Hello, I just lost my baby at 6 months and 1 / 2 of pregnancy (see my other question) and I wanted to share with you my experience. Once the shock wore off and once you have finished blame the entire earth, once also went home I had another look at my body. My new body, one that carried my baby … My new body Mamanga … I have another look at my breasts, breastfeeding, too. I'll be unleashing the comments but I need to talk. If life gives me the chance to be a mother, that much is sure breastfeeding my child within. It is not that I did not breastfeed my baby because I did not want to breastfeed. I bought a breast pump. It's amazing how this race has changed things … And you have you had this experience? (Not to lose a baby, but to change his mind about breastfeeding). Thanks for your answers.
First, know that I am sorry for your loss. I did not live so I can only imagine how difficult it must be. For breastfeeding, at first I'd say breastfeeding and to see if it suits me any more than that, it would feed. Since I almost spend my daughter twice in the bottle so I was exhausted (and so I had been wrongly advised to motherhood ). But now I love breastfeeding, I do not regret my choice and I intend to breastfeed my daughter at least until his first birthday if not more. I even think I went a little too " pro-breastfeeding "but I try not to get drunk around me too.
Meow trawl is really beautiful what you just said T'choupi and very emotional because we feel your feelings immence The love you give to the child what you will give life Hard to say or hear I do not know but it is certain that it is the most difficult trials that are the heart could open up even wider It is the most difficult trials that allow us to understand that without them we do not imagine I wish you might set soon another child who may be overwhelmed with all the love that overflows your heart Mom's suckling at the breast is the link that connects more the child of his mother, he is the umbilical cord that the welds not seulemnt to life but still much more to feelings.
Good evening, Thanks for this testimony oh so poignant and moving. I am really sorry for you. For my part, I did not breastfeed my son. My friends did not do and then I do not know that does not tempt me I do not feel super ready! Dad insisted that I breastfeed my son, he told me "you will not deny our children the best milk ? " ! I also briefly documented much and finally I told myself it'll go bah! soon as the pregnancy has been placed on my heart is like a new relationship after that of the pregnancy créeait us. It was magical! I breastfed her until 8 months, until he has his teeth! And then when I see him in top form I think that's a little thanks to me too ! As for my breasts, I have enjoyed during lactation (larger, well tough, very firm!), And there I found really weird! I had forgotten that they were too small! But that's how good, or I could never shoot my milk had a. It was magical! I breastfed her until 8 months, until he has his teeth! And then when I see him in top form I think that's a little thanks to me too ! As for my breasts, I have enjoyed during lactation (larger, well tough, very firm!), And there I found really weird! I had forgotten that they were too small! But that's how good, or I could never shoot my milk as I unblocage it did not come out! I sincerely hope you get pregnant and to birth to a baby as you breastfeed for as long as possible. I hope you take at least as much fun as me.
Cuckoo Tchoupi. First, I wanted to tell you I'm so sorry. It is sometimes difficult to find words to comfort the little angels moms. But I hope you have been able to find around you, and thanks to QR a little listen and comfort. With regard to breastfeeding, it was really the great unknown for me. Nobody around me had breastfed, mom and my grandma had supposedly not had enough milk, and short, everyone seemed to say it was very brave to want to try, but I would probably spend bottle. In my head I was telling myself that I was not a cow and it seemed a little vulgar, bestial out her breasts to feed her little in public. During the pregnancy I vaguely informed, I reasoned, but not tense at the idea of passing a bottle. Once I held my little boy in me, as I sniffed, I knew. I knew that I was his mom, and I was there to give him the best. And for me it meant a. And for me it meant unmaternage and pushed by a long-term breastfeeding. It was not always easy, but I got hooked with a determination that totally passed me. All my anxieties modest about whether to show a nipple disappeared. I stood up to my family, friends, doctors who advised me to stop breastfeeding for various reasons (not scientifically valid). I nursed my son at home, the restaurant, churches, museums, the subway, on the beach …. And like you, the birth of my son made me totally change your perspective on my body. I'm really blossomed, becoming mother, and breastfeeding has taken an important place in there. I learned to appreciate my body and listen to my animal instincts a little more often. I fed my little guy exclusively for several months, and I am very proud. Today I am pro breastfeeding, and I sometimes go to an extremist. My little boy is weaned in recent days, he grew up and I'm proud. My little boy is weaned in recent days, he grew up and I'm proud delui. I hope to live such a wonderful adventure with his brother or sister who will join us if everything goes well in 2011. Yours, Tchoupi, I wish you all the courage possible to get through this ordeal. That's your little angel who has made you a mom, and I completely understand that your vision of things have been changing. I also wish you had the chance to nurse a baby, as long as him and you wish.
First, I wanted to tell you how sorry I am for you, I guess what you're going to be very hard and I wish you much courage and so blessed to come … For me breastfeeding it was obvious, albeit modest. Especially since I have a fairly large chest is no way to hide. But now, after 7 days, my spitz no longer wanted to take a breast, he was losing weight, must therefore take my milk. I give everything to find these wonderful moments, sharing. I still expect to breastfeed in the second but I tell myself that maybe I would venture more in public, perhaps because it came from that, the fact that it stresses me to breastfeed when there was company. We all have a different perspective on breastfeeding, we have wanted to do it or not, the important thing to do for the sake of her child.
First of all, sincerely sorry for this loss. I hope you get over quickly physically and morally. For my part, when I was pregnant, I was hoping to also take my milk for failing to breastfeed. However, information taken (around the 8th month if I remember correctly), it seemed pretty hard the first month (not impossible since some constraints mother do, but all can not do it) as lactation was not established . So I thought I should take my pain with patience, but eventually I realized once the baby came into the world that her milk was more painful than giving the breast. In fact, it was very difficult the first time is to be sought 10/12 times a day for 40 minutes each time (yes, my daughter took her time) (ie every 90 minutes This left me with a respite only 50 min), while after childbirth, I could not stand more than ten minutes straight. Fortunately, these are the first three months were. Fortunately, these are the first three months étédifficile, but then apart, existential questions and material that did not arise three generations ago, it became very easy, especially as the number of feedings s 'were considerably reduced. In short, currently, a feeding at night and feed in the morning with the major drawback that I have to get up every morning along with my daughter (yeah, it seems that being a parent blames …:)) and that if I go out to provide a substitute, but it became very easy overall. By cons, two mornings a week I get my milk and there is the horror. All that to say that during pregnancy, it is often quite false ideas of reality that is self-evident to you after childbirth, and so yes, it happened to me the same thing as you.