I Do Not Understand …?
Tuesday, November 16th, 2010This weekend was the anniversary of our 2 years. I offered a very good perfume + a very nice shirt + the video games he wanted. And he, nothing. A kiss on the cheek and wrapped it weighed! What shocks me is not so much the fact of not having a gift, but the differential treatment that is between me and the ex. Last year and earlier this year, we experienced some difficult times (Separation / Engagement with another (for him) exactly one year ago / abortion …) and I thought really hit the mark for our 2-year . He did not see it that way and prefer the anniversary passed unnoticed. With his ex, it was photos galore, little words caring and personalized. East – what my concern is legitimate? Should I worry or passed over in silence this misadventure?
Your guy is selfish, what you already know since you're dating for two years.
perhaps that he hath reserved for a surprise later …….. after ….. I do not know …. But men, and dates …..!! it depends …. I am not alarmed now, but is a bit …. weird there …
There is no smoke without fire!
and exchange of guy you bought it 'that you need
It is best to talk about it openly. Tell him how you feel … The cover of gifts will not make it more loving.
it is fully understood, it is so much interest that it carries you to you. And when you begin to ask questions about this sudden change, tell him I also when you want, you can be dumb. It is when we love someone we are more attentive, so it was like that with his ex, and he has never been with you … asks you questions. He did all that you say? Have you talked to him for the difference between his ex and you? Talk mucha him.
I think that you should in future retain a little more because your generosity to give and not give a guarantee that we will get our turn. Relationships are not always fair I admit and this man always seems to hurt your recent past. Only time will tell if you have to persevere in the relationship or end it.
We do not ever tells you that we should not look for love stories, each relationship is différente.S it does not make a big party (photos etc.), he must have his reasons and you should him speak. Maybe he worries right now or sth wrong, there is only speaking one can know because there you make films alone ….
you're not a toy my great separation engagement with another he takes you then you deserve better and spend your pennies otherwise!
save you as soon as possible, he should find his ex, that bastard
"Separation / Engagement with another (for him )….." Maybe the would be preferable for you to put an end to your relationship with that in my humble opinion, it is no future.
uh yes it offends me … he did not think at the moment, it is human right, strictly speaking … But the least we can do is offer you something in return after having received his gift to him .. this is not a question to accept a gift but a principle … it shocks me almost as much as anything unless it had offered for Christmas or your birthday … you should tell him I think … it gives me the impression he does not invest much in your relationship than you invested yourself … I do not speak in terms of money of course .. for me it lacked even an act, because he unconsciously wanted to make you aware of something, his state of mind to it … for if he had wanted to avoid that you may be disappointed, or simply that you ask yourself questions, he would have offered something then, that any thoughtful man would have done to me .. but that he did not and does not hide it, it does not seem to bother him … I do not want to judge this guy that I do not know, and it was perhaps not realized, but I doubt it a bit since. I do not want to judge this guy that I do not know, and it was perhaps not realized, but I doubt it was a bit vucomment with his exes. So I would take more or less as a warning for you. It would be better to have a discussion with him to clarify things .. story that you do not waste your time with this guy who brought you obviously already drooling before … Moreover, it does not concern me, but hey, abortion was a common decision or it is just him who would not? Anyway, talk to him, and after notice …
You are together for 2 years and he had another engagement to a year ago? "There is something wrong as there … So I would say (from what I imagine and feel) that this anniversary was missed the logical continuation of your story.