I'm already married and mother of a little girl. for various reasons (where a couple, money, housing, etc …) I did not want a second child, even if qq weeks I thought it would be not so bad to have a second but not now . Except that it already because I just learned that I'm pregnant while I'm on the pill! : (I am against abortion but I do not know what to do …. What do you think? You are you ever encountered this problem. I'm not well expressed. I have not intention to abort, I only know how to pass the cape: "I do not want this child"
No, not personally. Take the time to land, it was a shock nonetheless. This baby will bring you much joy and you will not regret it later. certainly will have to change your plans but if you had this child, he should be there at the time of your life. Accepts gradually and it will only be good for you three.
Me me it was my first which was a surprise. I never managed to make up my mind so I told myself if I keep resisting it and if it is not the time, and resist it (I fesais work very physical and tiring of or the "if it resists") see with your husband, weigh the pros and cons together for me if the pregnancy is going well, that was the moment, but if you abort you and that after complications thereafter to have one, you may blame you lot!
My mother had me by unwanted pregnancy because like you it was against abortion. And she is very happy now, she's happy to have me (although I'm not an only child) and said she would have regretted not having me on hold. We get on very well with both, even if the means do not follow, love is priceless … Try to make this pregnancy more desirable chouchouttes up, take time for you to your future baby. After all many women dream of a child and never will. Hope to have you helped
Yes I had two children and got pregnant a third … after reflection and discussion (I'm also anti abortion except for very serious reasons) with my husband, I have kept! We had a good situation (both work), good health, then pq no more bb? Of course, he had to find a solution to childcare PCQ I really did not want to lose my job but ultimately it was well arranged … then good luck to your family!
Reminds me a lot of our history. I'm 22 and my friends 23 we have a little princess of almost 7 months. It was just three months we were together when I got pregnant (despite the precautions taken, it may fail , proof). We only had 10 days to make that decision when we have learned. I can say now that it was the worst days of my life. At first I did not want (for many personal reasons, financial , etc.), but tell me that his heart was already beating, my whole whack and I did not know what to think, I finally want to keep it, my friend did not want it, but I think the most beautiful proof of love he has been able to do is tell me "this little piece was done by two, that it will be your decision, I'll be there and I assume". If I had had an abortion, I was afraid to blame him one day and wish him all my life. He was already in CDI, I was 21 years, no steady job, and even our parents all. He was already in CDI, I was 21 years, no steady job, and even our parents all lesdeux. It took us find a home in a hurry (which is what was most complicated I think) and we had to spread our costs over the seven months of pregnancy that we had (she was born in advance) for everything he needed for a single income, has not always been Simple. Today it has nearly seven months, it's a wonderful little chip, I'm CDI part time (to take care of my princess at the same time), my friend CDI full time, we very happy, we are evaluating to buy a house. We would certainly not so many projects if we had not kept lylou and one another as if they could choose again, we were referring all exactly the same way. This is in no case influence you, I'm just from my experience, but my advice would be to keep it! I, who did not want at all to the base (for personal dating back to childhood) I find myself sometimes thinking a little brother for my little lylou!
Hello Mom Being already and already at the base rather against abortion … know that a decision to stop the pregnancy may be quite painful for you. (I know what I mean). It will take you to be serene and certain in your choices, and rather then framed. This decision must also take two, whatever your situation with the dad. It's difficult to give an opinion or advice because this is very personal. Do what your heart tell you, the rest will follow.
weighs the pros and cons to think that this could bring you bb and you made it and I think that a decision not easy to take for my part I am the eldest of a family of 5 children and my mother does not want a child as soon as it has been my 21 years out it was still in the study does not regret anything she has done some thing to be at the top but she has never regretted that decision but that belong to you and your husband you see what you wanted to just listen and your heart as you listen you know deep down that qui'l there 's better for you and your family I wish you good luck gives us quickly to your new and especially no matter your choice does not want to worry
perosnnellement when I fell pregnant with my second baby, it was absolutely to a child. we had some problems in our acquisition and sale of our house and move our project to have a bigger house fell water. I stopped the pill in July 2009, and it is protected pending the renter in our future home and began "officillement" our tests. like everything fell into the water (thank you to Ancine acuqéreurs our house that have failed us), we have the nets in our house that has only two rooms. the coup was carried our baby two trials later. we decided to stay in our house and make a larger image. so it's time consuming to initiate this project and then boom! in December, although I had not taken the pill (we should continue to protect up to our expansion), I got pregnant (forgetting the hood …) was a bit since our project mpaniqué n ' had still not started. and then he was there, so even if it is. And then he was there, so even if n'estabsolument not the time, it was obvious for us to keep it. Suddenly the record: I give birth in a pe uplus of one month and we still have not finalized with the builder for the expansion: the consequences? we'll live with our baby in our bedroom for months and qques Plant Expansion from the start, you will sleep 4 in NoSeparated room: we, my son and future baby ( because we must demolish our son's room for expansion). in short, all that to say that, even when it is not provided, sometimes, li must seize the ball. perosnnelement I do not flip too ppour our situation, but I know we will not pass momeents tip-top next year. So therefore, the "step Keeps" may ultimately change your life positively
when you stop to think that you did not want the child you pass this course.
After some problems of contraception, we used a condom to protect us. But once in the heat of action, patatra, forgetting hood! It was a year ago battery (two days to close!) And August 31 I learned that a baby was on its way. I was 19, entered it in law school, my man was in IFA. After careful consideration, we decided to keep our baby love. Today my daughter is 3 months, we live in a T2 but will start building our house in two months, I stay at home mom (and I loves!) and my man has plans to open its business in three years. In the end what at first might be a brake was actually an engine, the project house, now my man … It's all for our daughter, our family! This baby is so far a surprise for you, but it will then be a pure joy!
