you "force" to breastfeed your baby while you do not want, knowing that breastfeeding is an intimate and personal choices?
tyranny, never breastfeed and then it's the most natural thing in the world, I do not understand women who do not otherwise … but not to motherhood can not force you pa
Intimate and personal choices, certainly. But a rational and responsible choices as well. I sense a drift feminist underlying your question.
Not at all, I wanted to breastfeed for a single contact with my child and I do not regret it, it's wonderful. But as you say it's personal.
I already expect that some (s) opposing the concepts of "Nature" and "Freedom" in one paragraph …
No pressure but obvious to me who wanted to offer what is best for my child. By cons I've never experienced it as a time of intense fusion was functional: "mammal me I feed my little" This is a choice recently and in few countries …
I was in hospital anti-breastfeeding so it was difficult but I did not do too badly last lived, my son is at once very strong I think it is linked and the more I lost my excess weight in record time!
Breastfeeding can make the child more calm and more robust because the milk has great virtues but if you choose not to Alait is your choice and you should not be a force because your body and your mind yours
it is for every woman to choose what it thinks is best for her children. breastfeeding is the residue of custom, infant formula are the same today as nutritious as breast milk is therefore choice and only choice of the mother who must win.
No pressure for me 
(I'm a guy, not Dad) By cons, that is an intimate and personal choices, I do not agree. 8 times 1 hour a day for nearly 6 months, ca conditions the lifestyle of a family, not just the mother. I know from having lived on holiday with my brother and his step-sister.'s Father, during this period is nothing for the child (even if it also deals flaring), since c is the mother who gives him his chief delight the baby, and it is usually in merger mode with his child. In short, breastfeed the first moments of the baby's life, I found that quite healthy, because the choice of mothers, breastfeeding for 4 to 6 months as it is called, is a crappy no name, just a purely selfish act of the mother towards the father and baby. Meuhhhhhhhhh how ca I have not responded to the question? In any case, my answer
How you should be disgusted! Not a woman to say she was forced, it is under pressure … etc.. Rhooo you must be green! And yes women do not need books, gossip, prejudice, thinking of others, the tradition to be free. The 2000s woman is emancipated, she has balls and chin hair, it smells of feet and assume it is the uninhibited stud. I'll relieve myself I had to breastfeed my entourage. I had heavy pressure from my family, I was in tears! And several of my girlfriends had the same pressures and was struck by her grandfather because she refused. You know the weight of tradition …
No, I wanted to do, I even want the medical profession who mistakenly spinning several bottles of my kid during the first 3 days, spoiling me breastfeeding … (First) who never knew suck properly … conclusion 41 ° C and swelling after 10 days … "For the second one was much more successful! But I had taken before the checkmate!
Not really a "tyranny" but a matter of conscience, I had no desire to breastfeed but I knew after a lot of consultations (pro and books) that 3 months of breastfeeding enough to strengthen its anti-body and not avoid lot of diseases like runny nose, ear infections and whatnot early childhood. So I made the "minimum union" and ironically the maternity hospital where I was not concerned at all about this "problem" so I found after 2 days with horrible cracks, hello pain! Conclusion: I took no pleasure to do but that of "responsibility" and performed the following strengthened me in my decision: very few visits to the doc for the baby. That said I am not spent in the camp of "harass" each case is unique, therefore each choice!
Another time I wanted, but the maternity staff did not have the patience to wait for enough of your milk, I was shamed, baby was not enough he would perish … And more j 'and were unhappy that only less contrived …
There are many ways to force someone to do something. And the surest of all means to reach to believe that this decision comes from him. The individual becomes his own "tyrant" and his own prison. Freedom is a concept as complex.
Tyranny would rather moralistic and guilt-which tend to say that a child deprived of the womb will certainly weakened immune systems. Or worse, the mother who chooses not to breastfeed is potentially responsible for the evils of his future child. If all the kids fed milk formula were scrofulous and intellectual disabilities, it is not … the reasons for the physical and mental health of a child to look elsewhere … In addition to bouncing on writes @ Yu Gung, the bottle was positive that it allows a close and offers a place privileged Dad in feeding her baby. At a time when many fathers are questioning their place in the birth of a child, but rather a very positive point, which itself is largely the case for breastfeeding.
Breastfeed her baby is normal and even more than that … natural and important! But I understand your question My sister who had a cesarean section two years ago, could not breastfeed her child saw his condition, however the medical clinic in which she insisted was made to return every hour to try to force the coup …. she stressed and would not try. Not that she does not want but it does COULD not ….. A mother must be capable and fit not only physically but also morally to feed her baby with her own milk, but the force is making it so rich maternal milk, unpalatable and may affect … the newborn. Breastmilk depends greatly on the condition of the mother who has given birth to a child … and the health of the mother too. Thanks for the question Zelda My friends
It is, increasingly, a true tyranny (just read those who have learned well the lesson to heart and anônnent that "it is best for children" while nothing is proven at all and the formula is not at all children less healthy – it is proven by the cons leche league has lied about the studies it cites to support his dictatorship of breastfeeding), which I do simply submit myself if I have one child a day (other tyranny, moreover, that means that every woman is mother, and when I resign myself to not sell).
Breastfeeding has been a choice. I really wanted to do and I was desperate when things went wrong at first. Fortunately I was in a maternity hospital where pediatric nurse helped me and I ended up breastfeeding my daughter for over a year. It was not a "tyranny" or ecstasy, but only the pleasure of wallowing in "femellité" and the merger. I just had to fight against the deep disgust that it inspired my mother and my sister who had suckled neither one nor the other … and it does not prevent me from being much more feminist that two
My background is nursing a bit complicated. I made the choice to breastfeed, but the start was very difficult: I nabbed an infection during delivery, the sudden my son was transferred to neonates, and to crown it all, as I also hemorrhage, I was so anemic that simply setting foot on the ground made me turn the eye … So I've been around him a few hours in total over the 3 days he spent in the neonate. Not easy to start … When finally the rise of milk (low enough anyway) has kindly agreed to do two weeks after childbirth, I caught the flu, which to me a little more exhausted than I were not already. I struggled. During two months in total. Because I knew my son was allergic land, given its history of both sides. Honestly, it was a nightmare 90% of the time because he did not have enough to eat, because I first need to sleep in order to replenish my reserves for him and I do. So, later, he retained this prerogative) I can attest that it has strong links with sonfils, which were established in the early days, and he was entitled to as many smiles and "recognition" than me from the start;) Do not put more food on the issue than there is in reality what really counts is the desire you have to get involved in the life of your child, not the specific tasks that you share or not … And then one last detail: even new-born love being read stories. And it is also a wonderful relationship, very privileged to develop with a child. And that lasts much longer than the food;)
Yes, the birth of my son, after childbirth, a 'nurse' I brought my son in the room, I was stuck in the arm and told me it was time to feed. I was distraught! In my head I was not ready to get into this kind of thing like that because I did not intimate desire. So I put my baby in the cradle and I was at the nursing station to explain that to feed my child, I would need a little more material than the child. The young woman who greeted me realized it was out of question for me to breastfeed my child, and gave me the necessary explaining how. The one that had stuck my child in her arms came and gave me a disapproving look. I felt in this look all the disdain she could show …. but I did not feel any shame or sense of being a bad mother.
To spend most of my time to supporting mothers leaving the maternity wish to breastfeed, which I can attest is that the pressures are great but these insidious than anyone can imagine. I see some women who who started breastfeeding and not "follow" not very good advice offered to them, eventually when they are given the opportunity in the accusatory therefore end up giving up breastfeeding and demonstrates a great relief to this jack decision. There are behaviors that are implicit influence of mothers hesitant. There is also a fact that many maternity units provide with difficulty initiating and supporting breastfeeding, then yes then what "natural" may become complicated. It is the whole problem of feeding her baby from home can also refer to things difficult. Moreover there is anything panel of women who are in a dynamic of return to ecology and are eager to breastfeed. Moreover there is anything panel of women who are in a dynamic of return to the ecology and wishing fervently allaiterleur baby. The women there have no more to be considered as those who do not breastfeed. Breastfeeding that "works" and therefore is easy, it's really something the most appropriate and relational needs and the needs of food, otherwise it is also to deflect the infant formula that are behind several types of food allergies. To end the c **** d who knows the level of breastfeeding, I testify that there are many fathers who in the name of their paternity and because s 'acts of their children, are urging the mother to her nursing. This balance is also a failure and I often speak to give to understand that not it does not happen like that. In general the body and physiology work together to refuse to produce milk when there internal conflict.
The answers to this question prove that the eyes of persons in those women who choose not to breastfeed their babies is still very hard and full of trial. So the company has a problem because it is not yet ready to accept this choice then and also because it is still locked in shackles of all kinds. She points an accusing finger at those "mothers imperfect" while itself a problem of openness. In the quiet pool of "well pensance" and prejudice, a beautiful pad has been laid and the whole society reacts very aggressively. I am amused.
And why not both? 
If the pressure is really strong and complicated by emotional ties, make them happy in public, that those who meddle with what does not concern them feel themselves relieved of the role they played in the 'your child's education … J'ironise. And once you have the peace bottle. And yes, blah, I am a coward and hypocrite, but sometimes against the stupidity (although any kind of impression relatives) must defend themselves with weapons they leave us … At worst, simply because you do not have enough milk and need to supplement with the bottle. And if "It is women who do not have enough milk to feed their children properly. This was the case with my mother, for example, which has never been able to breastfeed (my sister and me) because the rations were not substantial enough for the two-legged wombs as we were. And if I say all this not to look pretty in the text but because there has, I believe, nothing less fulfilling for a mother. And if I say all this not to look pretty in the text but because there has, I believe, nothing less fulfilling for mamanque to feel guilty about their choices when He is his own child. The testimony of Micdal is inspiring and courageous. So then let people talk and do not frustrate the maternal relationship of your dreams!
I note that the stories are diverse and varied, more or less nuanced, including women without children, but the only father who testifies is an asshole who knows everything. "Lullaby thank you to him a more cordial!