If You Learn That The Child You Carry Is A Future Disability, What Would You Do?
Tuesday, June 15th, 2010Abortion abandoned at birth would keep you what would you do? I would not keep him, it's a choice try to be nice, ok here is the result, it is noted thank you for your weakness just like you I could not keep what's let him live if there is a vegetable all his life?
I call it Sand Sand
* Laughter * @ Chtonk you have made me laugh reading your response ^. ^
It depends on disability and my ability to find a solution once I would not be here. If I know that even without me it will come out no worries. After this I think I say this but anyway I'd keep it as even he would be my disabled child.
I say may – be frustrating …. Do not get me wrong but if you know this child will be unhappy and he can not have such a life as others so I'll keep it … 'Cause After it is very hard to endure the ridicule from people ect …. Be still in hospitals, worry, you can not sleep at night it's a huge responsibility, after all, may depend – be the level of his handicap! good luck!
an abortion. he can avoid having (probably) a difficult life and certainly not because I am ashamed of him!
If it were my wife, I would advise an abortion why put a child into the world knowing that he can be happy, he may never be independent and will fill a lifetime independent of other a huge burden to his family, stress and sometimes too easily insured obligation to dispose of it to send in a specialized load for society. Do you think these kids do not realize their differences with other and he did not suffer from the condition. Do not insist the best service to them to save them a life of suffering. @ Tower, you believe that it is more moral to bring a child into world knowing they pose's lifetime, not to be like everyone else, not only support themselves fill the different needs of life, and receive quip person devoid of know ledge and respect for others @ Seb you are certain that all children born disabled do not suffer from their. Like the boy in his chair, much to want Sachan he can never achieve anything, any SAVIE he will be a vegetable in his chair. This inhumane birth to a child knowing advance what will be his ordeal throughout his life.
For his sake and mine, I'll ask my girlfriend not to keep
You know that the child is a gift from God. Me, I'm gonna keep it as normal and Handicap, all have the right to life and equality. abortion is a grave sin before God and we will be judged for that.
I'll keep it because it's not in my nature to destroy life also, I want you to look at this video, I doubt that your child may become like him so much thought before committing irreparable http://www. youtube.com / watch? v = 0DcqPzO26os I am against abortion in principle and I regret that France has taken this path immoral and despicable good day
from reading your questions I feel that your parents are making the wrong choice. your mother should have to terminate her pregnancy.
Hi, This is a question that thousands of parents are asking each year and it is very painful. Working within the medical and social perspective the previous answers I where we talk about the misery of the child. In reality it is the most evil parents. In fact, if the child is born with a disability, he lives with him naturally, without necessarily realizing that he is disabled. He may suffer or be handicapped by their environment and especially by the remarks of his entourage: a child with Down syndrome will not suffer as we do not make fun of him, ditto for progeria, etc.: so that they are loved and respected as any other children without disabilities, they will never be unhappy. By cons, in cases of severe disabilities, parents are often forced (for one of them at least) to stop working for care for her child (if he has a big motor or physical disability he will need a continuous support): the aid is often weak or cover only. By cons, in cases of severe disabilities, parents are often forced (for one of them at least) to stop working to care for her child (if he has a big motor or physical disabilities it it will need continuous support): the aid is often weak or cover qu'unepartie the life of the disabled. According to the disability, it often develop habitat (cost prohibitive), find suitable schools, to comfort her child when it was subject to ridicule, supporting its possible tantrums and sometimes aggressive, overcome its dependence on outside the presence of time aides (help it needs, toileting, giving medication ), supporting cries can be continuous …. And when the parents die or become too dependent in turn, comes the problem of continuity of care (emotional and addiction). We all love but the problem lies in the support and the sacrifices one is willing to give. Personally I favor abortion because I do not feel brave enough, even being accused of eugenics. That's my opinion. @ +
No I will not keep it, and yes, I would ask a medical termination of pregnancy … ditto if it should be trisomic. I have my son, thank you god that is in great shape … I have a billion tons of love for him (yes I know it's stupid to say but still …) and I could not bear to see him sick or worse in a vegetative state, unhappy, juggling between physicians, stays in specialized centers, and especially that they feel excluded, different … it would be too hard for me … I doubt I can be a good mother, if this life where he should have. It may be a coward I do not know … but I saw my parents friends, also people with young disabled children and adults from their twenties and I probably have such courage. By cons, if any misfortune happened to my son and he became ill, disabled … course, I will never forsake I never let him go, and as they say, I go out fingers ass to be the best possible and to help up to. course, I will never forsake I never let him go, and as they say, I go out fingers ass to be the best possible and to help Agard up hope, morale and have a normal life. And if not, you're not questions my little happier Sand?? Because with the death, sickness, disability … you we shot the morale! 
abortion, I think everything has its future before!
I keep it without hesitation. I am against any form of eugenics.
if there is a possibility of disability or Down's syndrome, I would choose abortion. not for my child because not knowing what he might reserve life (I am not a medium) but because I do not think I could bear and be equal. all this of course in case the interruption is possible. Now, as the responses to abortion, there is not to be for or against, must be following his case and his soul and conscience. If your religion or your beliefs you banned, do not made but not blaming others and vice versa, do not force a woman to abort. is a matter of respect other.
I think it is very difficult to give an honest answer because we are in the hypothetical. Trisomy is no reason for an IMG in my opinion. But do not condemn people who choose this path. I'm not in their lives. Another handicap, I do not know and hoped would never know. As for those who God has mixed all this, though a believer, is not he who must live with a disabled child then we must let the god or he is and see that we are humans with all that that entails.
without hesitation I suffered an abortion, give birth to a disabled child is suffering and his parents and his brothers and sisters to society there are enough ways to entertain detection disabilities so why impose a lifetime of suffering to a person I have no disabilities in my family, but occasionally I help a friend who heads an association for disabled adults she has a daughter with trisomy 21, which was almost 30 years and as she often said "if we had known … " but she cares for her and does not want that after his death and that of her husband what are his brothers and sisters take care of that as she says they have nothing to do with it that 's is not their fight and when I read some responses I have hair that stands on end because it keeps writing is one thing but live another day and if it really happened to them I would be curious to see their reactions and their everyday life with this burden.
here depends on the disability, but I confess that if it is a severe handicap that I know will be hard to overcome here and it will not have a normal life and will do this especially when the parents are gone as an adult with disabilities have no structure that can accommodate them. While abortion is to consider for me.
I would say the same thing Seb. Hard choice, but I think I will not keep it (even if baby and I wanted to have another child one day, enjoy a new pregnancy, …). By the way, stop processing everyone stupid. Meanwhile the person who is the most stupid of us who are away most of his questions? Not me anyway.
I j abortion, c is better for parents and especially for the child because he lived with his disability all his life.
@ chtonk with my half, we would call it …. I'll Sand Sand léchouille the wachachatte my beloved hairy chtonkinette
I'd keep it is there and has the right to life, with her parents.
I myself am disabled I am currently waiting a while and have children tell me he is handicapped and I'd keep my future children also
for a mental disability like Down syndrome, so I'll do a abortion, anyway it is only when we can do an abortion late in my view will not please everyone but for me as the fetus' s is not viable, it is not yet a person. by cons I would not abandon a child at birth
if your choice is not to keep abortion
I am against abortion but I would not give birth to a child who will be unhappy all his life thereafter. should realize that children now are very nasty to each autres.Je could not stand being made fun of a disabled child, just because it is not like them. Sometimes you have to make very difficult choice in life but I think it would be better for the child that it inflicted a miserable life.