I have a question that you look stupid that came to my comments by talking with a visitor. So now, my question is a legal standpoint, of course, I was wondering if a father was "banned" his wife to abort. That is to say that in the eyes of the law, only the opinion of the woman counts and if the father does not want the abortion, he can not help it if his wife has decided otherwise. Y is there a section, a case that justifies this? (Sorry, the question looks really stupid, but it challenged me and I not be vague) Thanks for your answer in a way that meets my question. But I noticed that you have misread. I did not speak in the sense that a man wanted to force a woman to abort, but the opposite! For example, if a man insists that child, and not the woman who miscarry in this case. I guess you answer me anyway. Except to answer a message, yes it may seem like an inequality, but it's not just. Except to answer a message, yes it may seem like an inequality, but there is no quedas perverse women seeking child support, each case, each situation is different, so I walked over there not. Inequality me, I see not really but it's true I find it sad that a man can not have children if his wife decided to abort. But at the same time, it is the woman who "supports" the maternity for 9 months, and must continue to take care after birth. Would that justify the fact that the right to abort or not belong exclusively to women, right? So yes, I said I was just giving my opinion and would not enter into the details of the debate. Anyway, thank you all your answers enlighten me:) In addition, they were fast.

This is not a stupid question. No I have no knowledge in law so I no nothing but affirm it seems to me that the law gives women the freedom to dispose of their bodies … and therefore that a man can not compel a woman to abort in France … at least. I leave to others the task of Internet reverse s what I say they are wrong …

Abortion is seen as the woman's right to dispose of his body (the fetus has no legal existence, a part of the female body), so the father has nothing to say .. . It has also created an inequality between gender: a woman can abort, while a father has no way to deny paternity. If it does not recognize the child he did not desire, the mother may still force the recognition and payment of child support (see the case of a lawyer ordered to pay … maintenance for the child product of a "one night stand", conceived in drunkenness after a night …). This inequality inevitably lead to cases of forced abortions or even homicides … just a woman "forgot" her pill and intentionally pam, it can extort money from a man … whereas otherwise, if the man makes getting pregnant, she can "remove" the trespasser without asking his advice to anyone. It is amazing that such blatant dyssymétrie between the sexes emerged when all. It is surprising that dyssymétrie blatant gender has appeared as toutest done to neutralize the difference between sexes. Women have a higher degree of sexual freedom that men do not. Another paradox: while the parents have nothing to say if their daughter aged over 16 wants an abortion, the elderly have the right to challenge the anonymous childbirth of their daughter for custody of their little son … Basically, a teenager has the right to remove her baby, but a responsible adult has no right to give birth anonymously to avoid her death. We walk on the head … Another paradox of the French law: Cheb Mami and his accomplices were sentenced to forced abortion and sentenced ridiculous when you consider what they have inflicted on the victim. To force an abortion, they abused him have inflicted great pain by penetrating with sharp metal objects. If a rapist had committed similar acts on a non-pregnant women to torture, he would have taken 20 years in prison. There, the same gestures, as part of a forced abortion, become less. There, the same gestures, as part of a forced abortion, become moinsgraves, and the heaviest sentence was 6 years. Conclusion: it is less severe torture and penetrate a woman when she is pregnant and wants to kill her baby. If after that the French system is not moth brain …

As part of an abortion, no one is considered relative, since there are no children. The fetus is not a child. So no parents. This is the woman who has her body and has the right to abortion. No man, whatever his relationship with the woman has a right to the body of a woman.

Let me explain: I had nothing and 1 week after it came back a little. Peut'on breastfeed the baby one week after the last time (in the sense is that this milk is still good) when I stopped breastfeeding or is it recommended?

I'm no doctor rather take advice from a specialist but is that milk can "turn" when it is in your body. why you want to breastfeed again if you stopped?

Of course the milk is still good, unless you have taken specific drugs? By cons, if you want to breastfeed again it will often put in during the early days to boost production.

Breast milk does not turn … it will always be good if you ask the question if you want to continue to breastfeed or not, it has adapted well to the formula … how many months it anyway? yourself can be passed in the period of milk down the first quarter, it warned me to the mat. that was common and could continue to breastfeed even if nothing much came out, it may take a few days and come back full blast .. I had the time but being forewarned, I went and put him in much more

at least until you have taken drugs, of course, that your milk is good, it is secreted when it comes out, this is not an old remnant of a previous feeding might be outdated. if your baby still wants to breastfeed (not sure after tasting a bottle but can not be sure until you try) and you want it, why not. there may not be enough for the first feeding, but by stimulating the production (with a baby at the breast so) it can return safely. FYI, almost one year after stopping breastfeeding was still sometimes able to express some milk so I could have, after soliciting resume breastfeeding.

Of course it's possible! If you really want to breastfeed, we must persist until you get! you can restore a lactation stopped after several weeks even months! (Yes, words of Dr. Marie Thirion, a specialist in free Nursing!) It must not be very easy but you have stopped as there is a little over a week, it must be done fairly easily. Simply, pr boost lactation to have a huge desire to breastfeed and dêtre understood and assisted by your partner if possible, it plays jtassure! We must stimulate the breasts every day, at some length, to draw milk or massage areal (jte advises pulls away milk), to stimulate lactation. Know that you must especially ed perseverance and motivation, but jte really want to do because it is WONDERFUL

Well, two solutions: – if you want to start breastfeeding, you can of course do so, your milk will "turn" not because it is made to order … it is always very fresh! Provided that your bibou agrees, of course, and you did not take drugs to cut the lactation. – If you do not want to start over, "one last time" will not work very well because: – 1 / restimulate you risk your lactation and you return to producing milk which you want to quit. I doubt that you only feed sufficient to cause flooding but it's not going in the direction that you want to do, 2 / you'll surely very little milk at that feeding, since you had nothing , you might frustrate you both, you and your baby. It would take several feedings little success before it comes back …

Hi everyone, Knowing that I plan to breastfeed, do you think I have enough with 6 washable nursing pads? Or should I expect a bunch more? Thank you in advance. This is my first yes. If you can not need it then perhaps I should wait to start breastfeeding to see if I need it or not. And if I need more.

Me I never needed it. It's your first? @ Added: ha ben I must be an exception then …. my milk flows only when baby sucks.

He will worry at least a dozen (6 pairs, otherwise when you're in the process of engorgement (from 2 to 4 weeks after delivery). and I assure you that it is beyond serious. I did like you, just 6 pads (3 pairs), but … ultimately, as I was not more washable, disposable wipes I had bought and it had me very serviceable!

Ho yes. I was taking my disposable wipes, the boxes in the past week …

It takes a dozen nursing pads. If your milk flowing, you can change several times a day. In addition, over time the pads shrink and are not very comfortable to wear (they are rough). I'm still my 3rd with 1 year and I will redeem a series (it'll be 3 packs in 1 year). The disposable pads are good but not green at all, it helps out. Think out the back into a trickle to wash them because they can get caught in the seal of washing machine and come out dirty Bon courage breastfeeding. The first 15 days can be difficult but after that's great. For failing to crack, I put cream tjs 'Bepanthen' on my nipples after each feeding and I never had any problems. .

3 pairs seem little too … because you may need to change frequently especially at first. ultimately, buy a box of disposables for the beginning, as you'll see it if you must redeem washable or not.

@ Laurie as few disposable plan in case because you have to wash by machine for killing the bacteria well so I think it looks much, but at the same time it does not let you cast you because we know that regardless of any our willingness breastfeeding may not work. Me I'm a bit at home I am willing to send them by mail if you want, it's been three months since they sleep in my closet and I will do anything with it. (PM if you're interested). By

At the clinic you will need it especially if you put the cream on your nipples it can not dirty clothes. At the beginning we are not very good at breastfeeding (I advise you also only two bras). Upon returning from the clinic, I took 6 per day was well disposable! by cons for my second baby I do not need nursing pads … I think it depends on the amount of milk and especially the rise of milk … if your baby requires a lot head up and you'll have plenty of milk and therefore you can have some problems with leaking milk because they sleep a lot and sometimes even thou shalt be forced to wake up to relieve yourself breasts

hello, everything is in the title thank you

6.220kg, it is no longer breastfed for a month just because he was not taking enough. Here he has just returned 880Gr this month!

7kg. And as your baby is healthy, evolving, is fit, do not worry about weight. My chip is almost 8 months and did not exceed 8kg (must be at 7.5kg there, at first glance) and yet she walks to 4 feet, she sits alone, and is chatterbox!

Bjr, and since it was 7kg900 her 6 months, it rises more slowly in its curve, if compared to the curve of the health record is more for babies fed formula, the curve of the weight of a baby breastfeed, you can find it on the net

It was about 6kl, it has always been a little weight. Do not worry if it is your baby, as it takes (even slightly) is healthy and everything is fine.

Mine is not born yet, but I know for sure (among other full documentation sent by CIF safety during pregnancy etc.) that breastfed babies grow more slowly than those fed infant formula. So a priori absolutely normal and not scary at all if a breastfed baby is less fat and less heavy than the others. Then anyway, everyone is different, grows and grows at their own pace, is not it?

My husband is always on the move it al work 3months strange and come home for 2weeks, I'm alone with my kids! but my son always make me feel guilty when j nursing her sister 3months and a half he told me very often I am Only you do not look at me I do not know what to do that make me feel sick. At 4 years he is already behaving in this way that you think? then don listen the more it jumps from couch to couch, saw the same situation when I'm screaming at him I feel bad after !!!!!

make the part a little at that time if you can put it close to your knees

unfortunately it is a normal behavior and more plus the absence of your man. It is important not to blame but continue to punish him if necessary. by cons, trying to explain things, also gives you time alone (during naps for example your daughter) with him to play, tell stories, etc … must show that you should have time with your daughter but only with him.

It is a common reaction. Try to not breastfeed in front of him is important. Speak to him gently to show him your attention and make him understand that his little sister does not count more than him. You can also consult a child psychologist.

It is a normal reaction. We should do more to participate in everyday activities with his little sister (the exchange bath, walk in it can push the stroller, etc …), the value, saying it is high, it can help Mom, let some bottle feeding (they love that, under your control, of course!), etc. … It should also moments just for you 2 is essential.

c is normal … the small has its moment, the breastfeeding, we must find for the big moment that has nothing too, when the little sleep … an activity that he loves and that he does not share that with you … c is not easy, for as long as dad is absent, but it should not be put aside and feel … also participate in the doing things for al little sister (to the layers, the Auditor bathwater …)

hello this is a quite normal reaction because now you're not quite to himself! his jealousy and his stupid show he wants to draw your attention the fact participate in such bath her little sister, it might be long so good luck!

You feel guilty and you cry, helpless. Basically, you have a low behavior, and your son has understood, that's why it continues, it's so easy to give you unprecedented crisis that risks nothing! We must change attitudes. Already does not feel guilty: your son is not unfortunate, he said that to reach you. You're not a bad mother because you have another child. If you blame your son sees it, and for him it proves that your attitude is wrong, he can blame thee. If you assume the situation and you do not find it shameful, it will be harder to attack you on this angle. Then, we must be firm and responsive. Farm: the prohibitions are clear, the punishment promised and applied each time. Listening to: that explains it all still love, he's your son, your eldest, it is still important. You have to take care of the baby, but you're there for him too. Organizes time with him without the baby. And above all do not panic, it did nothing wrong, the jealousy of the baby is very common,. And above all do not panic, it did nothing wrong, the jealousy of the baby is very frequent, and mainly driven by parents who feel guilty. It'll pass.

Hello, The arrival of the little sister has messed up the lives of parents but also the little brother. He was the only child to be pampered should now share its parents. Difficult to understand this in 4 years. The growl is useless to me. It would only reinforce the idea that the little sister is more important than himself. We must instead develop it. He is the big brother Give her the new rights to consolidate his new status. Do it yourself and participate equally with the little sister. Also take time just for you and for him. Take this opportunity to explain that the heart of his dad and his mom is very special. It is so special that it grows with the arrival of other children in the family and is able to give as much love as before for the big brother and little sister. Needless to blame. He might be 4 years old, he is quite able to understand what you explain it to her. Some points you may be today or utils. Some points you may be utils ormore later today: 1. Spend time with each of your children Children sometimes think that the other is the favorite dad or mom. 2. Differentiate your children Each child is a unique individual. If they have different ages, lay them at different times. 3. Do not lock them in a role The youngest who is entitled to great hugs and that all tasks. 4. Do not compare children between them This is probably the reason Essenciel disputes. 5. Respect their modesty 3 / 4 years is the age of discovery, questions about age differences between girls and boys. 6. Establish rules are not obliged to agree, but love no fighting, no shots and not demeaning. 7. Compare the family to a sports team's failure is a failure of all. Conversely, the victory of one is the victory of all. 8. Turn the debate into fight Try to replace the fight by a verbal brawl.

Hello, Here are two questions about my baby who is 4 months, more specifically about her breast: "Since its birth, my daughter got used to suckle for three quarters of an hour, an hour, it does not loose, she stops and then resumes when I do not like him off the breast. – At night, she goes to sleep after taking the breast. even if it is satisfied, it must be against me to sleep. While these are not major concerns I hear you say, but I just want to know if these are good "habits" that I give to my baby or he must change. PS: I must say also that I'm not complaining, I love to breastfeed my baby but I would like your opinion on these points. Thank you for your testimony.

Apparently your daughter is against you and it sure is great. if she needs and that you too enjoy it, what is the problem! but beware that it does not take the bad habit of always wanting to stay mum cons because it's difficult to do anything else beside. a girlfriend had a "baby kangaroo" as they say, impossible to drop. it was not always easy. In any case, enjoy breastfeeding your baby, and as long as possible, it's great for mom and baby benefit. and super convenient.

I breastfeed for 20 months. Every night, my daughter needs the breast to fall asleep. She has always nursed a lot since its birth and even if it is diverse for quite some months, she continues to suck. It's not a bad habit. On the contrary. You will see your baby grow from blanket and a pacifier and he will take off with confidence. You do not have any fears. Follow your feelings. If you love to breastfeed and keep your baby close to you, do not worry most deprived and ignored what people will say it.

Apparently you're happy together, and your daughter too … So too with love and Calinous are not bad habits, take advantage of its moments and do not ask yourself a question …

I gave my son the breast 40 minutes every 4 hours. I refused but he fell asleep by sucking it to get used to. this is a personal vision. some mothers desperately need to be with their bb on it. do what you want and you will see later if AC is negative consequences or not. One of my friends was exclusive with her daughter she did everything she wanted from his birth and took it from crying. conclusion it will be 4 years old, it is odious, has no boyfriend at school, is to limit the exclusion to the school. your method is yours, it is unique, what do you think is best for your child

Already, I do not like the term "bad habit". Define something good or bad is still very subjective, what seems to be good for someone is not necessarily for someone else right? Do as you want it! If your daughter falls asleep like that, that she needs! Why would this be a bad habit of falling asleep stuck to his mom? Later she will no longer need you to fall asleep and you will regret these moments spent with her hugs;) My daughter is almost 10 months, I've never heard the other hand to my daughter and I do ( and still do for that matter) as I see fit. She was always sleeping in and needed to be against me or my arms fall asleep. Since one month, and it took him a blow, she sleeps alone … And I am sad to see her grow up so fast! Enjoy it!

my daughter was 2 months, I breastfeeding but she lost the weight I have to give extra milk powder at each feeding, but she refuses the bottle, she can not drink, I tried give him a pacifier so that she understands the system but even that it does not. Have you had the same worries? Have you managed to get him to accept?

It is used to suck and she likes it, she didn't want to change to a milk does not know what she is not accustomed to the taste, and she too loves to be with her Mamma:) me when my daughter does not eat, I eat with her mouth jouvre pointing, smiling and expressing that I eat good c. After a moment she dun did the same thing … I show him lexemple basically it works not necessarily the first time but it has borne fruit in the end. Tests at different times of the day and avoid the evening before bed (often children love their parents sendormir)

temperature is probably too hot, try to put it down!

I had the same problem with my daughter, I was breastfeeding and when I give him a bottle of milk but at first she struggled, too, is a habit …. do not worry about it it will be very fast in all cases was the case for me ……… she grumbles at the beginning but she will soon

My tip: enclose the teat tissue (handkerchief for example). The baby will feel more in touch with the rubber and voila …

@ Rogue (strange nick avatar), I'm twisted with laughter!

Hah! What would not – you will not see a nice chest, eh, Spartan? Well no, you'll have to find another idea for this one will not work! There's more in Lolo feedings after several years of nursing … Take an appointment with Boing Boing, you'll be thrilled! Kisses

You can always ask this question to your pretty neighbor who helps you cross the avenues. I think she'll laugh. You're a funny guy you.

adult, he will need the coffee!

As her mother has milk why not! Bizz star

Look it looks possible! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l8orUaCJ0GY

What kind of milk do you speak?

It's a good question to ask is @ Boing Boing.

The day he heads every 4 hours or 5 hours but from 23 h it wakes up every two or three hours. .. I do not know if it's hungry or something but when I put it in there head a little and goes back to sleep … I know it's not the best solution but I'm sleepy!! ) And I will not let me cry around me advice to give him a bottle of formula around 23 pm (when he wakes up in fact) because it ought to "stall" for the rest of the night. I know if it is the right solution … Does breastfeeding moms have experienced this? Thanks for your valuable advice!

I have my last that I did that too, the solution: Lollipop. Your baby just wants to suck and not hungry. It took me two months to understand this … In 15 days it was done and it was these nights properly. The entourage of lactating mothers has always the right solution bottle of formula … as if your milk fed on the daytime but not at night: Anything !

Yes pacifier can be a good way to calm down, because your baby may be trying to feel safer than in food. Otherwise the bottle may help, since it is obvious that the milk powder is more consistent and you it can prepare a larger amount than the head … the head is obviously better but we can not order in advance the amount and consistency:) You can also make him one of your lives next to the pillow he feels for your odor and did not wake up to try to have tactile contact with you!

I breastfeed my chip for 4 months but I have more chances than you, she made her nights for over a month (tonight 21h30/7h without feeding at night). If your baby is able to space her feedings 4/5h in all day, is that it is not on the side "hunger" that is the problem of your baby. Several things can be involved. A desire to feed, for example. Need to be secure (yes, even "only" four months, a baby may be afraid at night) as well. Something bothers him, perhaps (temperature in the room, sleeping bag if he likes to move, etc..).

hello j got the same problem as you, my little button has 4 months and fatigue strength of J have to try the pacifier in vein and I'm coming to bib artificial milk in one day but the evening one. you courage

I was like you I breastfed my son 8 months and months it was difficult to make him sleep through the night! I advise you not to give him a bottle of formula, already because you're not sure whether the hunger that wakes him up. He may need your contact and reassurance. I have listened to me and he cried the night I put him in against me lying in my bed. And even for those who would say: oh no it's not quite give him a bottle! Have you talked to the pediatrician? What does he think? About 5 1 / 2 to 6 months my son was still not sleeping through the night and the pediatrician told me to let him cry. To tell dad to get up and say: stop sleeping! (Easier said than done) Once we started the food diversification, it more or less made his nights. Like what it was so hungry! Now he is weaned, he is 9 months old and sleeps from 19h to 7h! Take your courage in two hands, unfortunately, is the only solution!

it does not scream for the four months of birth

I've nursed in 14 months and I've spent some time reading articles about breastfeeding you have to know that breast milk digests faster than formula milk. Then the milk didn't the same consistency throughout day morning he is fatter The solution takes your milk gives him the bottle he will drink more milk because the breast requires more effort and if you are too tired going too al mixed feeding for babies and make his night is before c all about baby's weight

My daughter is now 3 months. Since her birth I did not have enough milk to breastfeed .. The pediatrician advised me to do a mixed feeding (breast and bottle). At first, I insisted that I just went a little before giving him the bottle, but at a certain moment, I have milk (no drop) since then, I give my heart more and my daughter drank the milk bottle. I feel sad because I know the advantages and benefits of breastfeeding babies and I would try again and more .. I bought a breast pump manual breast .. it's tiring and I get a few drops after so much time, so I rented a breast milk supply .. it is less tiring but the result is the same (a few drops that disappear from a bottle) .. I bought a drug (Vitonic breastfeeding) may be it will get better .. The questions arise: can I have milk a day if I continue to use the pull milk and medicine? someone who has no milk at a certain period can have it one day? is that it can be regenerated?

see a lactation consultant

I could never breastfeed my children beyond two months, my milk is tarissait.Mais it does not matter, that they were still good. Above all, do not blame you, there no reason, going completely bottle and stop torturing yourself for nothing. The young grow quickly, and you are wasting precious moments, stop taking tête.Ton child needs to feel serene and happy. That's all that matters. Kiss

Do not grieve for that, you're not responsible if you can not breastfeed your little girl, if you do not get results with draws milk, do not insist. There are now trading in milks which are almost similar to maternal milk. Do not worry, you'll have a beautiful little girl and in good health. I'm sorry to tell you this, forget the breastfeeding mother, more responsible mother, forget the drugs Very often more harm than good. You have certainly heard of the famous softenon, which was given to pregnant women to avoid nausea and other discomforts in early pregnancy. Most of these women gave birth to children without arms or legs. So, be reasonable, especially since your problem is not serious at all. Good evening, big hugs to your little one.

hello, yes it is possible to resume breastfeeding. but your pediatrician has given you very bad advice by telling you to do a mixed feeding! many of them unfortunately are not specialized in breastfeeding. To boost your milk production, the most important thing is to max your baby at the breast even if only a little nibbles. Continue to take your milk also , no matter how much you shoot. (I myself have never managed to get my milk, j''allaite yet my son for almost 5 months and believe me, it eats its fill, it's a small Buddha lol). It is better that you shoot your milk 10×2 minutes 2×20 minutes. well, I do not know this drug, but it may be preferable that you take herbal teas instead of fennel, it seems that it is very effective. It is also important to rest maximum. In summary, stimulates your breasts to the max, and gradually you'll produce enough to satisfy your little piece. I advise you also to seek a pediatrician specializing in. I advise you also to seek a pediatrician specializing enallaitement. Courage, patience and above all, your breast is not lost.

You can try again, I give you my tips and tricks: pull your milk more often than long, eat almonds, almond milk drinks, alcoholic drinks a few beers a week, eat lentils, avoids the parsley, put your baby within whenever possible and especially as soon as he shows any sign of arousal even if it is not fully awake (it will be less difficult and will suckle more easily "reflex"), uses herbal tea fennel (in supermarkets there too) if you do not like taking capsules beer yeast beer (at least 6 per day, plus it looks nice dryer and beautiful nails!)

To promote lactation there is nettle tea, almond cream (no more than 2 tablespoons a day if liver problems), the tea with anise … and we must drink lots of water and sufficient food. Otherwise, the more you stimulate lactation, you produce more milk. For me it worked well. I felt like I had more milk. And after a week with this "plan" is income.

The body adapts to the demand, the more you breastfeed your baby and do you have more milk. The less you do breastfeed by providing supplements to the bottle and you have less milk. Your obviously pediatrician does not know anything at Breastfeeding, like most pediatricians do not receive a 2 hour training throughout their curriculum is very little and more during those two hours, they are not talking about diseases related to breastfeeding. In short, a pediatrician is certainly not the appropriate person to advise you in this area. Now that the damage is done, we must try to re-stimulate your breasts as much as possible. But for that, we will have drop-ins bottle and put as much as possible within your baby. This is the only way to successfully pursue your nursing. It's normal not to succeed to shoot with a breast milk. Because you can never be as effective as your baby's mouth. Yes, you can have milk again. There are even mothers who manage to find a lactation when they. There are even mothers who manage to find a lactation qu'ellesavaient then decided to base not to breastfeed. Read this article very interesting as you are concerned in particular: http://www.allaitement-jumeaux.com/espace-allaitement / lait-maternel/relancer-lactation-apres-sevrage-ou-complements.php And if you have questions about breastfeeding, do not ask your pediatrician who knows nothing obviously he's going to screw up your breast.

Sibline link is very interesting, and I confess that if I had that kind of advice I would have persevered with breastfeeding … because I experienced the same problem as you … and 4 months I switched to mixed feeding on the advice of my doctor at 5 months was the bib! … then I would have so liked to continue this wonderful experience! patience, and good luck!