What Kept Or Aborted?
Friday, July 15th, 2011I am pregnant recently, but the problem is that I am not a couple and the father lives about 200km from home and it s true around the world regularly for months for his work. ( why it does not arise together) and when I told him he m 'said he did not want to keep, let alone that I the student alone. I am lost for being against abortion I did not even think but I think he still has a say. What to do? j have a stable situation which allows me to properly raised this child thank you all for your answers I will think about and talk with him after my appointment with the gynecologist. I prepare from the beginning has the only high for not disappointed. if this is safe it's better
If it does not occupy that he does not see it and want to keep and you can cash a house or apartment because it keeps the work will not recognize it so it's your choice not his
If you were able to raise only better keep it, is a being that grows in you, a part of yourself. When you abort, you feel very bad, and when you have a child later, we think it could have a big brother to guide him if he had not killed. For you to see if it is a decision to make alone.
It's your stomach, not his you do what you want, you might care to regret strongly abortion is a burden that is behind time. Nobody can decide for you.
he has a say c is true, and this may influence your decision, but although it is this decision belongs to you alone and it will weigh on you for the rest of your life, then you do what you think you be fair for you and the child
I strongly advise you to keep it. You have to choose: Living with your child experience happiness To see him grow and brothers and sisters and no problem arises .. or: Continue to live with trauma The eternal question: I should have to keep it or not? An operation is not always pleasant
Your situation allows you to provide for your child. If he had not talked about abortion, the idea is you do not even come to mind. Although he has a say, you're bringing this child and it is entirely up to you that that decision. By cons, do not require it later if he does not recognize it. He has shown you his decision to not want this child, if you keep it, it will prepare you to take on alone. He may change his mind later but if this is not the case, is not disappointed as long as you were warned.
so if you have a stable situation and you feel able to raise it keeps me I could not tell you to do an abortion I'm against it's still a little life inside heed therefore may know the the student and the one and he will accept it one day or another. good evening to you
personally must be kept
It is up to you to reflect and then to talk to Dad.
If you have a stable situation you ask yourself why the question? You want that child. If you abort, you pay only the decision as well. Leaves one to assume, assume this child that you seem to want.
Basically, the question that you must ask yourself is: "are you ready to raise a child alone, and most importantly, do you want". the only one that can be broken down in the form of: -> no recognition of the father. Or recognition (forced or not) but no involvement in the education of the child (except perhaps financially or otherwise). -> Low involvement or alternating custody (since apparently it seems impossible that you put yourself as a couple). If so, this case keeps, and if not, do you manage to convince either the father or you abort. The best thing is that you actually tell him what you feel you. If you get to understand you, great. Otherwise, the decision comes back to you.
It's yours alone to decide. It is clear that if you can take this baby, and that more you are against abortion, then we must keep it, it must be super hard to "kill" a little creature who grew up in itself … I also am against abortion. But we must get ready to raise only and do not impose it on his biological father, because he told you he did not want it right, but it is not right to impose on you to leave this baby. Courage!
To keep: You have the means. Against the keep: The father does not want it. Personally, I find the argument in favor is low, it is to have the means, the minimum, but it does not. The argument against is much more important is the father of the child, it means that the child will not have a father, it means you're going to raise it alone, it means that life goes wrong Becoming a father unintentionally. A child that is at two.
you say you're against abortion then what is the question? If you are against, you can not abort, and obviously this gentlemen is not ready to have a child. You have to organize yourself to take the child alone or to get it but in this case, will you have the courage to wear it and give it? Try to talk to the father-to convince him and good luck for the future
I will be shouted down and hit me thumbs down but it does not matter. I always thought that from the time when there is not even one ounce of hesitation, it should not keep … At the back of you, you do not want to keep it because the situation is not favorable. You know. The only thing that make you hesitate is your anti-abortion principles. You must review your position on this issue and do not let you influence. Abortion is a right that women have fought to prevent to girls in your case not to go into the wall. That said, in the event that you would come to bear, I hope you will at least not to require delicate gentleman to recognize and pay you a pension.
c retains a beautiful baby
I think you should not keep it for a child growing up without a father is too hard, maintenat if you keep it, requires the father to recognize, even if it involves them, no matter, it's just to know that your little it is not different, that he too has a father, so if you keep personal ISP while for the father of saaud recannaisse but without requiring him to pay anything. Do it for breakfast, not for money, it's just a way to help its development. Suffrent children without a father because the remarks of his friends can be very nasty so if you do recognize the child to the father, the child will not suffer
He will not keep it the right choice but impose on you is a little strong coffee right? You keep it as it is your choice and you only students as you can. And I do not know you but you may still not be alone ..
j'm pregnant and my boyfriend went away. and yes the day care because now a single woman has aids ds. unemployment, cif single mother … after your heart must listen. bcp women raise children alone and doing very well hui.etre TODAY beautiful mother c