Here I am already a father of 7 children and my wife, I love, is pregnant with eighth after a forgetting Pill recovered the next morning. We promised to stop there, but it has already experienced an abortion in inhumane conditions, so she wants to keep the baby but not me. I would like you to give me arguments for the pros and cons.

It's like Zola …

@ Greg's right … For my answer: yes, if it is on time, otherwise, abortion … 8 children !!!!! My God!

Given the experience of your wife I think she will keep this child because of fear of abortion. It will take place over a home that surely tight. But I think you will not love unless your wife and this child to come. The best will be after or even during this big she is considering another method of contraception than the pill. Unfortunately nobody can give you an opinion well enough to decide that you accept the situation especially after the eighth child. If it was still the 2nd or 3rd I think you would have had plenty of positive or negative arguments but had a position just a little more than what you currently live. 7 children is already a very nice family, but how to ask your wife to have an abortion in fear.

First of all congratulations for your 7 kids! … The arguments that I offer: FOR keep: – how an abortion is often very hard to do. It takes a strong morally and physically (an abortion was scheduled for my first, and the D-Day, I have not gone and I absolutely do not regret it) – if it falls through, we would always ask how our child. – if she had an abortion that did not go well, why the devil retried? – your wife wants to keep – a child is a + wonderful gifts that you can give us. COUNTER to keep it – if you have financial problems – why not find another hospital to do abortions? – if you're afraid of not giving as much love for everyone. – if the unborn child is not loved and labeled as "not wanted" and left behind I can not find other arguments that come. You understand that I would agree to keep, especially if your wife wants to keep it and it feels. You understand that I would agree to keep, especially if your wife wants to keep it and she sentcapable exiting in the difficult times are the beginning. I wish you courage. And a good pregnancy your wife if she were to keep it.

Personally, I have thirty kids, but not with the same mothers (about thirty as well) and not in the same country (twenty), the abortion pill, why not!

ke this is two days I did not have my period I take the test and that is I do not think positif.et pa have a child now I simply do 19ans.comment I'm afraid.

Because you think maybe you'll find advice here to get an abortion when nobody knows who you are?! It should perhaps be thinking that you consult a gynecologist soon.

Fortunately we are no longer in the 1960s, will instead see a doctor or family planning clinic. Frankly women of our age have fought for nothing so when we read this kind of nonsense but I suppose if you're joking this is serious.

is evidence I want! how it happened your pregnancy and childbirth is possible to get this pregnancy and even nurse a baby when you have herpes! c for helping a friend had the bright side she believes it's the end of the world since she knew she had genital herpes! absurd or mocking answers prayers that you will not!

90% of the French population is infected with Herpes labialis bin sores, genital it will happen if she makes a push at the time of birth, she will have a caesarean point

Where there is an outbreak must be very strict on hygiene: wash your hands, do not touch herpes, do not kiss the children, sharing glasses or didn't fork … etc. For my part, I often herpes labialis. I got it for my two pregnancies without this problem. Same same after childbirth by breastfeeding. In short separate handwashing becomes intense and frequent, nothing to report.

Hello, I made vaginal herpes for 15 years, well before my pregnancy, never had sores. So to reassure you, actually during pregnancy, no worries, I've had 2 occasions and treated me as if I were not pregnant (local stamp + cream). For cons, I was warned that If I made a herpes style three weeks before delivery, I would do a caesarean. I was lucky, I developed my herpes 1 month before delivery (not quite since I gave birth 6 days before) and they informed me give birth vaginally.

I have just given birth and it has been 5 months

Breastfeeding is not a means of contraception. So yes, there is a risk.

Oh misery! "It is still not difficult to take a contraceptive or your man use a condom As we do not really want to have children, you do what it takes

I do not understand what you mean by "if I do not spend all my rules" but one thing is sure is that you need a birth control method if you do not desire a new pregnancy. There is a pill is a pill Cerazette and effective things you can do despite breastfeeding and then if male condom, female etc.

The fact that breastfeeding is not a way to avoid pregnancy valid for all.

This is not because you breastfeed you do not risk becoming pregnant. You must have a means of contraception if you do not want to have another child right away.

since you are breastfeeding (you have lots of milk), normally you can not have your period and you can not get pregnant. if the opposite (having a light milk) you can get pregnant.

Breastfeeding is a form of contraception, the problem is that it is not 100% and in addition we do not know when it stops in any case he stops 11-16 days before the rules say "back layers" since there 11-16 days between ovulation and menstruation begins … So expect the rules is relatively dangerous, because a pregnancy after the first ovulation postpartum is not recommended (fatigue failures, unable to continue breastfeeding, and perhaps additional risk for pregnancy). There are ovulation tests, a reasonable cost in Germany but in France I think it varies considerably depending on the pharmacy and presentation. If you want a fairly natural method of contraception, or you have already established a way forward (Billings method, temperature) and you should consider whether it is always reliable, it is better to try to avoid, during intercourse, fertilization: ejaculation outside the vagina (everyone does not know …) or.) Oupréservatif male and / or female, the latter usually with spermicide. These contraceptive methods allow you to breastfeed without soaking the baby hormones … Enjoy breastfeeding is a period so pleasant!

I am positive hepatitis B, and I understand that I can not breastfeed my baby at birth, so it is not contaminated. Is there no other way to solve this problem? I'd love to breastfeed my baby!

Here's a full article on the subject of the league Leache http://www.lllfrance.org/Dossiers-de-l-allaitement/DA-56-deux-etudes-allaitement-et-VIH-ou-hepatite-B.html q = apatite is rather encouraging for you the conclusion: "When the program to prevent vertical transmission of HBV has been applied (injection of immune globulin and vaccination), breast-feeding by a surrogate mother for chronic HBV No ' not increase the risk of contamination of the child. "

I think the doctor did was wrong to say it, accept there is no other choix.SORRY

This question has already been asked so many times that I will run for

At the time I made my ex abortive woman who had (for personal reasons) an extra marital relationship.

Abortion is both a denial of its own responsibility (to act as if the action had not occurred) and a crime (murder pure and simple of a human being). Abortion is a crime and a violation of divine laws.

FOR @ the truth I'm sure you're a guy … to be as c. .. me gay? you take your desires for realities stop the fantasies you're n not my style …

Totally for a woman's right to have its course as it wishes, and regardless of whether it is at the expense of someone who is not even recognized, and because other women who have the disorder fall pregnant unintentionally are sentenced to life with children they would not, as a human being (at least until birth) @ truth The real truth is that your mother would have done better to be a zoophile slut;) @ ² truth you are quite right, he is infinitely better to be a slut zoophile vermin! vermin are the people for abortion) @ all Jehovah's Witnesses or other religion, frustrated of Burns and even undesirable to representatives of the female population is a debate that you never carry away, for the simple reason that you put the same level criminal who deliberately enters a building to kill a public official (haha I 'm purposely chose this example for you to face the reality of governmentThey agree perfectly these laws since he introduced them) and a woman desiring an abortion for her health, or simply not to ruin his life (what you call may be "selfish" do not laugh the only selfish what are you hoping to prevent thousands of women with their bullshit and their reasons for abortion and what to name the con beliefs or mere "state of souls") that is hoping you will one day confront this situation; )

For …

for health reasons yes, but otherwise, people just need to protect themselves before.

Against

absolutely against killing babies, whatever the drawbacks to the comforts of their parents. for you, a human being is a human being when he leaves the womb and not before? is what can kill (abort) a day or a week before his birth, for example ??… and if your answer is no, then when it ceases to be a human being? a month before his birth? two months?

WHEN THE CHILD IS DESIGNED TO EVEN 1 DAY IT IS, THEN IT IS NOT THE TEU NOT ON THE ASSUMED AND ASKED TO HELP …. My mother nearly died giving birth to MOI J AI BANKRUPT AND DIE AT BIRTH, BUT MY MOTHER TO FIGHT FOR THAT REMAINS ON IN LIFE. THEN I'M NOT KILL HER CHILD …. HOWEVER COLLAPSES PARDON WHERE THERE WAS A RAPE OR 1 SIL 1 REASON IS EXTREME. IF THE LIFE OF THE MOTHER IN DANGER. OR 1 EXTREME BIRTH OF CHILD ALTHOUGH I CAN HUMP WITH THE DISABLED, THEY ARE HAPPY LIVING IN BRIEF ….. L ABORTION IS NOT AN ACT NO CONSEQUENCE AND SPIRITUAL karmic ASK A PRIEST 1, 1 RABBI IN THE OTHER WORLD THE PARENTS, THE GUY AND THE GIRL WILL MANAGE THIS MURDER …. WITH ALL MEANS contraception, abortion IS MURDER FOR NEGLIGENCE INCHES ….. THE BOTTOM, YOU RETURN, you sit on it .. ..

it is all about the situation

I think every woman should have the choice to choose and places continue to exist for an abortion, without being jugée.Toute person is free of what what she believes and no one has to intervene to prevent it from having an abortion or not.

against abortion is a crime!

Against! it is murder, it killed an innocent life that has nothing to ask! the pill and condoms are the child did not ask him. http://video.google.fr/videoplay?docid=-3187382679407562295 # ps contains shocking images. SlashL @ blabla repackages your sixty Eighter in life must be assumed to know! contraceptives are, why kill a baby while it is sufficient to make a minimum attention? the fetus is a living being (not just clusters of cells) abortion is murder PERIOD!. ps I am a Christian but not tj.

For you, what an embryo is a life or non life? No matter the difficulties before or after conception, how do you see life in its infancy, the answer will result automatically your perspective on life begins does the design or different stages of development and at birth!

It is God who gives life. and therefore to Him in return. Nobody else, but He has the right to take the life of someone (be it a fetus). for those who carry fetuses malformed or sick, or for those who have been victims of rape is difficult to bear, it's hard to accept but it's not impossible (possible with the grace and consolation that only the Lord Jesus gives). when confronted with this situation the first thing we say is: an abortion is normal, as the human. but there is another way of seeing things. and abortion is not the solution because beyond the body, each of us has a spirit created by God and for God. a spirit called to live forever and if you abort, you kill the body but the mind you can not kill him! and therefore the person does not disappear it is, she lives somewhere …. I am against abortion that is not the problem of adverse life that you want to delete, only Jesus Christ can solve.

Cons for the great majority of cases now in terms of conception during rape, God will judge (though he thinks the rapist but I think we should not get into illegality abortion).'s Case serious health ok (if really no other solution but if we know that his health does not allow it protects itself) there are alternatives to abortion and we know it is the law of the facility to choose abortion. there is the adoption can be a very good solution there are others that we have the courage to keep the child. even on a non-religious, the law of the facility . and I think many do not realize that the wounds it leaves. all the women I met who had an abortion, there are those who suffer for over 20 years. because subconsciously they know they have killed a life that was at the bottom of it I think we dare not measure all the consequences and to hell with the result. by cons, I would add that it is unacceptable d ' have an abortion rate also. By cons, I would add that it is unacceptable to have an abortion rate aussiélevé when you see all the defenses there: pill, condom, pill the next day, the kinds of clips, … mùaintenant if patient has been taking the pill you know you must be more attentive to our actions. is really to say abortion = easy. if everyone thought the other way especially in our country or we can afford to have fewer abortions @ chaouti: evidently even a cell is alive, so an embryo that is already composed of several cells is also a living cell. So yes, it is murder. @ the truth: do you know give your opinion without vulgarity? it also is the law of the ease of vulgarity. instead of developing arguments. How education … insult the other …

against the massacre of innocents, no votes on ……

WHEN 1 GIRL COLLAPSES C IS THE WORLD THAT SHE CRIES AS TUE MAY 1 ST, WHO WILL SAVE THE WORLD OR A GREAT ARTIST OR 1 LARGE WRITER ETC …. COLLAPSES C IS KILLING …….. A LEGALIZE MURDER BY THE STATE DOES NOT PAY FOR AID TO UNMARRIED MOTHERS, FATHERS WHEN TO THE SHARED RESPONSIBILITY IS CURSED AND THE MALE WILL HAVE ANSWER FOR cowardice AND THE MURDER OF LITTLE SOUL …… THE KARMA AND THE CLOCK BE HARD ….

against the wanton murder of little angels of the Lord ….

For! when is a health issue or rape!

Nobody is for abortion in the sense that nobody enjoys doing it, but the issue of choice of the pregnant woman who opposes the abortion ban. What is worse for a woman raising a child between a man who raped and killed an embryo? If you want my personal opinion I would be to legalize abortion until a certain stage of fetal development but prevent mass pregnant psychological damage that abortion can be very important. It is an act that takes a little too lightly in France, for example by not providing counseling to women who have abortions.

Question too intrusive for you to meet.

against

archi-cons … it is a crime!

Everything was against it is murder pure and simple.Aussi a policeman told me he saw little to be hiding when at the doctor was trying to draw with his instrument.

For. It is a good tool. And if it can t avoid 40 years of misery with a harpy who wants to have your money, your health, your children … better.

I'm for abortion rights, but not particularly "for abortion." Anyway it does not mean to be "for or against abortion" …

Cons! @ Jessica, I never really ASCERTAIN different methods of abortion so I say it is inhumane. You ca put at our disposal, and I hope that after having read that we reflect has twice before saying that abortion is not murder.

It's complicated … but only to escape its responsibilities I am cons …

Abortion kills 50 to 60 million children per year since the child feels warm and safe in the womb of his mother as a victim of this deadly assault? We can only imagine, because they'll never here to tell us about it. Most abortions occur within the first 12 weeks of life. At this stage, the tiny fetal breathing and swallowing. His heart beats. He moved his toes, clenched fists, turns liquid into his world … and feels pain. Many fetuses are torn stomach and sucked into a jar with a pipe after cutting. The process is called vacuum aspiration. The power of suction (29 times that of a domestic vacuum cleaner) tears the little body. Abortion by cervical dilatation and curettage is another approach: a knife-shaped loop scrapes the uterine lining, cutting the child in installments. For fetuses over 16 weeks [in countries where the law permits ], we use the abortion by injecting saline or. For fetuses over 16 weeks [in countries where permitted by law], we use the abortion by injecting saline ouempoisonnement by salt. Using a long needle piercing the amniotic sac to remove some amniotic fluid and replace it with a concentrated salt solution. While he eats and breathes, filling poison his fragile lungs, the child control and convulsing. Under the effect of the caustic solution, the skin burned, leaving the flesh raw and wilted. A cerebral hemorrhage can occur. Death, pain, occurs in a few hours, although sometimes, when work begins the next day, the woman gives birth to a baby alive, but dying. If the child is too developed to be killed by these methods or others like it is the solution of the hysterotomy, a caesarean section whose purpose is not to save lives, but to interrupt. We open the abdomen of the mother, and it almost always comes out a live baby. Some even cry. But we should let him die when we're not going to suffocate, drown or kill deliberately by some other means. After the. Bemoreeasilyreadon after these few lines, I hope you will cons …..

Happiness is a natural for any female of any species alive, yes? Yes, it is necessary and happiness for the baby too, yes? yes! Except for feminists? Perce they want to preserve the beauty within them to better negotiate with men sexually. She said however that we should not regard them as sexual objects. It's very complicated with feminists, right? It's crazy! @ Myrabelle: You have every reason to regard the body of a woman is to her. But their baby is absolutely her if the baby's father is barred. But as her baby she belongs to a company, it will be a citizen, which felt so interresse society. With breastfeeding physical child was in good mental and physical feeling. All that every woman knows but feminists prefer, we said the beauty within them to better negotiate sex with men (qm tell us they need not regard them as sexual objects!). Granou @: We laisserat women choose whether their. Granou @: It laisserat women choose whether leurbébé LIFE Belonging to them. But every woman wants her baby to resemble his father and he bears the surname of his father. It must however be allowed to do whatever she wants to "her" baby? Well … Be serious. Feminists ask too through naïvité men today.

It depends on women. Why not just let the women choose? Some will thrive in the nursing and other non ultras not necessarily feminist. I have had horribly wrong and I was delighted to spend the bib.

I am a feminist, and I nursed my children. more breastfeeding has never damaged a chest. Then back in your cave. Women have the right to their body what they want. If they do not want to breastfeed, well, do not they do so. If they do not want children, do not they have them. I do not see why this is shocking.

Ahhhhh, that's it, I realized … nan, because naturally, talking about "female" and say such stupid things about women and feminists, I had believed for some time that you ' did not belong in … Am I stupid … While there, in fact, not since you talk of physical happiness for a female, then necessarily, it is clear: to know that a recent female physically, it necessarily mean that you 're a woman! For cons, I think you're a little disturbed, to show the same contempt for yourself, talk about your personal experience as a general … Allez, zou, a shot at the shrink!

You are clumsy to troll ever.

The right choice is not the supreme value. Must still make the right choice. The feminist mantra that's the important thing is to have the choice! Nope, that's not the most important. Because from the moment you are a mother, the most important thing is your baby. Point to the line. It is not the case for you? I can not help it. But I can judge what I do not bother me, you will have noticed.

"You can be feminist and breastfeed" (Clementine Autain, feminist Mix-Cité). It is not the only one to think. So drop you there is not. We can choose it all.

Anything (that's the effect Badinter … which is not the only feminist in the world and has never banned anyone, it must be remembered).

Here is a question I ask myself after having a discussion on breastfeeding the baby and I thought that a woman who has never been pregnant could breastfeed a baby this is how it? I ca not find I like to have your opinions thank you

Apparently yes and to my great astonishment http://www.guichetdusavoir.org/ipb/index.php?showtopic=35174

NO it is not possible unless we take specific hormones that trigger lactation, I know it exists! Otherwise it must be pregnant to make milk come in the chest!

This woman, if this story is real, must have a problem with the pituitary. This problem can be very serious. It must make a radio sella, and a mix of prolactinémie.Pour start.

* you have absolutely right, a woman who has never been pregnant may never allaiter.D 'where the milk will he be received? * The mammary glands responsible for the formation of milk grow and form of milk during pregnancy. * So a woman is not pregnant do not produce milk to breastfeed. * A woman can produce very little milk if she has a hormonal problem.

YES! during the war, the nuns have nursed orphans! is the result of "nibbles" that causes milk production, even without ever having been pregnant

normally not, but a woman can produce quantities qt milky liquid whose composition is not exactly that of breast milk in certain circumstances, it's called galactorrhea. the most frequent hyperprolactinemia (excessive secretion of a hormone produced by a gland located in the brain is the pituitary gland) that hyperprolactinemia may have several causes. hyperprolactinemia acts at the mammary glands resulting in their development where production of "milk" in addition to other factors hyperprolactinemia This can lead sécrétionn as in the example we just sucked the nipples (even if this sucionest associated with great affection if made by a baby! ") ben I said that it is done by a baby because once we had consultation a lady who had galactorrhea with hyperprolactinemia and discrete when a thorough examination it was found that her husband sucked her breasts on a regular basis. and shortly after. and shortly aprésavoir stop this habit tt is back to normal

and freeze those babies

Yes you can. Hormones that allow lactation are not only related to pregnancy. Then, it takes a lot of stimulation and motivation. Http://www.lllfrance.org/Allaiter-Aujourd-hui/ AA-63-Relactation-lactation-induite.html? q = breast + after + arr Good reading.