Here is my problem: my son is 7 and a half months and my companion complains to breastfeed again. According to him it is big enough to move on, and breastfeeding would serve any more. He also says that I must cut the cord, that my life revolves only around the baby, and that this was due to breastfeeding … I'm on parental leave while it's true that I see my son all day, but I go out at night whenever I have a chance, I do not feel "too baby" to resume expression. In short, it's a little war at home, I have more than enough of his thoughts and I have no desire to stop breastfeeding. Have you experienced this? If yes, how did you do to fix things? In fact it's been a while since we began diversifying, and is the father who did eat at night. When he says he is big enough to move on, he talks about the milk industry. Otherwise, you're certainly right, there must be an element of jealousy. I organize a romantic evening for the weekend, we'll see …
Ah, Dad and baby blues … it's classic. Boring, but classic!
Maybe he just wants to make you understand that it also wants you to be his wife? Maybe he feels neglected? If you do not want to stop, do not do it, but trying to dig a little to know why he asks you that. Without the psycho counter, I would say that his request reflects a desire to participate more.
he must be bored dad, a way you gave him the best of yourself to the little bit if you allow yourself continuously.
If you value your relationship, it would be wise to know what lies behind this desire for your friend ……… I think it is deep, and speak with him, question the gently … …
Well c simple: the more you breastfeed your baby better for him .. c It will be less ill and have less risk of allergy .. Dad tries to convince … c for the sake of your son .. I agree that c the best job in the world to be a mother .. Your husband must be proud of you and support you must .. Few breastfeeding mother as long .. but you must find time for your marriage .. express your milk and handed it to your nearest … like that baby is well fed and happy dad .. good luck mama ..
It would not be a little jealous of your son? Cut the cord at 7 months, I hallucinate! Especially because your kid gently between the phase of separation anxiety. It would be nice to give complete information on the development of baby. Given my nature, I will give all the info, will try to restore the passion in my marriage and if it does not change his mind, I fuck on the door. I do not accept this kind of blackmail. Good luck!
Breastfeeding is just an excuse … Say it starts to REALLY have fed you forsake the systematic … So either you restoring some things (such as by setting specific days in the week that you spend some time with your man) or you'd better get used to being a single mom;))
It is true that your child may move on but you can also continue to breastfeed at least 2 times a day if you feel the dad may be trying to make you understand that your child is much room for house and that he is lonely and feels to have "lost" his wife? tries to discuss it with him so you can continue to breastfeed and that each finds its place and balance
Bjr, baby you should ask him to stop to eat at Dad .. m'enfin not gonna last for years feedings, he should understand and be rather pleased that his son receives them and that his wife is in full bloom .. I still do not think that AC can really put the couple at risk or so is that it does not help much but if it fucks the bad atmosphere for everyone, it's still sad that all AC leads nowhere, talk quietly, we do not know his motives or his character, there is only you who can figure out how to convince him to leave you a little .. Good luck
My man so I did it, I told him do a mega presentation showing the merits of breastfeeding long, now it is out of question for him to give a bottle to our daughter in my opinion ^ ^ c ' is mainly a call for help, he might like you to take a little more care of him? Men are often very jealous of the mother / child relationship, they often feel sidelined and did not know how to win, either side of the baby to care for them or the side of the Mom, to find the woman and not the mother … It's up to you to combine your role as a mother (with breastfeeding) and your role as a woman. It's pretty hard, I put me a little time to find myself as a woman and then again the wife of my husband, but now I combine my two roles perfectly and breastfeeding takes very little space .
Uh it's not a breastfeeding but you So you choose. He might want to be actors in the life of the child leaves the care of him anyway around 8-9 months it will start slowly diversifying food he can eat at that time. Until then leaves him some stuff to do with your son because you're overdoing it seems. The bath may also be a good laugh when, for example.
I think your husband is not a physician if he thinks it's no use you should go every two to talk to a pediatrician. If you do not want to stop do not stop or you will regret it and you put it back on constantly.
Indeed, it is your body is yours to choose, but you also live with your companion and it would be much better than that you support breastfeeding as an issue of dispute. We must find a settlement because if your man does not understand you, disputes will escalate, but if you sèvres your son while you have no desire at all, you will keep a grudge that might weaken your profondemment couple. When you're mom, it makes sense that our life revolves mainly around baby, which does not experience things in parallel, as you do. Once more, you're on parental leave, it is to take care of baby, not to go on holiday to 2, right? I guess your working companion. If you sèvres your baby, you will occupy less worry? Who will give him the bottle the day? We need to know why he thinks that at some point you have to go to the milk industry. What makes your baby is not "enough" great to have the formula and what makes it then becomes quite. What makes your baby is not "enough" great to have the formula and what makes it then becomes quite "big" to be? Is this not an infringement on human milk and breastfeeding in general? Maybe he is worried. He hears that breast milk is no longer appropriate to a "big" a nutritional point of view, breastfeeding is an impediment to the autonomy of baby, etc. … This is nonsense, but these are ideas that circulate frequently and it is legitimate to ask questions. Talk quietly with your partner, reassures him, provided him specific answers and argued. You can for example make him read articles on the subject: http://www.lllfrance.org/L-allaitement-au-fil-du-temps/Allaiter-plus-de-6-mois.html Once informed and reassured, he will have no reason "valid" for refusing to focus primarily on the welfare of his son that of his companion, and consequently his. Good luck!
Hello, I am truly saddened by your story, it only confirms what I think of men and their selfishness, dads are worse, I do not generalize because they are not all alike, but most want woman gives birth to their happiness is ok, after they have to bend over backwards to meet the needs of the baby and the desires of their rights. In short this just to say out loud what some women think. for your problem, not just demand that your husband, he should know that breastfeeding is good for your child, and 7 months is not too much, you probably know that up to 2 years Your child can still ask the breast. On the other side as a husband may be that he feels helpless, and that between being a mother and wife you can be more to reconcile the two, (I understand you, as a young mom I do find myself as well) What you can do is maybe the most engaging, whether it gives him a bottle of your milk, as it ca. On the other side as a husband may be that he feels helpless, and that between being a mother and wife you can be more to reconcile the two, (I understand you, as a young mom I do find myself as well) What you can do is maybe the most engaging, whether it gives him a bottle of your milk, you will like this ilne more glued to your son. Or maybe try out, to have more privacy. I wish you anyway good luck and I hope it gets better.