Is It Normal To Have The Doubt Of Having Made The Right Choice, Be A Good Mother Is Not Easy?
Friday, July 23rd, 2010Hello everybody, I'm 21 I'm pregnant and I 10SA ask ais I made the right choice? indeed I became very afraid I am asking is that I'll be a good mother I am ready? ?? my boyfriend and still more stress than I and indesci being given that we are still students, saying he is not to be ready to become a father mtn but in the meantime is the first to choose the sex the baby, buy my medoc m, take me to the gygy etc. … I do not know if he pretends to support me being given it knows it's not easy at all to me, speaking not even my family, that said, I still have two weeks after I could not take a step back, mmmm aujoudhui he tells me to take home the gygy by appointment for an abortion but despite my fears, I do not think being able to withstand even a After this, just the fact of thinking makes me cry I feel so weak and confused if I'll keep him ca 'a child in the back "but I feel no force was yet again an intervention c' was my. I do not know if he pretends to support me being given it knows it's not easy at all for me, not even speaking to my family, that said, I still have two weeks after I could not do walk back, mmmm aujoudhui he speaks to a by appointment at the gygy for abortion but despite my fears, I do not think being able to bear it again, nothing that makes me weep to think of me feel so weak and confused if I'll keep him ca 'a child in the back "but I feel no force was yet again an intervention it was my last mapremiere and I still suffer today and in truth I already love my baby even without having seen and done 3 years ac avc I am my man and I am afraid to lose especially to disappoint what should I do??
hello I am a mother of a boy of 1year and I was a student but unlike you, I wanted so mentally I were ready and I'm so happy because every day he surprises me more and more c is a real happiness. obviously there are moments of anguish because raising a child is difficult so if you can give your full attention and love then you have no nothing to fear. success
you can not say that you made him a child on her back because this baby is the fruit of your "love" I am a mother of two children. tjr we ask this question one day I'd be a good mother you say you love your baby already is a good start. today I live for my children are everything to me thanks them I see life differently. the final decision has not come back you and nobody else. There are young mom and excellent mothers you see you with this baby? there is this qu'onappelle instin the breast in my opinion you will make a very good mother. I do not want to influence you in any case I do not know your current situation. I hope you make the right choice from the heart. courage.donne me news. bizz.
bjour, First of all there is to know that God wanted to put this new-born world, compared to the regulations and all religions are the baby's parents recognize the fact there is no better than the truth despite hurtful, but becomes child ignore you, maybe one day it is he who will nourish you, it's serious attention to an abortion recognized father, and then nothing happens it will be days where you can forget the past, is something that bullshit you did was not taken into account either, nor supported by such gravity voilalabonne answer????
No I think we should not get worked up … why would you a bad mother? Your friend, if he loves you he will remain at your side and will be a wonderful father … if you think about it, neither he, nor you, will never be ready and willing, there is no ability to become a parent after a defined time. No you will become parents grow up seeing your child / children and will grow with you. I know that abortion is not a trivial thing and I also know that you could regret it if you commit an abortion ultimately not having kept Well … I know you'll tell me, there are studies, etc. … it is on it will not be easy, perhaps at the beginning but all the mothers (and fathers too) say, it's worth the effort.
I am in the same situation as you I am 21 year s and I'm 3 months pregnant. I'm cdd 6 months and my boyfriend is in CCD of 1 year (through December) and the term is scheduled for January and early … it was probably too! I have a lot of thought and I believe that abortion is a last resort but for me it was 21 years old is able to assume. It will not be easy but if you have already done and you are still suffering today it is better to keep it. Do not listen to your boyfriend is your decision it is inside of you that grows and it is you who will suffer! Whether you're a student many other people are in this case and his own way. Now it is your decision and it is up to you to weigh the pros and cons no one should influence you! And then a baby is the read thing in the world! And do not worry about your maternal instinct it will happen at the same time as the baby. I thought to be too young and not ready but I think it's a gift for your child you raised. I thought to be too young and not ready but I think it's a gift for your child you raised desmontagnes therefore I think. I wish you good luck and remember that your decision will be good. Good luck