Hello. To make a long story short, I'll be the mother of a girl only a few details worry. When I learned to my ex boyfriend I was pregnant, he did Not at all appreciated and every sequence that I wanted to undergo an abortion, but I was not in agreement with that. After having been harassed to serious threats to that j'intérompe my pregnancy, we will resolve all this go to court (history threats …) I really want to know if in this case there is something to do so it can never to reappear out of nowhere and come to disturb the psychological growth of my child.

Unfortunately not unless it is dangerous and violent to the child but he needed proof. To name the child bears the name of the person who first recognized in this case you.

It would be best to ask you to justice or a lawyer to know what recourse you can avoir.Quoi it is we must first think about the future of the unborn child.

You can not. Any man can recognize any child in any municipality without your agreement … should know that very few men do! If the father does not recognize the child during its first year, you'll only parental authority after he admits he will have no authority over the child, which does not relieve possibly pay a pension. I was in exactly the same situation as you. I chose to keep my daughter (who is now 7 1 / 2 years) and I have never regretted! His father has never been heard from or responded to some pictures that I sent him the early years … but I do not "hate" not: without him, my darling daughter is not there and would not the person she is. She speaks often of his father, it was a painful subject and would be delighted s it reappeared … me, much less, but I would do nothing to prevent a link to create them if she wanted. If his father reappears, it does. If his father reappears, it does not "disturb" no growth of your daughter, she will be happy (and blow, thou shalt be happy for it) is painful for these children to know completely rejected by the parents. It is important not to lie about its history, and tell her that YOU, you wanted more than anything, do not overwhelm her father for his absence, even if you can complain that it makes him to her grief. My life with my daughter is a delight for 7 years, it is very full and we are very close, and it does not prevent me from meeting someone who is great with her adorable and has fully adopted. good baby … I wish you the best!