I think back to what I said a breastfeeding copinaute who lives very long if one follows the French standards, and told me that sometimes some people hiding her suckling again. Suddenly, I was wondering if "many" moms concealed the fact that they were breastfeeding? If yes, whom did you hide? Close family, distant, medical staff, the nanny, the PMI, the pediatrician? And if you did, why? Thanks for your answers @ Fumminette: well no, you're not at all irrelevant. On the contrary. The copinaute in question, which is in the area, said she hid it to avoid the comments
Just six months of breastfeeding Choup impressed him (!) Persons with whom I spoke today …. I did not have to hide it but I was getting comments …. Am off topic but I was just passing by ^ ^ ^ ^ @ Bizzzz game: I do not see who it is but anyway, it does not concern me. I plan to do for my little longer dude, if I take parental leave, it will also why. I am not there yet but I hope (my great fault) that everyone respects the choices of others, including mine. Choup to the end, I felt the pressure of an especially great for mothers who wanted give the bib. Since we lived at home, she had to have this need. But breast-feeding stopped in 15 days when I wanted to rotate in front bib and diversification, to facilitate milk mixtures vegetables, etc.. I have no regrets. But I want to go further. Bizzzz Re-
Anyway whatever you do, there will always be someone to criticize our choices in how to raise our children. I did not breastfeed very long time say that I'm in the middle, but that is when I was breastfeeding or when I decided to stop, I have always been sure of my choice. But according to the person I had in front of me, I could not say how I was feeding my baby. It avoided me comments such as "but you do not know if your baby is getting enough" and "your milk is perhaps not quite nourishing" or the condescending air of the kind you do not have the courage to continue for the good of your baby. If we did not care peace to moms, blaming them less.
My daughter just turned 2 years old, I'm pregnant and breastfeeding encoooooorrre! And few people know (except here) … This is not really that I hide, I just do not shout it from the rooftops and we do not ask me either. Frankly, it's so off-standard that it does not come to people's minds. They flabbergasted when they ask me how long I breastfed and I tell them I still have not stopped ( But I do not say always, sometimes I avoid the answer) … My parents and my in-laws but I know all the time right to remarks. There I am very tired: buying a house, move ahead, end of school year, students excited, pregnancy and louloutte full of life, what's more normal to be exhausted? Well no, because I breastfeed toujouuuuuuurssss! Less close family does not know, as most friends. But hey, they know my daughter, they see how she is awake, autonomous, sociable so I not have too many thoughts. But hey, they know my daughter, they see how she is awake, autonomous, sociable so I'm not too réflexionsdésagréables when they learn just looks bewildered and concerns about the state of my breasts which are be reduced to ground meat since it has teeth (!). The nurse knows that it's weird because she never breastfed. She was really worried at first, but it has the "result" before the eyes all day, so she said nothing. Yesterday, the "technical inspection" of two years, the doctor asked me the question because There was a check box and he said "Again?" It's okay, it happens! ". I do not know how to take it, so when in doubt I'm good. Anyway in 2 years she has been sick only once, so … As for knowledge or people lambda, everything depends on the speeches they hold. I do not want to justify myself at all times and to fight against prejudices to 2 francs (about 30 cents more for Lunch's ^ ^). I no longer nursing in public since loupette at 13-14 months. The last time the eyes became. The last time the devenaientvraiment looks too heavy, with thoughts on vaginal … Well, I think that those who pass bambino will never be independent, it will be more stupid than others and it is high time he eats anything (yes it does in THAT the breast, and nothing is forbidden except baby explodes), not forgetting those that disgusts or patients who see an incestuous relationship, .. . But for almost everybody, long breastfeeding also means that the mom wants to keep their child in a baby's status, she refuses to see it grow, etc. … But I see (not least here) children who do not eat before the best pieces to have teeth or so to 16 -18 months (can not + will choke), who do not eat alone with or without a spoon before the same age (can not c + ' dirty), who do not drink by the glass at that age (can not choke + + dirty), who were not proposing the pot before 2 years minimum (can + trauma), who drink bibs for 3 years and have the + cuddly pacifier in her mouth until 24/24h. I offered him more a long time, she is claiming (in any case we can not force a child to téters'il do not want). When she throws herself on me saying "love sucks" when I see all the jokes she makes me in, she throws me looks, etc. … I am willing to bear all the stupid thoughts and all the prejudices of society. I pRoute the whole Earth! Here! Kisses Lady!
No, I have hidden one. My father was surprised when I told him that my daughter still head, sometimes he tells me he'll have to stop thinking, because after it will be difficult to get the breast. I rather full of arguments if they had to make me the reproach to be nursing when she was almost 13 months. For me, it is obvious that breastfeeding will continue much longer. But I notice that my darling has a different attitude when you're outside for some time. It seems that by "modesty", it does not require the breast when you are both in mop in front of strangers. Armel @ Miss: How I love your text! All this is so beautifully said. lol I'm back you in what you describe. It's so true.
15 months, it did not seem so long … And I never felt the need to hide. The society in which I live be any more open? I do not know, I hear the beautiful sometimes. In my area there is a drop-in breastfeeding for toddlers, a daughter of my godmothers nursing association often goes there. She is breastfeeding her oldest (between 2 and 3 years) and baby 9 or 10 months. It seems normal now, but I would not have said it before breastfeeding myself, although I do not think there was any prejudice as a bed here. Armel Miss, I love your text! Bravo!
I did not hide, you could see it! (my boys are self-weaned at 9 months, but I could not breastfeed beyond 18 months / 2 years, for reasons of my own) a note, only one, of my mother: "but you're going to breastfeed for much longer?" (Mode bewildered) "Bah, I think to wean him before he left the army, unless I could match it (mode foutage of mouth) oddly, she never dared to ask question for the second … (Cellars why …)