This inextricable link that binds us to our child is born with this instinct that the child, as if we press a switch and the role of mother seems to us immediately obvious as to drink when thirsty! j 't believe, but I have still some doubt, I do not speak of love, I speak of instinct which are two different things. When you say all come alone .. but when baby is born it still shows you how to breastfeed, and when he cries as well and keep the tag on the hospital has any colic, so that in essence the instinct is something natural, therefore, we should not ask so many questions for you, so the maternal instinct is a reality that is part of human nature? or is it just a concept??

no! you did or you did not is not necessarily innate, that is something you learn throughout the day with your little one, unfortunately, many women have abandoned their child not fiber Kindergarten

I think the maternal instinct does not exist. It was maternal love, that's clear, but I do not think we can speak of instinct. Honestly, I have given birth by two weeks (perhaps before, it was decided not too) and I know that at the beginning, well I'm gonna do shit. Same with breastfeeding, it is not as "self" than certain (e) s claim and it may take time to implement or not properly fall into place. In short, I think you learn gradually as you need to learn, simply.

You point out yourself: you must learn these things. So where in all this is instinct, exactly? For me it is clearly no. As for love, I would call option and the examples of women who, without the freezer to fuck little carers and / or bad thing remains common throughout the world. Formerly, many were those who abandoned them at every opportunity. Since the religious or social pressures have changed and a new pretext was found … Personally if I had to raise a child (if rather extreme denial of pregnancy / discovered later on, for example) I do not think I would have committed, or that I wanted to take care puisqu'être mother is something I've never desired (we are still social beings!). Fortunately, now I no longer likely sterilized much!

to the limit, I would not call maternal instinct, but instinct "animal", some gave voice, while others will be more rational in the Cartesian and I made … lots of things "dictated" by my animal instinct: breastfeed (because I am a mammal), sleep with my baby (because in nature, mothers do not let their little sleep "away"), to raise against me a + whenever possible, do not panic at the slightest fart around. babies also have that animal instinct more or less present (and that leaves him more or less express). I always remember my second son was born. So I was lying on his stomach, he has "crawled" a few centimeters, and was transplanted in the most natural manner, as if he had his whole life! We are taught breastfeeding because Rare are those in our time, who saw their mothers, aunts or other women around them breastfeed their children, so we know how to change a diaper …

This is my darling to 11 months and a half, I breastfeed and she never took a bib, these days even shines is when I offered him the breast, it is 2 feedings per day, at night I want take her in my arms for feeding she cries, rears its head and rejects back to the point that yesterday she refused to come to my house and slept in the arms of her father this morning and idem, she preferred to drink suck the water, and when I managed to give it really was not pleased with him that I knew the day she is also taking yogurt and a glass of whole milk had decided the breastfeeding until 1 year old, but I imagined a very gentle weaning, and especially to see her cry as if it was a pinution to suck me heartache, but they grow well and they will have to accept some things even if it's hard for us and shed a few tears when you and how did you feel about the end of your breastfeeding j

He'll have to spend just bottles, I think that is what it claims!

Difficult end of my breastfeeding. I was super motivated to go as far as possible. And then my daughter could no longer breastfeed and it suffers from gastro esophageal reflux, so it takes a special milk. So I loved having it on my breast and watch. That look between us two … But, hey, I have made and now it looks when I give him the bottle.

I have stopped breastfeeding at the 5th month, due to work, but your child must have sth which dérrange in milk, it must talk to your doctor, I hope that you you na no problem, because usually the child breastfeed and loves nothing replaces the natural milk in Parallel need to start giving him vegetable soup in a bottle or spoon, not only to milk withdrawal is tough, and for mothers and children, I've cried myself I obliged because struts arrêtrer the breastfeeding, I've felt I'm good! c was an intimate moment between me and préviligié my child who was 5 years now, my child heueusement he had the habit of breastfeeding and breast bottle. good luck

I do not yet know the weaning period, but I think you should wait a bit before drawing conclusions: my daughter did it more than once, no one understands why, and day next (and following, and still include) it rebounded to suck as if nothing had happened.

And yes, you do not decide, it is large and suck the breast of his mother can make it funny.

My son never sucked more than twice daily, morning and evening too. At 9 months and a half it started to react like your chip when I presented to him in the evening! initially thought that the problem came from me, so I suggested a bottle of LA (he had already had one) but he has refused such .. I tried several things for several days and did what he wanted was to eat like a great! so we spent a little mashed potatoes and Swiss evening! He kept feeding the morning by cons. But 10 months and a half, he started a little too reluctant to suckle. it sucked but so little! 1 large or 2 minutes max …. and he groaned in so … So good, so I suggested a bottle of LA, he only drank 60 ml, certainly as far as what he took in! The next day I told him then proposed the same choe but with cocoa and there he drank its 240 ml! He had, I think, enough of the milk alone! I had a little trouble at the start .. I was afraid of this withdrawal, that I miss it so .. and then finally I well accepted! I. and then finally I well accepted! I was interested to what was breastfeeding until my son decides! and this is what happened! I would have liked to continue but still good, it was biensur no question of forcing my son! "So here, I took a picture of the last feeding, with tears in his eyes, and finally the next day we went to something else. .. I still love watching these pictures, I loved those moments, but hey my son grows up, and I accept! I like to see change, and withdrawal is part of its evolution!

I just think that your little girl wants to move on: the milk, it must begin to weigh on him … even yours! In my opinion, it is important not to force it and listen to their desires: the meal must be a moment of happiness and discovery … may be the time has come for her to "eat as much (attention, not what you eat us, eh). Personal, the transition has come more gradually, as earlier (exclusive breastfeeding up to 3 months, then stop feedings night / morning at 4 months old), … but even then my son the bottle was also made to "pitch", and denied bibi evening! He accepts the morning and the taste, but impossible to drink milk at lunch and evening … So to fill up to 500 ml / day of milk as recommended, it has a cheese milk infant afternoon after his vegetables / meat, and a small Swiss infant fruit at night. I also mix a little milk to puree vegetables in the evening: it makes a kind of soup … I know. Saisbien it I will miss you, these sweet moments with her, face to face. But she grew up, we must be proud of her. If it should become an ordeal, so it is better not to keep in mind that some nice moments of these forced feedings rather than a baby … (I'm still very nostalgic when I think of those moments …)

my son was breastfed until 8 months and he's doing the same thing and had to break the jai allaiteent because he rejected me sorry it was a dying heart for me too

Clearly, this is not a withdrawal. A withdrawal occurs without crying or screaming, just smooth and spread over several weeks. Once you made your bitch sucking a strike. Knows what whim passes through his head right now … let her do her experiments, do not get upset, be patient, moved him from time to time without getting mad, she will return quickly to the breast.

and at the same time, does the fact that a woman breastfeeding in public bother you?

a woman who runs an ice cream eating indifference to me but she breastfeeds in public life is wonderful

they learned at home and at school, it's impolite to eat in the street. simply. we not change the habits!

n.est is not our custom, culture or as I speak for misulments for the woman who breastfeeds in public j've never seen

pre-established bias, but it moves and evolves, the woman is becoming more and more to the breast, not very normal c has not and is not antagonized ca good day

Because for three actions, the men see a sexual connotation. When a woman runs, her breasts ballotent of sudden, they see only the breasts. When a woman eats ice cream, they see their enthusiasm to perform fellatio . When a woman breastfeeds, they see the breast and not the act of nurture … In fact since man thinks more with his than with his brain … they feel assaulted by all that is woman … they are frail men … must understand. The most vulnerable are those who want the woman wears the veil or canopy in the street …

consciousness not take those of the other love is beautiful but the love of neighbor is a 10 year old child can understand it if c is related mocks of a woman who breastfeeds then the consciousness of others is the basis of the response

because it is stupid that I want to tell your

moi ça me pose any problems

see a girl running and eating ice cream is quite normal but I think breastfeeding in public: S, no … I think even most women would feel embarrassed or uncomfortable if they did that in public (especially in our society)

I still breastfeeds and for over a week I started to make him taste the homemade applesauce (apples and apples / bananas), but he still wants it! It's even worse, he will not open his mouth! What do you advise? Exactly I tried different apples and apple apples / bananas are not acidic (well for me), then there I do not know quite what to do. Especially since it is generally recommended to start with the apple, banana or pear. By what fruits do you start?

He may be right to not like apples.

I advise you not to force but to propose again regularly (twice a week for example) it's just that the fruit is slightly acid, contrary to what one might think my daughter would not compote then she absolutely loved all the vegetables … now it has 17 months and she loves all without exception his taste for stewed came gradually to 10 months in any case it is advisable to begin diversifying the salty bon courage

He is not prepared simply. 5 months and a half, it's still early, especially if breastfed. He did not need to eat the apple. So if he does not want, do not force. Continue to offer from time to time (you do small portions in an ice tray that you put in the freezer) if you want, but it will come.

The problem of jams … is that it is acidic … and what he hates, it's certainly acidity of the apple … Must find something else …

Try the cassoulet and Chiroubles.

he is too young, normally, is six months, and it is the pediatrician who said what to give

Say! skip breast sauce! I understand he might have already been accustomed to the bottle and then pass the spoon silicone, since he was born in a head that is soft and warm and then you swing it to the sauce cold (temperature room I hope) and with a spoon so hard that he knew that the nipple is soft! it stops the sauce, he was weaned from mother's milk and you put the bib and then we fit in any case it did not really need sauce right away if you want to continue to breastfeed IT not need anything else good luck

begins with a noon vegetables 2 or 3 tablespoons then passes to another and increases slowly and after the test compotes

Me too, she did not like the apple! Try the pear, she was much more appreciated. Maybe you should try to start with vegetables because it may be more salty than sweet. In any case it should not be stressed from time to time you it presents the sauce, he eats so much the better if not worse. Anyway your milk may largely suffice. Good luck, by.