Hello. I am in a quandary about whether or not I breastfeed my second to be born in December. I nursed my daughter and I not only had milk for 15 days but the longer it went super gone wrong (baby can not take the breast and maternity staff were not really there to help moms …) Anyway I went to pull milk away and not too … So I wanted the opinion of mothers who did not decide to breastfeed you have struggled to make that decision? Your baby has he had more health concerns than another? Thanks.
Not at all difficult to make that decision. Health concerns? Yes she has reflux, but it has nothing to do with the bottle. I find silly to attribute all health concerns of a baby to breastfeed or not, I'm not saying that milk powder is better than breast milk, even though I imagine that breastfeeding gives more chance for a baby to be healthy but do not push it even nettle eh. I have many examples of baby bottles that chopent disease, but I also full of examples of breastfed babies who have exactly the same concerns.
When I got pregnant very quickly the question was asked too! I do not feel able to breastfeed, I had a special relationship to my breasts and it was hard to imagine the baby hanging from my nipples … I spent my whole pregnancy I say I will try , not to regret it and we will see, thinking that if I wanted one week that would be well … Finally I nursed 10 months and a half! Hey … can not really choose until you are not faced, finally I think in any case it's a shame not to try at least the feeding homepage! and then may be a week or two …. etc. After all it costs nothing to try! After if you realize that this does not suit us does nothing to stop without feeling guilty! The problem with the fact that I not breastfeed from the outset is that later the mother may have regrets, not having tried at least … Anyway everyone's opinion and their choice of course! but do not worry about the health of your loulou, milk. Anyway everyone's opinion and choice of course! but do not worry about the health of your loulou on laitmaternel is certainly best for him, all the times if you can not / will not breastfeed the baby formula are still good now!
Hello, I am a mother of a girl who is 16 months and I did not breastfeed, it's a question I asked myself throughout my pregnancy, breastfeeding friends around me and when I looked their child within me I do not projecting. My decision was made not to breastfeed eight months of pregnancy without regret, yet it is very fashionable, motherhood has emphasized, also my family, my daughter is doing very well, had no health concerns from birth (low weight at birth) and I do not regret my decision more silent dad very proud to give the bottle to his chip. There are a lot of pressure around the future mom sex workers say that what is best for the baby, certainly, but the mother must have wanted to do and not by force under the pretext that it is better for the small, the formula is complete too.
I think breastfeeding should be a real desire, not a choice "to do well" taken half reluctantly. It is better for a baby who is given a bottle with love in relaxations, within a given teeth clenched in pain with tension and stress. I also asked myself the question of nursing, I read books, tried to convince me, but nothing worked: I did not see me at all to do, the worse it repelled me. So for my two children it was bottle, and it went well, no worries health or anything. Just a guilt of not having this desire, not having managed to overcome my fears to try. But being a parent does not mean being perfect, what is done with and everything is empowering.
You can certainly give it a try and if it goes wrong, you go to the bib. this is not because that's gone wrong with your daughter that happens wrong with your second child. do you just like you feel like. and do not feel guilty if you do not breastfeed is a personal choice that only looks at you.
I have 2 girls, almost 4 years and 10 months, none had been breastfed for my first I was not even raised the issue of breastfeeding, I chose the bottle directly. for my second I hesitate long during my pregnancy, so I talk with my sister who nurses her 4 kids for 3, 6, 9 and 16 months, and listening I found that breastfeeding does not suit me more reason that I own (too long to develop. my girls are very rarely ill (my second one time in 10 months, bronchiolitis) if you want to try breastfeeding makes it a very personal choice.
I did not decide not to breastfeed, but I would still answer to your question … 1 / To achieve your breastfeeding, it must have really wanted: override do-gooders, in one way or another, to choose your conscience that you will want to do. But if you ask the question is do you have probably wanted … 2 / A baby is not the other, and as a delivery is not the other, breastfeeding n ' is not the other. Do not trust what you've experienced the first time to anticipate the second. It happens maybe worse, maybe better. Breastfeeding is also partly the baby who decides. In short, if you want, even a little, try. There will be time to change his mind. If you do not want, do not try …
Hello, my child will be born in late February. For me and for a long time I do not want to breastfeed if I have milk I bought a breast milk. My decision has not been difficult to take because I always knew I wanted to breastfeed. Each woman is free to decide. And when others make comments to me I told them that it's my choice.
You know to me who was responsible for feeding, I have not found that motherhood was the ideal place for support. Several of us have had great difficulty breastfeeding in the early despite our belief and our deep desires. Unfortunately, the staff of the maternity ward where I was, even if they make an effort to allow early initiation of breastfeeding the baby and even if they make efforts for the skin to skin etc.. They are completely off base with breastfeeding and I saw this morning by visiting their new website that only 50% of women continue breastfeeding after leaving the pregnancy is one in two women. This does not surprise me given the stress they cause and the pressure they bring. I received information from a completely contradictory and another nurse. I do not feel they have been helped or supported. We pressed the head of my baby to drink, everyone rested on my breast and it was terribly painful, both say that my baby. We pressed the head of my baby to drink, everyone rested on my breast and it was terribly painful, both say that my baby sebraquait and we missed a big enough check. My daughter was born with a weight of 3.830 kg, after three days, she did more than 3 kg and was advised to stop breastfeeding because she could not breastfeed. For me, it was no question of stopping or giving supplements. Fortunately, my husband was intrigued by the balance and it is that there was an error in the tare. Although my daughter had lost weight, although she had some difficulty to breastfeed, but she had not lost the weight they told me, but about 400 g. That made a big difference! And because of this error tare, they held a mother with her child for several days because the baby had not grown enough. I also could not go out only if my daughter gain weight, any woman in full baby blues would have accepted the additions to the bottle in this situation. My husband supported me and been refused. I pulled my milk, he gave the cup, but was. I pulled my milk, he gave the cup, but c'étaitpas great, until a carer me about the silicone nipples. My husband ran to the pharmacy and buy there, my daughter was finally able to breastfeed successfully two days before my release. I wept for joy and during these two days, I gave him the breast regularly for it to regain weight quickly and we can finally get out away from all this pressure. Frankly, you ask the advice of moms who do not breastfeed, so my experience will match may not be what you're looking for, but all I can say is do not stay on this failure and to surround true connoisseurs with breastfeeding, because I believe you will not support expected in many maternity hospitals, even if some try to make some effort. Anyway, I hope you make the best decision, I think if you ' interviewed, is that your decision is not completely stopped. Personally, I do not regret me hanging with all my strength to the desire to breastfeed, because I could not breastfeed. Personally, I do not regret me hooked with all my strength to the desire to breastfeed because I could breastfeed sansles silicone nipples two weeks after I get home and it has been nearly 14 months that I nursing baby. According to my readings after shots, lots of babies do not take the breast out at the beginning is normal since this is the suction that helps develop the jaw and muscles and it does can not be done in one day or a fortnight. In addition, the baby is sucking that increases milk production, and more baby sucks the more milk will be available, also the herbal supplement to breastfeeding are sometimes helpful at first. It is also talk of peak growth in early to give the impression that has no milk, but it's just a baby suckling a lot to control the brain to increase milk production. These are difficult and delicate passage, but once you know it really reassuring and it helps to complete each step.'s Up to you, whatever you choose, you have my full support.
No problems, no state of mind not to have breastfed my daughter she had no health concern during his first year except a big gastro 7 months. There is only you who can know what is you WANT to do.
I am expecting my second baby in March and I know I will not give him not. I nursed my daughter two days. It was very wrong, I made a baby blues not possible behind. My decision was easy to take: not breastfeeding for the second. I do not want to repeat the galley. I hope to be able to benefit more fully from my second baby.
Just for you feel guilty: If you wish not to breastfeed, do not worry about the opinions of others, you're watching it. My mother has not breastfed or my sister or me, and m has said earlier that it is not made worse. But I would rather breast feed my first baby coming in October, but nothing says it'll be alright, I just want to try. Stop worrying about yourself what will people say or think about you. By cons, regarding the health of the baby, there is nothing I can tell you.
I always knew that nursing was not for me and has no regrets over my decision. My daughter is healthy and I do the same with my other children.
is true when the moment is the big game in the hospitals want you to feed the children but it is a choice it's your child and especially what are your breasts! I nursed my first idea what! she could not suck and I had breasts like melons! the sudden pain and bib draw milk for her 15 days! all that for that and I admit that this is beyond me how the children are very well behaved in my bib 2 not question it took the bib and did not get sick because if you believe everything you said snakes will swallow because even if you breastfeed your baby can catch anything in the first 4 months of her life so short …. if you decide not to breastfeed this baby do not feel guilty it does not want you ! he just wants to eat him when he is hungry late pregnancy and good luck to you 4
I do aillaitée any of my two daughters are 2 and 3 years and never get sick my friend breastfed her two daughters until six months and they are always ill I'm not criticizing either one or the other of power but frankly do not force yourself because it is already very difficult, so it must be very motivated good luck