There is a difference between a caring parent will sometimes crack by improper conduct and abusive parent, I just do not understand why we can say that a child NEED to do something stupid if spanking. Where is the Respect? He commend the child's right to a spanking to his parents when they make it something wrong? There would respect only if the child has the right to act the same way, respect is also reciprocity. Finally let alone spanking, where I am shocked that when we say it ' is for the good of the child, as this is not a drama as well say that it MUST be no mercy I find it dangerous …. The problem is when we no longer concerned with the child but only the degree of obedience and then I can start to abuse … I do not answer to anyone in particular because I regularly see the responses as strong advocates for a docile child. And I ' m tired of being labeled a bad mother because I try to high. And I'm tired of being labeled a bad mother because I'm trying to élevémon child with respect, I am in favor of tolerance toward all parents trying to do the best for their children and instead I think that too many "rationalization" is the parent lose their instinct and then the child may be forgotten. buttock or not is not the problem, for the most brutal acts, even if it is a mistake I can understand but give these behaviors as a method of education, I still do not understand. While we will explain why I have to hit my children not to give in to their "whims" without even looking if there not a real problem, why is this "many" best? I said many inches over the top and regular responses like this and not against regulars who do not generally advocate this message. Many speak tolerance, I'm never allowed to intervene in the lives of others, I do not necessarily have a mother who puts spanking as a bad mother. And here they call me a bad mother,. And here they call me a bad mother, I breastfed andmore, cododoté, focused, I gave birth without perished, and you know what others are doing what they want it and I do not feel better than everyone others, they treat me with intolerant because I'm not like everybody else, so I do not seek to indoctrinate anyone. And my message was talking about cruelty to cold showers spanking explained that all these actions can be form of abuse even without these gestures it can be many other shapes and I never said that all these things were connected and were necessarily abuse. But I think it's subconscious to speak to the safety of any actions The abuse may exist without them and the messages that advocates non-child dialogue and not worry about it is dangerous to me. I do not know how many abused child becoming a parent say spanking is trivial, but well, apparently me who does that really abusing parents bad parents I'm the only dealt with intolerant …

I have never understood the violence that I once had. That he had that I support. All I can say is that I need to find answers that I have ever found. "Nothing justifies the madness at an age where you wonder if life is good.

Hello, To my children: If you respect me, I respect you but be careful because if you disrespecting me, I too can show me very uncomfortable and give you a spanking. In this context there and only in this context, our children have had some spanking that boils down to two or three slaps on the rump. And, unlike many parents, I've never justified in relation to punishment or the exceptionally spanking. When our children deserve a correction, they were punished immediately without comment (the corner, punishment writing, the removal …). Personally, I find that today's parents make too much and you see the current results. I think a parent overtaken by events and failed to stop time may indeed be wrong to violate her young. I regret this situation as you can be observed more often (in the street, shops, vacation ….). But who is to blame for by dint of saying that you should always explain everything to the child before speaking ….

"He commend the child's right to a spanking to his parents when they make it something wrong? There would respect only if the child has the right to act the same way, respect c is also reciprocal. "I do not agree at all, it is important not to mix the respect and having the same rights! children do not have the same rights as parents because Children know a lot less things than adults, so parents should educate

Do not worry about what you say these people, you health education on your children in your conscience and the best you can. There will always repeat, for example in public if you scold your child, you qualify for bad mother, and if you said nothing when the eyes of others he deserved a spanking, you'll be there too described as a bad mother. For what is abuse, I agree with your thinking, violence is not a method of education. How to have a child friendly if not respected in his own home? Here, it is obvious that you speak of abuse. For example: the family dog tore the couch in the absence of its masters, they will certainly cry a little, but do not beat the dog. However, if the youngest in the house running reverses and a curio case, he will receive a spanking. Well, I do not think it's normal. Even I, who quickly loses patience, at worst, I cry a little and send Junior to his room. Because the child is small, defenseless and. Because the child is small, defenseless etdépend of us parents, we must protect, not beat it. If it was 1.80, I doubt that parents make him a spanking. The child should feel safe with him, I do not think being beaten regularly go in that direction. Finally, suppose your values, you was very courageous to tackle this sensitive subject and you ' are not so different, you educate a child not by blows, a child is fragile and precious, we must behave as an adult to guide its development with consistent methods, not with violence.