and they will understand .. Kellk1 my dear, I wish you to be happy and put an end to all this …. because your beautiful parents intrude in your life together .. Good luck

Worry me either I do not like my step-mother but luckily for me I have no contact with her). Yours is on your husband to put her acting face reality. And especially do not let yourself be!

I also had ac, it will not comfort you but you're not alone. My beautiful mother had only boys and c a serial killeuses beautiful girls. I made a reason for it is like that with all these beautiful girls. Not bother to intervene mr is always the view of his mother. If so-called c dégeu what you prepared, leading him 40 euros and tell him "you have to do better tonight, the Auchan is not far!". On the other hand nothing prevents you to answer or lead you wrong when you go home. Good luck to you ….

Hello, Everything is fine between us, except that when we speak of "food" and although it is taboo, my husband does not hesitate to remind me that I eat too much! I have grown too, and it will take willpower to beauuucccoup I lose all those pounds. The problem is that it's true, but right now I do not have time for me to spend (sportswear, output), and have plenty of appetite for breastfeeding our baby … Have you experienced the same situation and how did you react? Thank you for your answers. PS: I ask this question here because I am a young mom and I am sure in this topic many moms will understand me. @ JE Dufour, you're certainly right, but this is not the time to make a plan. I eat what my baby needs, I do not do excess. @ Marilyn, 5 inches down, I do not understand, you're absolutely right and you understand me completely, I need time. I'm bad about myself, even when my husband made these reflections.

Hello, you must tell him, show him that the remarks offended you .. (If ill do not know) and most importantly, you should understand .. (baby, no time etc).

You know what you have to do: put yourself on a diet! I do not know how much weight you should lose it, but you'll see a few kilos less you'll feel better and get more energy to take care of your baby! And then in a lifetime where you have abused good things, what is that a diet period of several months? Courage! Even if your husband is harassing you with your weight, but he's right! and he wants to see you better in your skin! At least you're lucky to have someone beside you who reminds … How many women let themselves go without perceiving it!

Your child may also suffer from delusion your food, think about it. A measured supply would have to avoid "degrade" over the situation, right?

It seems to me that a child is 2 and your husband should be a little more understanding with respect to your weight gain. I took a lot of weight during my first pregnancy (25 kg in 6 months) and I'm actuellemtn to 1 ½ months pregnant and I already took 3 kg. Personally I very unsupported weight gain and luckily my spouse does not make me reflection of this kind. I do not know how you live your weight gain, but if something is bothering you, you will lose any motivation for these kg without someone constantly Rabache you that you should lose them. For now you are breastfeeding and it is not the time to diet or devote yourself to something other than your baby. I lost 25 kg and I took 3 other even more and less than a year so tell your husband to be patient that everything is done in his time. Good luck to you and enjoy your little piece

Men are from Mars and women from Venus … your husband is super awkward! For him, there's only to see the response @ Jean-Mi "super macho man", it "encourages you" and you "support" I'm sure you in making these kinds of remarks … Remarks for you, are hurtful, you feel belittled, humiliated see … because you're realize that you have swollen, it adds unnecessary layers … You're hungry, you eat, do not also make you feel guilty … By cons, he come to the idea of making food more often and spend time with you may be cooking dishes more balanced, making fruit salad for lunch, buy yourself a nice tunic in which you would feel beautiful and comfortable, take the initiative to go shopping and prepare healthy things … AC, I'm sure it encourage you, the problem is that it does not even crossed his mind! But hey, they're stupid and clumsy …

after my first delivery, I have not lost all my kg. before I was very thin, thin. I suffered quite a few more remarks or – offensive on the part of Homer. for my second breakfast, I took bcp fewer pounds. I lost them soon. I waited to get back to work so I could really put the "regime": matches, I lost a little over 11 pounds since the beginning of the year, part of my weight that I had never réusii to lose since my first pregnancy. Everyone tells me I "melted". same homer. matches, it's motivating and I feel better about my body bcp and … in my head. it's like cigarettes: there is no secret, it must be motivated to lose weight. I did not follow a diet, I just limited starches, sugars, fats, I drink more, eat more green vegetables, soups, and most importantly, I took the job with the torrid pace that will to deal with the fact of 2 children. all in good time, your weight loss, you'll see when you resume work, or otherwise.

ditto for mine. but I have always defended myself against these "peaks", saying that my baby had more than anything and I could sacrifice my body some time to give him the best, I breastfed until my last 13 months and anyway as soon as you stop breastfeeding you easily lose 5 pounds without thinking, then you pay attention. rooooo zommer these then!

Hello dear fellow, so firstly, it is completely normal for your husband make his remarks (in my opinion) he is afraid that too much magnification you and that you become less desirable! second, it is natural for you because of your appetite you are breastfeeding, but just have to be careful what you eat it all, do you balanced meals biensur you can eat everything but not excessively. I'm in the same case as you, I'm breastfeeding, I'm at home jene goofs off, my husband told me Always "is when you resume the sport," he repeated to me so much that it irritates me and same time he has not compared how wrong I was when he knew me …. especially since I had 20kg during my pregnancy, and until I lost the 16, but must be strengthened!! I advise you to go out with baby stroller, take long walks will do you much good you and your baby, then you can tjrs workout (especially abdominal). especially do not plan !!!!! has your husband says you have to eat so you ais milk (. especially do not plan !!!!! has your husband says you have to eat so you ais milk (but do not take advantage of the situation!) your child needs for healthy food!! here is my beautiful, too bad we is not in contact on msn, we would have discussions soon bcp

Hello, I tell you basically my story. I was with a man I got pregnant. I APRIS to 5 months of pregnancy he led a double life, he was a manipulator and a liar and unfaithful / I had trouble deciding and cut but my decision is made. He has not acknowledged the child. but I blame a lot on the fact that I leave. and especially he did not like that I'm stronger than him I think. he said love me like never before. brief … That is not my question. I still agreed that it is there for his son. I loved the testimony of people who have experienced the same thing and how it is to try each brings to the child. I do not see direct. breastfeeding and more. But what can you share? I just hope that his love for the child is sincere and he does not use it for further handling. I remain cautious but granted him the benefit of the doubt .. the little one 2 ½ months

dirty sow, you will give birth to a sow, what could be more obvious? Looking for a guy that's here, right? Huh? HA HA HA HA HA

You did well to leave because a baby can feel a malaise if the couple does not live in harmony. You must think of the baby's safety. Does he want to meet the baby or is he wants to have a hand hold on you? If he really wants to see from time to time the baby, why does not he propose to keep the baby between feedings, time for you to go shopping etc and for him to regain a bit with the baby. You'll see over time if things go well and the day that you no longer nursing, he can have it longer. But it is clear that this is a situation that is not obvious … courage to all three!

Hello, delicate situation. I faced a similar situation during a separation. It is normally good for a child to know both parents and have regular contact with both, even if they do not live together (assuming of course that the parents are normal). But were you I would demand that the father recognizes the child as mayor and that contributes to the expenses of his education by paying him a pension. Love him or not her child, one must always assume its responsibilities towards him. Courage.

you did well to separate you from this manipulator brings all the love your baby needs

Separated before the baby is born? how? Hello, I tell you basically my story. I was with a man I got pregnant. I APRIS to 5 months of pregnancy he led a double life, he was a manipulator and a liar and unfaithful / I had trouble deciding and cut but my decision is made. He has not acknowledged the child. but I blame a lot on the fact that I leave. and especially he did not like that I'm stronger than him I think. he said love me like never before. brief … That is not my question. I still agreed that it is there for his son. I loved the testimony of people who have experienced the same thing and how it is to try each brings to the child. I do not see direct. breastfeeding and more. But what can you share? I just hope that his love for the child is sincere and he does not use it for further handling. I remain cautious but granted him the benefit of the doubt .. the little one 2 ½ months

Anyway it is quite simple, from the moment he has not acknowledged the child, he has no right over him (but he did not duties such as alimony) So you do what you want now! For now you're seen as the only legal parent of this child so you decide. If you want this situation changes, you can start proceedings. Apart from that: if your child really wants, why not be recognized? Honestly, I'm skeptical, and I fear that this is an excuse to see you again. I think we can not both want to be part of the life of a child and both not wanting to recognize it. Otherwise, at first, that the father comes home and sees her child in your presence. Possibly set a regular visit. Already, if it is held, it will play in his favor, and you can consider a greater proximity between the child and himself. Otherwise, you'll know what it is. I personally do not see this, but I have similar situations in my. I personally do not see this, but I monentourage in similar situations (with more concern for the distance since the father was English), but the child was recognized and was also the name of his father : this changes everything. I wish you good luck and hope you'll get more concrete answers than mine.

I quite agree with Stephanie, why did he not recognize your child if he wants to take? it is not logical at all?! About Me I live with a man who lived in the same situation as you (her ex left him 3 months pregnant) but they managed to keep in touch, he recognized his daughter was in custody, they try to become parents when they are no longer a couple. It is not easy because everyone must do things in perspective and maintain the separation but the slogans are "respect" and "commitment." The advice I could give you is actually to remain cautious that your ex does not use "your child to keep in touch with you and put it to the test of the investment it wants to set for your child . Will you be parents despite the separation and your story? Good luck anyway and kisses to your son.

abortion, homosexuality, selfishness, thong, wear, individualism etc ,….

're openly homophobic and you just treat others as racist, really clears up small m.rde.

Ta-ta-ta. I do not agree on some points … Abortion and homosexuality are not generally a problem for the religious.

what connection with homosexuality and the string? it is a pity party … you were much mdrrr

Sorry, it's everything that violates your moral Islamic fundamentalist … your spiritual guide not only was his name Tariq Ramadan, by chance?

And what's your morality? Stoning, submission, sucking stones to pray before a book meaningless? I prefer to put down a girl in a bitter strng that religious crap that spews from sleeping in front of an audience who do not care what he says;)

Your examples are puzzled me – right to abortion and gay rights do not violate morality – selfish, string, individualism and wear were never called "progress"

it is immoral to save the life of a young woman leaving the abortion? Is it immoral to make others happy? Signall abuse.

At each time its evolution – the point is that "progress" like the locals – Whether it displeases people who immigrate to our country we have no problem – "the most uncomfortable go"

The Zionist antimorality leads us right to the religion of the Antichrist. But it also includes anti-racism. All the more vicious it encourages immigrants to victimize, and therefore behave as weak, impotent and that maximizes the frustration. You will notice that racism is the opposite and the perversion of respect for others recommended in the scriptures. They teach to see God in the other man, the divine spark, to welcome out of respect for God. Anti-racism taught to pose as victim, weak, whiny and projecting this weakness on a group that says prejudiced helpless victim of racism. Now we all know if we have a little experience that will inevitably come across people who will have a priori on us because of our sex / age / appearance / clothing / art and can make them change their minds by Note this behavior is still an advantage to this anti-corporation: by doing the reverse of what you sell and extol the media, you might not get it wrong a lot.

Pace that progress does not care about morals! @ Descarte0 A Prophet who married a 6 year old girl is serious and certainly not racist

The noblest of the prophets married a 6 year old daughter was not immoral at the time

thee well a Muslim!

I am in shock!! I accepted the fact that I had many adventures in the past when I've always been pretty good, but it's too hard to collect, know that the man who loves a mi another woman pregnant is really receiving a slap even if it's past. that abortion was a traumatic experience for him and he still thinks, that means that deep down maybe he wanted to keep this baby . this story makes me sick.

it is not worth the trouble leaves – the

Couples therapy with a psychiatrist, it might help if it really poses a problem for your relationship. Or at least try to talk with a specialist but it would certainly be easier. If you like I think you would succeed him forgive the mistake, which I think happens to a lot of man. Do not live in the past, but it's OK forever. ^ ^ Good luck.

I lived it but if I stayed away 1yr and a half with a man when I was younger and I fell pregnant while we were not "adult" but we were really just love this baby was no plans for projects or studies or for the mine blow our parents forced us al 'abortion but ty can not help if your man has a pregnant woman you know sometimes it's less painful to learn that after a few years relationship that your man has children hide …. the ace he will say he lives here is wrong but I think every people who have experienced abortion tromatisant I see this as a son of 3 years and I am 6 months pregnant and even today I look at this baby .. . we all have our shadows in the past some less glorious than the other but we must accept … courage you

Yes and then? it's ancient history, its not concern you, it's past …. it's as if you had met this man with a child from another marriage … What you have done? ?? never accepted? leave? seriously not see how I look at you … its just like the girl who underwent abortion … this is their story not yours.

But that was before you, and the past is the past, and you can not prevent him from having any regrets and to confide in you. It is the act that guilt is normal, this is not a trivial matter that is soon forgotten, but not necessarily the fact that he did not have this bb, they do had no desire neither one nor the other if they were to bout.Si he confides in you, is that he needs you.

Weird that you say, and you accepted that there is a second ???!!!! the problem is in you.

pfffffftt.

Good evening, My friend and I split up ten days ago, more or less by mutual agreement (he says he can not share his life with me, and I do not really understand why.) I felt he loved me very hard, but have been an interlude for him. We agreed to separate us gently, but it was too painful for me, and it was relatively bad end … More news and I do not want it. But this morning, after a delay I do a pregnancy test which turned out to be positive … I do not know how to tell him, especially since I want it really kind of my life. But I can not find honest not to tell him, or he learns from other people. I can not bring myself to an abortion either, and he knows it. When and how to tell him ? I did not bomb, I really wanted it out of my life, it was loved, but we have been very hard too … Guy who knows nothing! "Little Smart : my question is exactly how it. Guy who knows nothing! "Little Smart: My question is just how luien talk, how to tell him, then we'll see. Nico: Thanks! Easy to judge when you do not know. Level contraception, he knew he was taking risks because I do not tolérais because of health problems. I can not abort because I already lost one baby. He knew there was a risk for several months, he also knew the consequences that it would. As for the father, he better not have any, that have poor, or who is obligation. That's my opinion Manda: thank you, finally a kind word … 0: Thanks … I will not dwell on the subject, but the risk of pregnancy was not huge … Very unlikely, very few reports especially at the end, and I paid attention to dates. Agree that this site does not host of serious issues … You're very ill and there are always fools who beg yer-face …

Ouch!

you never take a contraceptive? you never fails to prevent your lover? I think it's dishonest of you, you had just kiss, literally and figuratively.

In my opinion the question you should ask yourself is: how will he take it? Because it may very well not recognize the child, with leave you alone. If there is still time and you do not want not the child, abort! However, if you want to keep the child, then talk about it with him. But only waits for nothing in particular. EDIT: How could he say? Ben already preparing the ground. It would be best to tell him alone. After, or not go too loud: "Listen, I forgot to take the pill for our latest reports. And it happens that I'm pregnant." And there, it'll take a razor to cut his veins lol XD Try to see him for a good meal, where you can stuff her face. The pill will be easier to pass

What confuses the? You're afraid he assumes his role because you want to keep the child alone? Are you afraid he assumes his role because you would be forced to reconsider? Are you afraid that it assumes its role not because you want to serve the child as an excuse to keep in touch with him?

wait a minute, maybe there are two ..

I quite agree with Delita If you really do not want him in your life, why keep this child? And indeed, that child will have you thought? You'll make a fatherless by pure selfishness? "I can not bring myself to an abortion "…??? Nah, but the pill is not for others! It fills me these girls that are kids at any cost without considering the moral consequences of the child! Aborting!

tell her you have something important to tell him that you can not tell over the phone, and calls on your house for dinner one on one, maybe this child could help you make a new beginning But if he does not want this child, think about it because it is sad to give birth to a child without a father

how the news: you call and you tell him, then you say right away that you abort account and he does not, wait two weeks, and then informs you that you changed to notice and want to keep the bb, and it will have no obligation, you will take care of everything, he did not have to worry, because you desire to be a mother, give meaning to your life .

This issue is a perfect example that you should never take advice for anything serious on this site. On, contraception is not limited to taking the pill, nothing prevented his friend to use a condom, so I do not see why it would be more accountable for the situation as his friend. Two, we talk about life before then to make judgments and to punch counselor to go get an abortion is reflected or it shall refrain from writing nonsense. Regarding the question you are best placed to tell him how your pregnancy. In any case this is not something you keep to yourself and you absolutely have to say the sooner the better. Good luck.

And présos? No health problems otherwise, I think … It took as many risks as you, you would have had to impose the hood if you did not really kid. If you really do not want an abortion, I do not know how to tell him at all, or even if you have to say, by cons …> O: bah ah want, precisely, you say "nothing prevented her boyfriend use a condom, so I do not see why it would be more accountable for the situation that his friend ."… bah I say I do not see why it would be more responsible for it. They both screwed up, instantly. "ooo, but even if the risks are" not huge ", they exist! The preso is not binding if you like it … qd I say a little wickedly at QRiste, but for qd is a bit hit you on the wrist, you rattle … I confess I do not at all know that answer your main question, but your words arrested me, so I react.

Problems of women who never breastfed within

well I think that besides being diagnosed with a incurable viral disease definitively with the idea of premature death and is very likely to think it will perhaps not her child grow to old age or if it is contaminated and it will lose in the first place over the frustration of death present in maternal breast milk I think they think all this (the question) and what it has to psychological suffering caused ! depression, frustration, neurosis, mood disorders, self-déppréciation is terrible …. terrible

I think it would be good to see him do these four videos: http://sidassassin.spaces.live.com/blog/cns!89BE0983FAC34C3E!226.entry

I have appointments every week of style @ p job to aid the search for a job! I go with my boy for 16 months. Today when I wanted to breastfeed the quick when you visit the counselor has forbidden me to do! she told me you are breast-feeding before or after the appointment! what do you think? moreover, she told me that breastfeeding for 6 months no more! So I explained to him that little could always be breastfeed to 16 months but denied she told me that he was poorly informed that he had bad manners! and she refused that I breastfeed during our discussion. Did it right? I have spoken with his supervisor, who has told me that she s had made no decision has on the education I give to my son or even my choice to breastfeed! I could breastfeed as long as I wanted. I wonder what law? and what recourse I have?

I am the adviser for I shall have asked if I could too ALLETE

Of course she had no right to judge you and judge your choice to breastfeed longer. And it can give no t'interdire to breastfeed your baby beyond six months. By cons, there was also its right to refuse you feed your child during your interview. You did not impose it. I think his reaction would have been the same if you wanted to give a jar to your child during your interview. I do not defend her no respect (it would have been repacked quickly if it was me) but I respect his choice want your interview goes by that you have your child clinging to the breast.

Difficult to answer you … I think a job center employees should not tell you what to do or not. But at the same time, women who breastfeed for as long offend me personally …. If I could give you advice is to avoid repeating the situation in one of your interviews …

hello it not look nice j'epere I will not fall off it really speaks tro dry (she told me that he was poorly informed that he had bad manners) c'estt oi mother and thou qu'uil knows what is best for the kid

I do not know the law in this area but Me, in my rv center job, I did everything to keep my daughter already not to be bothered and above all, respect for the RV. If you have no one to keep your bb (I have no family within 200 km for me), I put my baby in daycare. Only once I could not given the times and it was very painful and I felt that my counselor was a little tired ….

She is right to say that you could've done so before or after. It is wrong to seek to impose on you his opinion on the duration of breastfeeding!

Breastfeeding you on your workplace, to your boss? "I do not think so. Of course she did not issue a ruling on the fact that you breastfeed your baby, however, I think this is not the place ideal to take her child. I do not think there is a law for this kind of thing …

In fact he used was very moved, she has no right to judge you! Me But it seemed so much the idea of feeding my child appointment for work, whether or nursing bib or even potty. No idea of the action, but you can already ask him to apologize for his remarks and next time try to keep your kid. By

Whether you bring your child with you at the pole work, because you have no one to keep, of course. Now, will you also breastfeed your child in front of the recruiter during your job interview? "I do not think so. It been right to point out that you could otherwise get organized, but his remarks on education are displaced.

There are two different issues in your question. The first problem is the issue of breastfeeding during the interview. Even if the attitude of the counselor is not very correct, you're not supposed to come with the child during the interview. During this conversation you're supposed to 100% available for questions and answers, even if it has a priori no law on this point. I do not think, if you're going to interview you to take your baby, here is the same. The second problem is what he said about the duration of breastfeeding. There she is totally "senior executive". She did not meddle with the education that you give or the duration of breastfeeding. In speaking to his supervisor you had the right attitude. But now, as "word against word" I do not see what recourse you could do against her. At worst you could do with the pole-employment if they have a procedure so that your file be transferred to another counselor.

Of course, you have the right to breastfeed as long as you want. That said, your baby is 16 months, and at that age, he can wait a bit! You should give him the breast before, the caller! Councillor Pole employment was a little rough with you in advising you on your privacy, but you did not breastfeed your child to come to your interview! It comes to Pole job as just a job interview: available for work. I think she would have thought if you had left the sauce!

if you can not keep your kid to make an appointment pole how you'd use for a job interview ????? It could be argued that you did not able to return to work and you sweeten your unemployment …. ah yes … so next time … you there … Needless

you keep your child clinging to your breasts for 20 years only watch you, but go to your interview with your child and give him more breast during this interview I'll get you kicked out of office, employment is not a Pole nursery or a nursing room and again you have a woman as a counselor! would you have done the same if it had been a man each thing in its place and the health of your child it may be time to switch to a normal diet because how do you do when you have work? ? you're going to hang out with you at your place of work and 16 months it is time to give him more solid foods as milk or it will end up with nutritional deficiencies, but good if you think you have the right solution that's your business I am aware mat ass and I can not find "healthy" to keep a child in so long.

I breastfeed my daughter who is also 16 months and I do not think being a bad mother. Everyone is not lucky enough to have a family member to keep her child and everyone can not afford to keep her baby by a nurse, especially since it costs money and when one is unemployed, I do not know how to pay, everyone does not have the privilege of having a nursery place. I know the employment center to have had the misfortune to be unemployed Twice in my life and they are not accommodating at the appointment, they have a knack for calling people at 8 am in the morning so that when I was active, I never started my day job average before 9 am 30. And for those who take a bus or have no means of transport or come by bicycle, pedal bin, even if snow to come and hear the same refrains at 8:00 in the morning in winter. Their style is also deleted from the list of job seekers who do not attend the meeting even with a good excuse. Their style is also deleted from the list of job seekers who do not have to go even with good excuseet we can meet for three months without receiving unemployment benefits because a counselor a few overzealous specified that you had not failed to appear for the time and date indicated on the notice, even if you have a letter of apology sent by registered mail with return receipt. So if you went before it and it does its not like the little lady, she has to go talk to his superior that he must completely revise their system to the nuts. The law says you're free. There is no law yet, to my knowledge, prohibiting breastfeeding in public. So, this well-meaning Greluche, has only to get lost among the Greeks. This is not a crime. But I were you, I will convey to his superiors. Remind them that the WHO recommends exclusive breastfeeding until six months of the child and even two years "In all situations, the best means of preventing malnutrition and mortality among infants and young children is to ensure they are put to the breast in. However, it is easier to keep a child in the morning around 10 am oul'après afternoon. According to the trades, it is entirely possible to care for her child and work, this is the case homeworkers. A nurse may very well look after her child and other children. A cleaning lady as if she works in an individual. The nurse who came to the liberal biting my mom always worked with her child and when her daughter was larger, she let her play with her Barbies in the car. An appointment employment center, it's not like job interview. There is a big difference between the two. I have rarely seen business come to the employment center with their penguin suit and tie. The clowns in unemployment does not come to appointments with their employment center into a clown. Especially for the employment center, it's just a formality to see if your circumstances have changed or not since your last visit. So I do not see the problem coming with his child when you can not do otherwise. G6K @ Re: Yeah, but you're in Switzerland. G6K @ Re: Yeah, but you're Suisselol and here is often just a formality to con these appointments. Just to check that you are well on the land and not being you sunbathe at beaches on the Pacific side. Often, they are not qualified counselors who know nothing about your job, but give you lessons corporation under 2. Like "you must call into question" or "ah, it's not normal that you do not find a job as degrees. Finally, I would have much to say about such an appointment where you have cravings murder to include each time. Pelagie @ Ms. Witch: Do you know that some children refuse food very late and it is very difficult to impose a rhythm? Do you think it is easier to calm a child by putting him inside and refusing even to 16 months? Breast milk contains endorphins and often, the child finally doze. This is handy when a child sleepy one wants to talk quietly. You have the choice either to refuse the breast and your. You have the choice either to refuse the breast and tonenfant starts to cry or scream. Not cool as a solution. Or is it to breastfeed and there is calm in your arms. Me, I choose most often for the second solution. Chrysa @: when you breastfeed so long, we know how to give the breast discretion. On the other hand, I do not eat in the toilet, so I do not see me breastfeed in toilets. Titigre @: everything depends on the time of the convocation and all children are not so accommodating that it.

even if the consultant is gone a bit much, she's right: you do not breastfeed your little during the interview. Moreover, it should not even be there, actually. You're supposed to be focused on maintenance, something impossible with a baby who is nursing him more. And if you're looking for a job, I suggest you begin to wean him, otherwise it will not be simple.Tu talk to action, I find your overreaction: me too, I breastfed my 3 children and I know from experience how it can bring uncomfortable some people, I find it quite normal to respect that. Bise

I understand and I said the same thing. Without falling into an exaggerated Puritanism, there are places for that. Or so he had to ask you isolate, in a toilet for example! She did not want to endure the sight of a nursing breast, and it's understandable, it is still a degree of privacy and it did not to accept anything and everything about his place of work. As for his opinion on the duration of breastfeeding far it exceeds its role and not onions.

I think she had it absolutely right, a public nurse, yes, but not this kind of interview! You go to job center to eventually find a job and I think that breastfeeding during the interview is not well seen at all. And then, your child still has 16 months, not a tiny baby who claims to eat very often … at 16 months it must be "tuned" for meals, and make 4 / day (breakfast, lunch, snack, dinner) and if your interview time would be during one of his meals, he had to shift a little, he should not have been traumatized! How will you do if you get a job interview? you go with your kid hanging on your breasts? this is the best way not to win the famous job, I'm not telling you not to breastfeed your child, you do what you want in this area, but there are places and situations where you have to know one ! By cons, regarding what she held on education for your child, then she had nothing to say, you lift up your son as you see fit.

Hello, I am a student assistant childcare) Simply you replied that you are free to choose how to feed your child. In addition, this mode of supply includes the fact that the baby can take on demand. So if your child is hungry, he did not have to wait, because hunger is hard for a baby, I made him cramps (as adults in fact, except that he does not know yet managed at that age does to hold on, wait) … And you ask if you had left a bottle, she would had the same reaction?! (-> I think not!) Is still mad that these people impose their way of thinking: it is against breastfeeding, it free, but you do what you want and can for the good your child.

Breastfeeding for a rdv??? Either you do it before or after it is not wrong! She did not give you advice on the education of your child, to the appeal, we must not exaggerate …