6:30 .. I just give the bottle in the morning my daughter 4 months old. And I open yahoo to relax until the family wakes up early .. and stupor: a fascinating question, well put on breastfeeding degenerates into fighting pro breastfeeding!. In reading the responses (I repeat the question I found it interesting), I could not help making a link with the answers to questions about epidurals and cesarean section for some ..: epidural = danger , = non-caesarean delivery and not link with baby, not breastfeeding mother = selfishness. That would mean it that I am a selfish mother who does not know what childbirth and have no connection with my baby? Fortunately I have 33 years (plus I'm an unconscious quise can dispose of a baby to age canonical reducing my chances of seeing him grow and increase their risk of trisomy ..) and do not fall for me to type a large depression short .. what vision blaming mothered yes, the question has changed and I thank the schtroumf. glance what vision blaming mothered yes, the question has changed and I thank the schtroumfsympa who did not like controversy more than me .. but in fact my question was broader and related responses that the can bring on yahoo .. in fact, do we risk not to take shortcuts to be terrible and blaming when we do not know the background .. and the writing is sometimes difficult to master? Mamibonne Hello: I find sad not to have answers to the quality of the latter .. THANKS
if you talk about the issue of smurf nice I think she has rested for one then say it did not "fight" on this issue at the outset. For your added: The people on Q / R, as in real life, moreover, have the decision easy. The ideas are accented reçuent and nobody can help but try the other now. Only those knowing a little person, or going to their profile to see account history can avoid falling into the trap of hasty … the problem is to respond to strangers, it was not all elements to deliver the best response (in general). And being anonymous does not help the problem. Manufactured in sorting the responses, everyone will never agree with you.
I gave birth by Caesarean section and no I have not breastfeed my child is loved as much as the first who was born vaginally and was Allete, there is not difference between the two, it is in excellent health does not listen to radio sidewalk, they are still a bullshit kind of fundamentalism, is a mother as she feels there is no rule
cuckoo I think bcp girls (not women I would say because they do not have the mentality) are great influence on what they have not lived … Pregnancy, childbirth (vaginal or Cesa) , breastfeeding or bib (it may very well make the 2 also) and suddenly you find yourself with poor girls who are pregnant not want killed or épisio or caesarean section (Hého'll have to sort of way or another) and flip for a vaginal delivery ….. For my daughter I was 20 years and I've heard crap as large as those who leave … and fortunately no 'There was no internet … I would become lighter! The best advice I ever received came from my grandmother: DONE AS YOU feel it!
this is not a question but just a notice that you give …..
you are so right!
I breastfed any of my three children. For the first I tried under pressure from the nurses and the hospital where I delivered, but I have not supported my son had DIARRHEA, and I get depressed. Back at home we went illico bottle and no transition (and also under the astute advice of my mother). Everything is back to normal in 24 hours. Do not apply it more good than bad bottle feeding? Was 14 years ago.
CONGRATULATIONS! blow your mouth, if I may, is very good, but the only concern is that those who allow themselves to hasty judgments and responses next to the plate, will not take the time to read, and even sniff they took him, I'm not sure they understand!
hi you are right in everything you sis that is why I asked a question above that you answered elsewhere I thank you that is sad not to give his avi gentimnt c ' es is sad that people believe themselves that their knowledge is the best shot of your mouth is justified because I too was angry for the same subject elsewhere j'a withdraw my answer was because of the war I attended bisous
33 years, a venerable age? Those who said it should not be very old. It is true that the relationship is not the same but sometimes it is better to finish his studies and ensure a good situation, rather than making a child very young and do not have the means to properly raise them. Idem The epidural can sometimes be necessary if the woman did not suffer too much. If so, she would live evil confinement and the baby would suffer. Similarly Caesarean section is necessary when a baby is bad, it's better than a C-section to lose the baby … As for the breastfeeding, it affects the female body and is therefore a personal decision that nobody has the right to judge. Do not listen to gossip and enjoy your little angel!
is necessarily difficult to write well what you want to say, especially here, for both questions for the answers! Some are certainly intolerant and inconsiderate, but I think for the most part (well I ' hope!) that are actually misunderstandings and shortcuts a little unhappy. The context is never complete in the question (too long to tell his whole life …) or in the answer (too long to explain if it is our experience, our views, our vision of things ….) It is also difficult to make clear that this is only an opinion and not a trial, especially as we ' address each time a different person, with a sensitivity and a different decision! Difficult to determine after each phrase "I believe," "humor", "irony", "decision "…. So each of us to try the best to use neutral words, and try to take 5 minutes to read the entire question and answer calmly. But like everything else, it is not easy. But like everything else, it is not easy, especially when we feel ourselves unable to directly considered "justified"! But hey, do not depress provided, this would be a shame, especially when we also know we made our choices (and here I do not mean that nursing / epidural …) for sincere reasons.
Lets say my beautiful! there is always someone to tell us what to do and not do! does not feel guilty for having lived through your own experiences, your life is not theirs, and besides, everyone here is the easy criticism (and some do not even know what they're talking!) do not get in anger for so little, your day started well with your poussinnette! watching and your anger will subside! the smile of a child to forget the anger and grief! good day to all …… 2 and remains Zen!
What else to add that what you said! I totally agree with you … People do not see further than their noses. Everyone wants to bring his personal touch (which is legitimate) but often making their case a generality and any missteps annoys another person who will retort and it all ends up spinning out a simple question … Each person lives his life as he sees fit, no one should criticize individual choices but rather help him or give him advice because he must respect others, is not the foundation of Yahoo Q / R base ? Finally I thank you for raising this concern that I had noticed too and I hope it will calm some minds a bit … Good luck
Hello Calim, unfit mother! Javou ke C ke jhésite why more and more to come on Q / R … I mexplik: super naively, I thought was a place Kici exchange, of views, so denrichissement personal and collective … but I'm ke bete, there is the same proportion (see more) people stuck in their ideas, their formalism and regularly, kan you think differently, you do get to see insulting … then frankly, if I still bear a minimum these nag in my social life, I do not see pourkoi I research the rest of the time! And I think ke C especially exacerbated for everything affects BB ki … nor has there ever been such pressure with both dide to follow "mandatory" (breastfeeding, childbirth, nutrition, vaccines, education) while ke it has never changed as fast (if possible radical shifts) and our children have ke never been so bp dallergie … Yet, a mother must know how to challenge, accept ke several different paths lead to. Yet, a mother must know how to challenge, accept ke several different paths lead aumeme place, respect for difference and the free choice of each C moi ki … must wait for others too … Another mother unworthy
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