Several questions in one. I was wondering if you had the baby blues "shortly after childbirth. I am not talking about depression or other. I just want to talk a big pain just after the birth of your baby that has been caused by something special. I was three days after birth, when I was told that my baby had lost 800 grams (even if it was a mistake to scale) and need to think about getting a bottle, I had not made the breasts for breastfeeding (you talk, that's 14 months I breastfeed, one just tell me yet, "I broke his mouth: op). I do not know why I thought of my mother who then died several years ago and I felt so terribly alone. I cried all day, every word made me cry like a madeleine. I think it was triggered by the pressure they put me after the birth. I wonder if we can avoid it.

This is due to the drop in hormones!

I also had this little depressed hormone in the first week of life of my children. I still remember sitting on the floor in the process of folding diapers and I had a sudden urge to cry, but scream like that for nothing. No trigger, no problems that could cause this reaction. I knew it was a possibility the baby blues, I bawled my fill and I switched to something else. Strange that reaction is not it?

The baby blues is more or less clearly known. The hormonal factor is also involved in a hand trigger, fatigue, emptiness in her body. We always say that after birth we saw his own birth so it's normal that you think of your mother at this time. It must be three months on average for it to pass if it persists you should consult there may be a lack in the body (iron etc. …) to control.

Honestly, I do not know if what I have is a baby blues. On returning home, I started to cry, I wanted everything to be perfect and darling had made efforts but the house was not like I wanted: not the laundry folded, and a huge blanket (gift of beautiful mom ) loose on the armchair in the lounge. Then I knew what to do, the only advantage of living in maternity is that everything is nearby, at home it took me to rapproprie space. During 3 / 4 days I have had episodes of tears in the evening and also the first night when she woke up to eat. I think it was as much due to fatigue.

No I do not think we can not "… To avoid the hormone … I got it fairly quickly from the clinic, every night when my husband left me to 20h was a tear and I cried like a madeleine, the poor helpless every time … it was a hard 24/48h once back at home And every time I had a right to question "Darling that is there? It will not? "And it happened as quickly as it came.

For me not really baby blues but something big stress when I found a prolapse (cervix low, right over the vulva) 15 days after delivery. Berk, I suddenly felt very old and very damaged. It took me 3-4 days. So completely egocentric blues by cons as I expanded the relationship with my baby, I do not feel outdated, I felt well-doing, especially as I do felt.

As MarieCat, I do not know if it was the baby blues or not … morning because it was going really better. It was evening at the second part. I had many visits the day (but I like to be alone so I was delighted), between feedings that have happened from the start to wonder, my son slept almost all day no worries … And then came the evening around 18h-19h … Night was falling back in December, everyone was leaving, the day shift was replaced by the night shift but apart from the cries of the bb in the hallways all calmed down … … Except my son who began to cry … and it lasted all night until morning like 5am … beh and I can tell you that enclosed between four walls the night with a baby who is just screaming is super long! Direct, I'm worried to find myself alone with my bb, I remember having the reaction of a kid when my baby came home, I collapsed in tears on her "I laaaiiiisssse paassssss ouiiiinnnn" … … I do not know what to do. I do not know what to do pourqu'il be zen … In fact I felt that my bb already knew me very well, he asked me something to relieve me and I do not understand at all … I think it was due to my inexperience, the fact of not really knowing what to do? (Leave crying, put in the night, put it up against me but I was afraid of crashing, it chokes … with regurgitations short I took the lead … I was wrecked and the screams did not help …) … I heard weeping in the next room I remember I was going to kick him two fingers "Hey, I'm your neighbor … do you mind if we all feel great galley there alone?" Brief upon reflection, I think I really put the pressure alone … I understand now that the stay in maternity is completely different from home, and you really have to go by feel, maximum response to the needs of bb …. bb keep everything against us, put it in at will (I. bb keep all against one, put it in at will (moiqui am a real breadboard and despite my caesarean, two days after I had the breasts of Samantha Fox), no it does not choke, I did not 'crush not sleeping … but well maybe I could sleep at night without a cable peter!

Hou siiiiii that! Hard drive when I think … What triggered it: "Madam you the impression, we'll just take stock of their skills, see if everything goes well and if it has no consequences "because it is premature in my head …. it was like a electric shock" because it's something that can not go? "" I know it when you very concon but now think that I became the mother took her daughter for fear … And then my mom like you to thousands of kilometers, the ticket was only for one month half after birth provided Alyssa … I was alone and lonely, zom he does understand me and I confess that I myself could not understand myself. But when I said "hopefully" ouffff "but" ha: heart problem: followed mandatory, more fear than harm, it is always followed next appointment is next year and will be notified until I avoid thinking about it. By my lovely!

Ha la la … the baby blues I think few recovers … Listen … Live the hormones I'd say that by four months, yet I grew not yet laid. By the pregnancy cons' blues I know it must be like .. Suddenly, for something that normally stressful to do a little, I blubber like a madeleine … My husband thinks every time the disaster … fatigue, hormones, stress, and is the pffiuuu cata …

Me, I do not think I had the baby blues due to the drop in hormones. Immediately after birth, I was on my little cloud. Then, fatigue took over. My big blow depressed, I had one month to Junior, when breastfeeding has begun fucked (candidiasis).

Oh yes, the baby blues have I got it. I managed not to breastfeed my daughter, and how the medical team made me feel … I felt like the worst mother … My companion did not surrender yet well aware of fatigue related to the baby (he quickly realized the house) and therefore not helping me not like I wanted. Besides my father died when I was four months pregnant was not there to see my chip and it is in those moments where we know that a particular person should be where the absence becomes hard to manage. I was thinking about her last words "If I'm doing and I am blessed to be able to take your child in my arms I'd be the happiest of men …" So I cry to cry all the tears from my body but after that was better.

Oh yes, I also know: fatigue, stress, my breast has gone wrong, a fight with my parents (they have chosen their moment well huh) I did make one beautiful. I hope one thing, that my neighbor is a little less important because I really feel that my stay in the mat was ruined by that damn baby blues.

Three questions in one. Background: I breastfeed for over 10 months, my daughter started diversifying food 6 months. It currently takes 4 big meals a day, including 3 with breast milk, and 4th, the "blédicrèmes (including milk-based formula, or at least cow). I work and take my milk and I freeze by thereafter. I must be "milking machine" because I have more swollen breasts between feedings (for some time) including the morning (most recently). I have big troubles to get my milk in my workplace, but when the morning it was not a problem, it is extended to draw matin.la length of head has recently drastically shortened before, took each baby within 20minutes each (including liquid meal took 40 minutes) or there in 10 to 20 minutes is folded. when I suggest later, she refuses. Here are my questions: 1-according to you I have enough milk to feed my baby? 2-If I take my milk. Here are my questions: 1-according to you I have enough milk to feed my baby? 2-If I take my milk enjournée when I do not work after a feeding: the milk is going He missed my baby in the same day? Basically the "it takes more than one product more" walk-it still after 10 months, knowing that the next day or two I'll rework and therefore not put baby in the evening? 3-If I pass in mixed feeding (such milk in the morning and evening, and noon formula) would I still have enough milk to ensure these two feedings over several more months? To Miss Armel who had asked about: I followed the advice and I try to give a milk product, but less equivalent milk than it had before, while I returned to give the breast) For cons, the problem is growing, so I think to truly move mixed feeding or weaning so I can ensure a minimum lactation. it does not rejoice at all, I try to make a right. Kisses! Mandriva: The pediatrician is not concerned with such issues as long as baby is 500mL of. Kisses! Mandriva: The pediatrician is not concerned with such issues as long as baby is Delait 500mL per day. regardless of whether the mine, turtle, cow or squirrel. (there is a trap, the tortoise is not a mammal). As the stories of breast pump, I think she would laugh even more … The last time she was already that I could breastfeed so long for the rest, it does not go to work my place so I could breastfeed. Thank you, Lana! "How is it that it is in the process of weaning herself? Indeed, many women can breastfeed several years? Mlle Armel: you cheer me up;) By cons, it takes more in the morning, nothing is less sure: when her father gives her the bottle (2to 4 times per week) in the morning, it takes no more than 220ml and are still forcing. (it was a test by offering him 240 …) Hence the fact that I keep the bib from noon …

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but yes you have enough milk. I think your enthusiasm is smart to wean her pace was not particularly worry. nursing care as much as your smart you do not wish to stress is not secret. maybe its feeding at night it is just normal as it shortens her feedings she probably wants to play and then head if not it is not hungry as you are as you say probably milking machine , so it's normal that you ask questions, but you have enough milk, do not worry. mp if needed I can aid you find a better answer to your questions and then I have a great books on very comprehensive breastfeeding. it's just a suggestion that I'm maybe she did have very hungry right now so anything is possible is why we say breastfeeding on demand! and possible that a baby is weaned very early because he did not want simply happen. tapuce good for maybe just a rhythm she wants, do as usual and you'll see offers. do not say it's the end, you say. do not say it's the end, say toiqu'elle eats the request and see what she decides! Maybe she does only because the feeding remains fully satiated! I have a girlfriend she is 20 months of breastfeeding, there are only feeding at night and morning. other times the little eats. if I need mp for any concerns about breastfeeding I found a great site, I have books, I'm dressed lol

Thank you for the news More baby is, the longer the duration of feedings decreases. It is quite normal. The first baby has a suction force more important and can make a big operation in minutes (3 minutes). Then baby is protein, fat and all Bazaar in its solid diet and knows its needs for managing milk according to what he ate during the day. If he had not enough milk, he would know. Finally, baby looks more and more to the outside world has no time "to lose" with the feedings. This means that Mom has completely fulfilled its mission: baby has enough confidence to "get away" from his mother without fear. He knows that mom will love him always and will always be there to give him a feeding as soon as they want / need. It's super hard to make her milk lactating car. Put up your instrument of torture! Skip to artificial milk would be a shame if you plan to breastfeed longer. It. Ilfaut trust you and trust your lovey-dovey. There is no reason to stop lactation 9-10 months while everything is going well so far. Nature does not nourish a baby during that time to let it wither away then. For cons, the signs can be misleading and mostly misunderstood (duration of feeding, etc. …). But at 10 months, babies do not wean "naturally". A baby is weaned "naturally" when it has need more milk. These are babies who have additional milk bottle that can stop sucking as they have all their inputs without going through the womb of mother. You may consider stopping the bib noon. It is able to do without (besides the artificial baby milk have more bib for lunch at this age) and more will suck milk morning and evening. Bisous! @ DDITION: Well if it does not take over was that she did not need. You can not rely on you 500mL. Do not forget that breast milk has a different composition than milk. Do not forget that breast milk is not the same composition as the laitartificiel and moreover, it varies during the day. The main thing is that baby has his dose of protein, fat, etc. … This operation may well be super concentrated in a small volume, all that does is change in the amount of water consumed baby through breast milk. It's like the amount of sugar in one cup depending on how many pieces you put into it: there can be 0 or sugar then 8 or 9 and it is well agreed that changes everything! And to reassure you otherwise, you have answered this question http://fr.answers.yahoo.com/question/index; _ylt = AmV37kqClH_40YyxwH7AQOUxS31G; _ylv = 3? qid = 20100114004656AACBoKx In reviewing the responses you can see that 10 months, many babies no longer take one bib 240 in the day. The mothers involved do not seem more disturbed than that, their loulous did not seem to be missing. Yet the composition of artificial milk never changes in 240ml and there is always the same amount of protein.. These babies may benefit deficiencies (I'm not saying they are) than yours that receives a milk perfectly suited to its needs and consumption.