I just answered this "When I see all the thumbs down that reaped the mothers not to breastfeed is beyond me. I'm not Mom, but I think each should respect the choice of the other, the choice is breastfeeding or breastfeeding "artificial." A mother who does not breastfeed is not necessarily a bad mother and a mother who breastfeeds is not necessarily a perfect mother ( there are no perfect mothers for that matter). Mothers who do not breast are often criticized, but they may be good reason to breastfeed their baby bottle (baby not sucking at birth, very severe pain in breast milk in quantities too low and so on). When I have children I do not know what breastfeeding (natural or artificial) I choose because I do not know if I can give him the breast, But whatever my choice, I always respect the choices of other mothers what it is, what few mothers are visible here. "this. Cettequestion http://fr.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100325020448AAzk7tV as to this question appears at the end of this page and will be less available, I relaunched the debate and I welcome your reactions to my response, thank you! @ scorpion: yes, I made my bad sentence … @ others: thank you for your answers, I expect even more! about me, as I have no children some will not be not found my answer very objective, but as I said I respect all the choices, I'm not criticizing or mums "bib" or the mothers' breasts "… and as said so Hawkgirl" better a bottle … "I let you read his response and his beautiful words.
There's no debate, there's just people tolerant and intolerant people.
I read your response. I am breastfeeding, but I am above all for freedom of choice of the mother. What matters to me is that the child and the mother goes well. I'm choosing to breastfeed, I loved the contact with my daughter and know that I gave him the best was very satisfying. Meanwhile, my sister did not breastfeed her two daughters and is his right. By cons what I could take my comments as negative on his part because I breastfeed! Short, I do not put thumbs down for the followers of the bib, I am not a place to judge the merits of their choice, they do not say it enough "better a bottle given with love one breast has reluctantly. Sibline @, with all due respect, I do not see the connection between the question and your screed pro Breastfeeding. Pelagie wants to highlight the fact that non-lactating mothers were often right moult inches below you and us an apology on breastfeeding … Moreover, if the jawbone where you have given birth was not pro-breastfeeding, it is not. Moreover, if the jawbone where you have given birth was not pro-breastfeeding, it is not LECAS everywhere! Tolerance is a two-way and if you want people to respect your choice lactation length, ALSO agrees that women do not want to offer their breasts to their child.
One realizes, in the field of nursing as in another, being pro-choice is always a difficult exercise, where the temptation to fall into the trap of "100%" or "100% cons "is very strong. The trick is not to sink into fundamentalism and trial inquisitor to punch. What many do too often, unfortunately. I'll add that, like a generation born in the 70s and generously showered with baby formula, I'm not dead. The evidence I am still here to write, I am still on my 2 legs, and I have a 3 digit IQ, or not very far ….
Indeed on Yahoo I noticed that the freedom of thought and almost doomed. If it was not the same opinion as everyone thumbs down rain … For my part I consider that there are such to try if a response is good to his question and that's not to judge others. Regarding breastfeeding my baby took the breast poorly and plus I had very little. I pulled my milk I had for 15 days but not more than one bottle per day. I'm glad I could give him my milk that said it was so hard that I breast feed may be more. We must learn to accept the choices of each .
BUT THERE IS NO DEBATE AND IS NOT TO DEBATE. We live in a democracy and we are free to choose their mode of feeding. POINT.
I agree, stop this stupid debate. It is in France and every mother has the right to choose what she wants to breastfeed or not. Breastfeeding is good, it is medically proven and everything but the artificial milk is good quality and are also healthy children. There's much more serious. There are countries where women do not decide anything. Ms. Badinter would do better to fight for them …
You know, since the time I did not even bother to respond. Wading in the meal is not worth it, explain why you've always twisted, I prefer silence, so much absurdity on the subject. Nice idea, thank you!
Honestly I do not think that what happens on this topic on the issue of breastfeeding reflects what happens in real life. It's a personal choice that affects the emotional, the blow on the Net reactions are disproportionate, at least I hope it … I also shocked me to read some sentences pro breastfeeding on this topic. After reflection and now that my girl is here, I realize that I tape Royal. My daughter I gave her the bottle and I'm delighted, I merged with it as if I had given him the breast. Period. And I confess also that those who choose to breastfeed are welcomed at first, but it lasts they are also victims of virulent criticism enough. The criticism is rife in both directions.
Breastfeeding is a natural thing for me that is extremely simple once everything is well formatted. Formerly, women were accompanied to breastfeed, they had the support of their mothers, their aunts, their grandparents mothers, neighbors. So the start on breastfeeding would probably be easier. All women breastfeeding a few exceptions and thus came together to benefit others. There was a baby suckle more if umbilicated nipple we knew the food galactogen to stimulate milk production, it helped the young mother that she sits and she might as well feed in good conditions. Since the 60 years, we encouraged women to stop breastfeeding by saying that it would be liberating. But the lure last only so long. All this knowledge transmission has fortunately not been lost and I tip my hat to associations like the League Leache that support breastfeeding women replacing the mother or the aunt who really knows. Y is there really a choice? "Yes, we pensepouvoir choose, but in the absence of real support, how breastfeeding fail and how successful breastfeeding? Nothing is done to encourage women to breastfeed or continue breastfeeding, even less time to breastfeed, although we often say the opposite and that we do believe otherwise. Must go back to work quickly as 3 months, while it was around 3 months that breastfeeding is just beginning to be well implemented. At the maternity ward, when you say you want to breastfeed, you do not more support they would have us believe. During my stay in the maternity, baby cried and 2 o'clock in the morning, I heard my daughter and did not sleep because I had trouble to give the breast. When the nurse came to see what was happening, she was brutally put in my daughter by forcing her to stay on him pressing his head. And we heard in the distance another baby would not stop crying. And the pediatric nurse rolled her eyes said, "Yeah, it's also a baby. And the pediatric nurse rolled her eyes said, "Yeah, it's also a bébéallaité" by implying that a breastfed baby can not sleep peacefully and style "you're really connes to subject it to your kids. "Then comes the pressure balance where the slightest difference in weight on the scales calls into question the success of your breastfeeding. A breastfed baby is losing weight at first, but it's something normal and yet they tell you this as something wrong and it makes you pinball, and we ask you ultimatums, style if your baby's No Tomorrow has not regained the weight they pass the bottle. When you give him an outright bottle of formula in your back. My stay in that motherhood was a hell where I had to fight constantly reminded forcefully that I did nothing for my daughter that my milk . I have even made sterile bottles in the room. I was put pressure so that I draw from colostrum to breast pumps and had interest enough to learn if they passed my daughter a bottle of formula. So where. Then westerly choice in all this? They must have a moral and steel to be 300% satisfied by breastfeeding, because it runs constantly full of things. Then when your breastfeeding is well established, we'll put even more pressure on you when asking Is what you're thinking of weaning your baby? If you are breastfeeding beyond 6 months, you pass for an alien. I recently heard in a video replayed at the site of the JT France 2 a report on the mothering female pediatric nurse who said it was pathological to want to breastfeed longer. We would'm saying women who do not want to see our children grow.
Breastfeeding is a choice no one discusses this point. But perso je trouve ca false to claim that milk powder is also "good" as breast milk is false. I'm not saying it is bad or harmful, or that children fed with bottles will all be allergic stunted. But we do not deprive me of the idea that these products made by multinationals bring to both children. there is more or less two years of Chinese children have died due to a product component in their milk powder, then the agreement is far from China, they are less stringent controls etc etc but I still tank because after the scandal bottles Advent to biphténol there will be one day the milk Nestl * enriched with hormones. breastfed by my belief (I offer the best of the best for my child) and not by choice.
Anyway whatever you do you are considered, you have not noticed? – When you got kids you're not criticized, you are treated to selfish … – If you have children (especially d 'close ages) you are treated to hen … – If you are breastfeeding you are asked a puzzled look: "Oh you are breastfeeding? And you count how long to breastfeed? not you afraid that you don' t abyss breasts? (Pfffff your bullshit and it does not deteriorate it?!), … "- Or when you're expecting twins and that you intend to breastfeed, you are asked with wide eyes:" You're going to breastfeed them both at the same time?! "- If you do not breastfeed, at any time you're considered a bad mother … And so on, I found that here in France and even now in 2010 there are still many people who are intolerant and disrespectful. It's pathetic! But everyone puree (e) mixes his c **! Pelagie Thanks for this question j'étoilise. Come on, one more star for you, I wish you much that you had a child. Bizette the dindonautes!
I recently saw a news story, where mothers breastfeed their infants until 3-4years … then I think there is a problem, anyway! After the women are what they seem, for their child point bar. The only thing I think is that those who do not breastfeed, will never know, this small privileged moment, indescribable, which is simply one between mother and baby.
I have several things to say. You write "when I see all the thumbs down that reaped the mothers not to breastfeed is beyond me." I expected to find lots of answers "anti-breastfeeding" riddled with thumbs down. So I went to read everything. It is 19h25, there are 16 responses, 16 responses posted, so none was removed and the 16 responses, only 1 is "not for" breastfeeding (which by the way is stupid, we might want or not wanting to breastfeed, but for or against a natural phenomenon that is anything, it's like being for or against earthquakes or the flight of birds). short! Only one answer on 16! Your sentence is not appropriate at all … This answer has collected 12 inches below (including my own stupidity for the double response) and 8 inches high (like how there are still quite ignorant to believe that formula milk equates milk and can be for or against. But I hate is this famous sentence etrabaissante completely hypocritical. I think everyone should be free to do whatever he wants without being judged and receive all the help they need, whatever their choice. We can only note that this is not the case. We made the big eyes of mothers who breastfeed and not be demoralized lactating. The medical staff is not trained and knows nothing about breastfeeding. It tells a lot of nonsense and its single solution for all problems is "weaning and give the bib. Hawkgirl, good for you if you got all the help you needed to maternity, but being Nursing godmother in real life and frequenting this site for several years, I can only see that you're the only one, unfortunately … I recall that does not help a mother to breastfeed, a physician violates not Only the Charter of Rights of the Child in May as the Hippocratic oath. I am in nursing long term (21 months) and since I was almost always drunk with "should stop thinking," she. I'm a long lactation period (21 months) and since I was almost always drunk with "should stop thinking", "elletète encooooooooooore !!!", etc. … At this point I stopped nursing in public. Has anyone ever seen a mother hiding in to the bottle? Furthermore, we see lots of stories extremes that do not reflect reality (the mother who forced his 7 year old son to suck). Full of anti-breastfeeding figures are publicized and stigmatize the act: everyone knows that compares Elizabeth Badinter in one of his interviews with the nursing chimpanzees, while advocating tolerance. And Marcel Rufo has become his daily broadcast on public television and says that breastfeeding more than 3 months is unhealthy and leads to serious psychological disorders in the baby … Do you know a single person pro-public breastfeeding? All that to say that currently in France, we must not delude ourselves and it is actually much more difficult to breastfeed more than 3 weeks bottle feeding. Still, it is supposed to live in a free country and there is always someone to find fault with our. Still, it is supposed to live in a free country and there is always someone to find fault with noschoix is super boring! Assume our choice Allaiton, give the bottle, nurturing us, respect us , support us, we love … Peace and love!
The response has been a lot of inches below suggests that industrial milk powder Gold = milk is a lie and I believe is misinformation. I have long nursed my daughter, my best friend did the has ever done and we get along very well! We are all mothers before and I completely respect the choice of every mother to breastfeed or not. However, I jumped when I hear that the milk industry is just as good (or better …) than breast milk because is simply false. Contrary to what you believe, virtually nothing is done to encourage or help mothers who want to breastfeed: no specific follow-through support for breastfeeding single motherhood really well trained to subject (parade of different midwives giving conflicting advice), maternity leave is too short … As the eyes of others: yes, it is "in" and saw to nurse a few weeks but when you breastfeed longer it quickly becomes an object of curiosity! In France, the breast is. As compared to other: yes, it is "in" and saw to nurse a few weeks but when you breastfeed longer it quickly becomes an object of curiosity! In France, breast estbeaucoup equated with sexuality when a mother nursing a baby "too old", people are beginning to find it disturbing if not unhealthy child … Breastfeeding is a natural act first and to create a wonderful relationship with his child. In France, we often feel that it is bottle-feeding is a natural act … therefore it seems important to support mothers who wish to breastfeed by providing advice and access to the site of La Leche League.
