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Fatigue After Childbirth?

Friday, January 7th, 2011

Hello! I gave birth 10 weeks ago now, and I can not recover. I am very tired every day I feel empty all my strength. Yet I am on maternity leave, and baby is almost sleeping through the night! The fact that breastfeeding is something to do? A motherhood, I was given 2 infusions of iron, so I was weak before returning home. What would you do for me? Is this normal as fatigue after you? @ FANFAN: I'm pretty beefy as the daughter, so much to feel tired, I think there might be something … But since this is my first pregnancy, I tell myself that it might be normal … I'll do a blood test, you're right. I panic a bit, I take the job in 10 days! @ Angie: You're right, I have not yet taken a bath, which I love! I think I have anemia, it's my weakness, but my morale is slightly lowered as well. What happens to my BF eats me. I force myself not to think too much, so it does not strike me these wonderful moments that I spend with my daughter.

I would do an assessment of iron ….. talk to your doc good ….. you tell me … I gave birth 17 months ago … and I'm still tired … well mine did not sleep through the night …

This is normal, you have lost a lot of blood during delivery of your two iron infusions. Talk to your doctor, I think he'll prescribe you iron or dietary supplements (vitamins). Otherwise it is normal to be tired;) do not worry it will pass even if it can be long, we have all our time for rehabilitation.

YES it is normal to be tired after 10 weeks delivery. This can last from 2 to 6 months following people … You had an iron deficiency anemia more so it's not really surprising! You have a blood refasses because you lack can be even iron! Surprising that you are breastfeeding baby is anemic, tired a lot because that breastfeeding … In your place I return to my doctor, he will probably prescribe iron (as the result of the blood) and vitamins you because breastfeeding can cause anemia … Good luck and do not hesitate to get some sleep when baby sleeps, it will do you the most good and waiting to see your doctor, drink orange juice, eat clementines, this will help a little … Kisses to you and baby ;-)

I was also very tired for some time after birth (well, I would say almost a year before I really feel as before). Breastfeeding does not help, because it forces your body to work more to produce milk, but this is not the main reason. You also lose blood, and then there is the drop in hormones. And the season does not help with all these changes in temperature … Maybe you should still do a blood test to check especially the iron but also other things, magnesium … In the meantime, try to rest a max, the same rate as baby … Courage.

hello You have enough iron, after a year of pregnancy I still lack iron, breastfeeding has nothing to do with that, goes to your doctor he will see later, I'm TARDYFERON 80 pesos for 3 more months! !

I had the same worries iron level and I give birth more or less the same time as you. I'm exhausted and I'm also back iron does not change anything … At the same time my little one is very difficult at night and have "large" with only a year … So unfortunately I can not advise you except to try to make the most of your maternity leave. Hope you feel better afterwards.

Breastfeeding a little tired but he will also secrete endorphins, which gives a feeling of well being. When you stop breastfeeding there is a big hormonal decline and often blow a big drop in morale … So I advise you rather continue to breastfeed and to check with your doctor if you do not have anemia or a disruption in the thyroid. And if you're really not in ability to return to work, you'll have a sick leave for you to retype a little! Courage!

Well for me it's the opposite of fishing I have a hell! Ewen does not sleep through the night but it leaves me 5 hours to sharpen, as is the large school in the morning I go slowly and afternoon I take a nap at the same time. For Alyssa was a thousand times more tired than this! Well I have a girlfriend that did that too except that after six months it collapsed, the cons shot from his doctor …. I think I'd be tired of my recovery. Meanwhile, the blood test is a good idea and we should know if you're tired of the lack of sleep or physically exhausted and / or morally? Because then you should leave your pucinette his dad or another to take time for yourself, if only for bathing or reading girly magazines. Good luck!

Various studies have shown that there was no significant difference in fatigue between a breastfeeding mom and not breastfeeding. It being a new mom, with all that that implies, that fatigue. You can actually make a small blood test to check if you are anemic or if you have other shortcomings. If you're really too tired, your maternity leave may be extended by one month for "pathological puerperium. Do not hesitate to ask your doctor. Take some time for you, even if only 10 minutes a day and drops with your fine son. The Grand is leaving three months, you'll have time to notify his back and tell yourself that at his age he has never been so close to leaving home, especially if it starts to taste the joys of independence. Good luck!

Hello, Do you continue to take iron? I also missed the birth of iron and I was exhausted. But as I recovered I could not breastfeed. I also remember that what I was not tired much baby because she has her nights since he was three weeks maismoi! I put pressure hell! Cleaning thoroughly sanitizing the flat limit, every morning, I stressed so much that I woke up every hour to verify that baby go well … I never confided to anyone! In short it's going better now that I have released the pressure! But requires a blood test to check your iron levels if you do not have treatment. And relax you! Enjoy a max they grow up so fast! Good luck

The Baby Blues, You Have Lived? How Long Did It Last? What Triggered It?

Friday, July 23rd, 2010

Several questions in one. I was wondering if you had the baby blues "shortly after childbirth. I am not talking about depression or other. I just want to talk a big pain just after the birth of your baby that has been caused by something special. I was three days after birth, when I was told that my baby had lost 800 grams (even if it was a mistake to scale) and need to think about getting a bottle, I had not made the breasts for breastfeeding (you talk, that's 14 months I breastfeed, one just tell me yet, "I broke his mouth: op). I do not know why I thought of my mother who then died several years ago and I felt so terribly alone. I cried all day, every word made me cry like a madeleine. I think it was triggered by the pressure they put me after the birth. I wonder if we can avoid it.

This is due to the drop in hormones!

I also had this little depressed hormone in the first week of life of my children. I still remember sitting on the floor in the process of folding diapers and I had a sudden urge to cry, but scream like that for nothing. No trigger, no problems that could cause this reaction. I knew it was a possibility the baby blues, I bawled my fill and I switched to something else. Strange that reaction is not it?

The baby blues is more or less clearly known. The hormonal factor is also involved in a hand trigger, fatigue, emptiness in her body. We always say that after birth we saw his own birth so it's normal that you think of your mother at this time. It must be three months on average for it to pass if it persists you should consult there may be a lack in the body (iron etc. …) to control.

Honestly, I do not know if what I have is a baby blues. On returning home, I started to cry, I wanted everything to be perfect and darling had made efforts but the house was not like I wanted: not the laundry folded, and a huge blanket (gift of beautiful mom ) loose on the armchair in the lounge. Then I knew what to do, the only advantage of living in maternity is that everything is nearby, at home it took me to rapproprie space. During 3 / 4 days I have had episodes of tears in the evening and also the first night when she woke up to eat. I think it was as much due to fatigue.

No I do not think we can not "… To avoid the hormone … I got it fairly quickly from the clinic, every night when my husband left me to 20h was a tear and I cried like a madeleine, the poor helpless every time … it was a hard 24/48h once back at home And every time I had a right to question "Darling that is there? It will not? "And it happened as quickly as it came.

For me not really baby blues but something big stress when I found a prolapse (cervix low, right over the vulva) 15 days after delivery. Berk, I suddenly felt very old and very damaged. It took me 3-4 days. So completely egocentric blues by cons as I expanded the relationship with my baby, I do not feel outdated, I felt well-doing, especially as I do felt.

As MarieCat, I do not know if it was the baby blues or not … morning because it was going really better. It was evening at the second part. I had many visits the day (but I like to be alone so I was delighted), between feedings that have happened from the start to wonder, my son slept almost all day no worries … And then came the evening around 18h-19h … Night was falling back in December, everyone was leaving, the day shift was replaced by the night shift but apart from the cries of the bb in the hallways all calmed down … … Except my son who began to cry … and it lasted all night until morning like 5am … beh and I can tell you that enclosed between four walls the night with a baby who is just screaming is super long! Direct, I'm worried to find myself alone with my bb, I remember having the reaction of a kid when my baby came home, I collapsed in tears on her "I laaaiiiisssse paassssss ouiiiinnnn" … … I do not know what to do. I do not know what to do pourqu'il be zen … In fact I felt that my bb already knew me very well, he asked me something to relieve me and I do not understand at all … I think it was due to my inexperience, the fact of not really knowing what to do? (Leave crying, put in the night, put it up against me but I was afraid of crashing, it chokes … with regurgitations short I took the lead … I was wrecked and the screams did not help …) … I heard weeping in the next room I remember I was going to kick him two fingers "Hey, I'm your neighbor … do you mind if we all feel great galley there alone?" Brief upon reflection, I think I really put the pressure alone … I understand now that the stay in maternity is completely different from home, and you really have to go by feel, maximum response to the needs of bb …. bb keep everything against us, put it in at will (I. bb keep all against one, put it in at will (moiqui am a real breadboard and despite my caesarean, two days after I had the breasts of Samantha Fox), no it does not choke, I did not 'crush not sleeping … but well maybe I could sleep at night without a cable peter!

Hou siiiiii that! Hard drive when I think … What triggered it: "Madam you the impression, we'll just take stock of their skills, see if everything goes well and if it has no consequences "because it is premature in my head …. it was like a electric shock" because it's something that can not go? "" I know it when you very concon but now think that I became the mother took her daughter for fear … And then my mom like you to thousands of kilometers, the ticket was only for one month half after birth provided Alyssa … I was alone and lonely, zom he does understand me and I confess that I myself could not understand myself. But when I said "hopefully" ouffff "but" ha: heart problem: followed mandatory, more fear than harm, it is always followed next appointment is next year and will be notified until I avoid thinking about it. By my lovely!

Ha la la … the baby blues I think few recovers … Listen … Live the hormones I'd say that by four months, yet I grew not yet laid. By the pregnancy cons' blues I know it must be like .. Suddenly, for something that normally stressful to do a little, I blubber like a madeleine … My husband thinks every time the disaster … fatigue, hormones, stress, and is the pffiuuu cata …

Me, I do not think I had the baby blues due to the drop in hormones. Immediately after birth, I was on my little cloud. Then, fatigue took over. My big blow depressed, I had one month to Junior, when breastfeeding has begun fucked (candidiasis).

Oh yes, the baby blues have I got it. I managed not to breastfeed my daughter, and how the medical team made me feel … I felt like the worst mother … My companion did not surrender yet well aware of fatigue related to the baby (he quickly realized the house) and therefore not helping me not like I wanted. Besides my father died when I was four months pregnant was not there to see my chip and it is in those moments where we know that a particular person should be where the absence becomes hard to manage. I was thinking about her last words "If I'm doing and I am blessed to be able to take your child in my arms I'd be the happiest of men …" So I cry to cry all the tears from my body but after that was better.

Oh yes, I also know: fatigue, stress, my breast has gone wrong, a fight with my parents (they have chosen their moment well huh) I did make one beautiful. I hope one thing, that my neighbor is a little less important because I really feel that my stay in the mat was ruined by that damn baby blues.

Why Was It Invented A Pregnancy?

Friday, February 19th, 2010

She lied about a pregnancy is saying that did not exist. She mimicked the attitudes of a pregnant woman physically but nothing special. His story could barely stand, but I believed. Months have passed and I have had to go to the obvious. There had never been pregnant. I know she has already had a pregnancy that went wrong. (miscarriage? abortion? I do not really know) Why would she invented a pregnancy? Mythomania? Blocking on the previous pregnancy? Need attention?

he must go to therapy to see the basic problem but I dressed she felt neglected

Because she was already pregnant and suffered a miscarriage, she has certainly done what is called a phantom pregnancy, do not particularly blame him, it is a sign of distress! Read like this, it will help much: http://sante-medecine.commentcamarche.net/faq/491-grossesse-nerveuse

She did as she could. "And if I invent a pregnancy? Ok? Ok!" And that's how she did. And for those reasons, it was good, worry!

You Can Give Me Your Opinion On The Menu Proposed By The Pediatrician For My Baby Of 5 Months?

Thursday, January 7th, 2010

I began diversification in council pediatrician and I admit I wonder a lot of question that is the proposed menu for one day, I said my baby was exclusively breastfed until today morning feeding 10h: stewed fruit (apple , banana, pear) or orange juice or juice 13h: mixed vegetables with cheese (kiri, Laughing Cow) + head 16h: yogurt evening tete thank you for giving me your opinions, but also your advice for the beginning of diversification

I understand from your question to the Q & A you do not trust your pediatrician?

what it is that bothers you the inside? what kinds of questions you ask yourself?

I'll include chips, oysters and foie gras. If nothing shocks me in that told you your pediatrician

10am morning ok … is the 1st time I hear a snack at 10 am at that age. But I remember that breast milk digests faster than formula, so it may take up to noon. The juice I say a big NO because it does nothing to bb thought at this age … then juice, and the more sweet … So why not an apple. 13h: ok for vegetables but I will take the milk + kiri: 16h yogurt yes ok (after I think you can reverse, giving the sauce to 16h and yogurt in the morning) night ok I j ' have begun to diversify in 6 months … good is not it just weeks eh! Morning Noon bib: mixed vegetables + bib 16h: + apple bib bib Evening I introduce the yogurt for lunch a little later. I left the milk as long as possible.

Well I'm not c 1 for my son 5 months I had given him ala application ties then you're not obliged to follow to the letter what you it your pediatrician eg a 16h00 you can mix it with fruit Cerelac baby makes I think you have to do as you feel you are to give you what you want she was 5 months he already can eat everything except meat to have more choice when you go to the store password in the radius baby food are you watching the pot baby 5 months are the see what you can eat something your child can t in the prepared fresh at your

Hello, I do not know what time you give the 1st suckling but tea in the morning seems superfluous. My daughter is 3 months not more than 4 meals per day for 1 month so I can not see him give an extra starting diversification. If not for my eldest menu type (given by my pediatrician) was: 8am bottle 240ml 12 steamed mixed vegetables with a little milk and infant milk 150ml and 150ml apple 16h to 20h milk 240ml bottle was kept the same amounts to the introduction of meat. Good luck.

I am just being ok with the pediatrician. In the morning it is better than an apple juice unless it is due home in no circumstances give your baby juices or other brick too bad for him. At noon I will take the milk product saw you give a feed just for the taste after I gave a compote with a feeding and ok for the evening feeding until he grows a little longer to eat a little broth or soup, in any case since you are breastfeeding you should probably be at his request so do not hesitate to milk. After each mother is different and also do as you feel and the needs of children each child is different and has its pace to eat … Good luck to you.

Advice for diversification were given to me by my PMI. I started with a smooth puree of vegetables at lunch and I kept sucking the rest of the time at least the 1st week. Then I introduced a sauce to taste around 15:30, and still feeds. For all 1eres purees are advised to avoid introducing a vegetable at a time. Eg. carrots for 2 days and then beans 2 days … Then you can mix. By cons I never gave compote morning.

Go see another pediatrician

Well, here's my opinion, but I am not a pediatrician and I do not know your son. – Why do you want to start diversifying 5 months breastfed a baby? Nutritionally, it is not absolutely worthless. Begin to make him taste the stuff, why not, but spend only three feedings a day … It still needs milk and only milk … Up to one year, a baby may be enough milk, let alone of breast milk … – Uh, he told you to go directly to the regime or gradually? Because (especially at 5 months, again), skip the milk exclusively as much diversity, it seems totally insane. – I've always heard that introduced gradually and food by food, preferably starting by vegetables (like mashed carrots). – But, finally, you can really see everything, and no baby is still dead, so I guess anything is possible … You do not have to follow to the letter all the advice of your pediatrician about diversification,. You do not have to follow to the letter all the advice of your pediatrician regarding the diversification Leplus is important to do as you feel, especially as baby wants: is what he has wanted to taste d ' other things? Is he interested in your plates? Is he wakes up again at night because he is hungry, and that milk alone is not enough for him? Does he have problems digesting milk, reflux, vomiting, diarrhea, or is there any problem? If you answer no to all these questions, I see not much interest to diversify immediately …

I have diversified my first 6 months this is not always super well. For my second child, she was 8 months and I now know that staying in milk is very good too .. I sometimes 11H + mashed fruit or yogurt .. and when I have no fresh vegetables, I give him a bib 'and for four hours and ditto the morning and evening .. As they gain weight, it is healthy .. We all think differently about the subject, Essenciel remains that the baby is healthy and eats it. @ My opinion and that too for a start and it is my right.

The menu is quite correct, do not forget he's only 5 months and at his age collation is important is quite balanced Bon courage

everyone does according to his "intuition", but Kiri is 62% fat, and frankly Vache qui Rit ………. What interest? otherwise it is not, let bb in another 3 times a day? Here's what my doctor advised me for my child 35 years ago, from 4 months, and introducing the quantities gradually : morning 240 ml of milk + 1 or 2 tablespoons of boiled My 1st Blédina type at 10 h after the bath, a spoonful or two of fruit juice for lunch mashed mixed vegetables + 4 scoops of milk bb + 1 tsp. coffee to varying protein (meat, fish, egg yolk) to give the spoon to 16 hours, 1 small Swiss, or 1 / 2 yogurt, a small apple with a spoon, and offered a drink or milk or water if it gives milk. evening, a bottle of homemade vegetable soup, mixed very end, with 4 bars of milk bb. But at 3 months, the evening was already on the bottle of 240 ml vegetable broth instead of mineral water + 8 measures bb milk and two tablespoons. of slides. The. Leseul advice I may give is to not go too fast, you must allow time for things, it is obvious that the 1st time to spoon some bb will not enjoy at all!

I find little ca 1 tot 5 months … Board of WHO breastfeeding until 6 months and if you can do … why do you deny … it's also best to start with 1 food …. you never know ptet that baby may be allergic has some work ….

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Question About Pregnancy?

Sunday, December 20th, 2009

hello, I no longer my swarms for 1year and a half, and I can not get pregnant, but now I expect my period, but the problem is that I're waiting since Tuesday, what do I do a pregnancy test, or still waiting j 1 weeks?

If you have any doubts: pregnancy test or blood test.

Maybe you're doing of late … but I advise a pregnancy test to be sure .. Go .. Good luck biz

It depends if you're regulated like a clock! Me myself, I was settled overnight, and even half day close. So the day my period does not arrive, I took the test 2 days later and was positive. If happened to you to be delays from time to time, wait a minute.

pregnancy testing is paramount but you do have reviews? parcque 1 year ca fait bcp me after stopping my pill jaie set to be 5 months pregnant if you settle is usually do a test then you are probably pregnant after there have slight signs of fatigue, nausea pee brief Pregnancy Test be reliable if your late on Tuesday is good luck and good baby and if you are not pregnant ben'll see your doc can help you find your ovulation day and all ca ca

In your place, I could not wait any longer. If normally, you do not delay, rushes to the pharmacy to splatter a pregnancy test quickly Give us your news

wait 1 year on average is not normal before becoming pregnant. if you have a delay so, do a test if it proves positive, well congratulations! if it is negative, and after a week you have your period yet, in a remake. possibly also do a blood test, you will be fixed for good, if your period arrives and it is not this time, do not hesitate to make an appointment with your gynecologist and discuss with him the fact that you stopped taking the pill for over a year! good luck to you!

course, you can do a test, it is effective on the first day of missed period. Otherwise you can directly do a blood test.

made a wt or a urine test if you had doubts with my man we were waiting for more than 2 years before the joy that we say these will be good parent if you ever have doubts about your fertility also consult your gygy that you will make exam

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