what does this Badinter tends to sing about breastfeeding? She said that the bottle came to liberate the mother of the slavery of breastfeeding. carvi is a breastfeeding? you who have breastfed or are breastfeeding and do you think that you can breast was separating the couple? thank you in advance for your answers. (issuance of this morning)
Breastfeeding is tiring, enchain to your kid, the father can easily replace you, it hurts and the baby does not remember either. It is a mode of nutrition that promotes links baby mama, excluding the father of this relationship and makes the woman "slave" and willing to feel guilty for a few months. Some do it heartily, others make the choice of the bottle. But Elizabeth is right.
I nursed 2 of my 3 children. Neither slavery, nor great joy! and yes, the father feels excluded from the entire relationship is "fastened" Mom / bb. Let each make its choice, there are too many issues involved to compel or prohibit. E. Badinter was not entirely wrong …………………
It does not say that! She said that the bottle has enabled women to work and to be financially independent and socially and that the current crisis tends to bring women back at home (I read his book). It does not call into question the benefits of breastfeeding. It is just against the extremists, which make him well. Sure, it's hard to breastfeed during the first month and after that rolls but babies breastfed breastfeed more often (mine in two months and a half still 10-12 times per day). And then when I submitted the bibi for the first time he preferred the bibi … Not really mad wasp. Besides all the sites say to avoid breastfeeding bibi even give her own breast milk because it is easier for babies.
I breastfeed my three children six months each. I myself felt neither slave nor I thought it was a chore. The father does not necessarily just to breastfeed. But at night for example from time to time he will get up and bring me my baby's suckling. It is or wedged between us and the dad was there for the boobs. No chores bottle sterilization, preparation of milk powder has four o'clock in the morning ', no worries for the exits … Frankly I think breast feeding is childishly simple …
I think the opposite. Give the breast is a liberation for those who can. I am anti bottle unless it is otherwise impossible to feed her baby. Is an aberration of nature is selfish, unhealthy. How a mother worthy of the name can it take to stop this chemical products that are more pure than his own milk to feed a healthy baby, preferring to give him cow's milk or soy for sure. It sure it hurts at first, most active frequencies, then it's a stress release for cleaning, sterilization of bottles, purchase powder that just are not really making the obligation of the roast while with breastfeeding there needs to burp her child as an animal by tapping on the back. It is a comfort to his conscience, for his children is to respect, observe its condition, nature. My small breasts have fed my son for over a year and many others, an inexhaustible source that fed premature babies … I did. Aijamais I do not see it, I know their families, I just hope they enjoy excellent health … like my boy.
I am not at all agree with this Badinter! I breastfed my daughter until a year was a real pleasure for us both, and even for the father, who had himself the lien of the bath! even by returning to work (after 3 months) I continued to breastfeed partially because it took the bib at the nounou.Le made to breastfeed while BOSS ME Premetta the meet in the evening and have our moment of privacy, only for us, just to make up the lost day! still breastfeeding my son for five months, and I also returned to work since two months, and it is always happiness : we are all thrilled to meet two evenings and gratifies me big smiles and giggles when I put it in! dad has found its place in that relationship, I let him have the chance! it must be said that in my profession I am passionate about breastfeeding, and I find no reason to stop breastfeeding, I think I'm well set to take another year without any problem! not a return to eclavage Women must surtotu. The fact of the breast while the Boss ME Premetta meet in the evening and have our moment of privacy, only for us, just to make up the lost day! Still breastfeeding my son for five months and I also returned to work since two months, and it is always the happiness we are all thrilled to meet two evenings and gratifies me big smiles and giggles when I put it in! Dad has found its place in that relationship, I let him have the chance! must say that in my profession I am passionate about breastfeeding, and I find no reason to stop breastfeeding, I think I am partly to take another year without a problem! not a return to eclavage Women must surtotusavoir what you want, not just to force paarce we say that aalaitement is to give the best of oneself: to force is never good, especially on the ALait! everyone does what he likes, that's all!
Hello I nursed my two daughters, and it has never been slavery for me, quite the contrary. It's never been a problem in my marriage. Breastfeed her child is something quite natural for me. No milk can replace the mother
The bottle is also a disposition, if you look here: you have to buy milk (and it costs an arm), wash bottles, all ready to hang out with, wait for it to heat, etc.. Breastfeeding, it 's is certainly not of slavery or a chore, but a natural act, and a special moment with her child. That said, good thing the bottle is here. My breast did not go well (thrush and pain) and I had to switch to a bottle. Breastfeeding is, I have been frustrated at not being able to do more. The role of the father, there are plenty of other things it can do, and also the breast pump that can enable it to few bottles. However, now that Junior is passed to the bottle, it's almost always me who gives … Like what? Badinter is all TV shows and radio for months to sell his book, and it takes a radical attitude to the buzz and sell more. His book (which I have not read and that I will not buy because of this attitude) is, I think, more. His book (which I have not read and that I will not buy because of this attitude) is, I think, plustempéré it. But it is a frustrated ex-sixty eighters who has probably never tried to breastfeed …
Bjr, I breastfed my two children and I do not feel it has had any effect on my marriage. There is always a way to express milk and to give the bib by dad, need to organize it all. It is true that breastfeeding is tiring but I find much more compelling to make a bib (heat the water but not too much, measure the milk powder, which is a real challenge when you have not slept much because baby wakes every 3 hours, etc …) @ Mina, I sincerely believe that all and I mean all women who breastfeed do good heart (or automatic but always in good taste). If it does not please them to motherhood, they go home to bib … You tell me that some do by financial worries, well, I'll answer it surprise me because if you breastfeed without meaning to you does not produce enough milk and therefore if the source dries up …
Yes, when you have no choice, breastfeeding can be a chore (like bottle-feeding may be experienced when we wanted badly to breastfeed .)… today, we are fortunate to have the choice between breast and bottle. those who are perfectly comfortable with the idea of breastfeeding opt for breast, and they are right. Those who are reluctant to choose the nursing bottle, and they will be right too. TODAY 'Today, the fundamentalists of breastfeeding we swell. Even I who nursed my children until 9 months (because it was MY choice), I wanted them back in the bacon, because these ayatollahs breast feeding to more harm than they serve. And do we have to face facts, breastfeeding can be a hindrance to working life, social, you can feel completely at the service of her child, and I do not see the name of what we should necessarily live well Even when breastfeeding is deliberately chosen. @ mina: you'll get disintegrate … mina farewell … ^ ^ (They are not things that say they see …)
I have no desire to debate (I come from a debate on the topic with friends so I'm tired!) But I chose to breastfeed and I say CHOSEN. This is not a constraint, so I do not see why I should feel slave! For me it's not a chore, it's best to give my baby but I do enjoy myself, I 'loves watching baby bell nose buried in my bosom, her eyes back with pleasure and felt her little hand caressing my breast … But I'm not against the fact that bottle feeding is the same, c is a CHOICE. When the fact that it separates the couple is saying, I say no, my man give him a bath, the cuddly when she cries at night … And once we have our baby lying intimate moment. So we're still as close and loving.
Ah, but not put everyone in one basket. There are mothers who breastfeed and who are reasonable. And there are others, terrorists breastfeeding howling scandal and treat others limit unfit mother if breastfeeding not her baby up to 2 years, and if not practice cododo and sling, and if we use no cloth diapering, ect … They are here, I think, really slaves of their baby . Their speech is scary because not only extremist, but in addition to the limit of brainwashing. But a breastfeeding mom to 3 or 6 months without forcing others to do so is for me a mother who has a genuine informed choice.
e am a mother of 6 children and I breast feed my 6 children, it was a choice for me because I wanted to, was the father didn't cons on the contrary, its a joy to be able to breastfeed her baby and give them meiheur us even
Hello, I have trouble with certain words that cry foul in any case … I breastfed baby one month and a half and I frankly did not feel at ease. I loved when my smart mouth fell asleep in cons, it was true moments of complicity, but the difficulties involved in (and yes we do not have any fine high breasts that allow baby to breastfeed in all positions !!!), pain, fatigue, shelved for breastfeeding "at peace" when we invited or were invited … Briefly, certain constraints, which are not for others, I see it, made me spend enough Quickly bottle. And it was a real physical and psychological relief! So I do not judge anybody and I respect all opinions on this controversy, and more respect, I understand … but let us be temperate in our statements … A loving mother, she is breastfeeding or not, whether alone or with dad, she is an active woman or a housewife, all deserve. A loving mother, she is breastfeeding or not, whether alone or with dad, she is an active woman or a housewife, and are all worth lerespect GOOD MOTHERS when they mistreat not their child. It is intolerable that some are stigmatized and treated bad mothers under the pretext that they do not or will not breastfeed! "I am sad to see all this aggression and contempt: respect- we as mothers and do our best to raise our children FREE and respect for each.
I would say that from the moment it is a decision without being forced to choose whether breastfeeding or bottle will always be the right decision. For my part I could not breastfeed than 15 days because very little milk even from the 1st day and frankly it was nice but nothing more. Same as above difficulties and put in a maternity staff who were on the verge of making me feel guilty for doing wrong things, so I just did not have enough milk to all the women in my family Indeed! So yes I loved the transition from a bottle. For my part to engage the father would sometimes take my milk and he greatly appreciated this time.
I will not expatiate, but just the two points that I really take to heart: – Dad can really develop a very strong bond with her child without going through the food (at least my man has of the 2nd day and I not think it is more gifted than others) – Breastfeeding, especially when it is mixed (for my part in starting the 3rd month) and just a release, or because you are, you do not have to think At the head and lug around all of that is going somewhere after I think Badinter did not think that reactionary, if we listen well, it is not at all anti breastfeeding It just says that we should not blame the mother who do not, and she is right
Badinter is a feminist who pushes a little too far in my cap. I nursed and all went well. Breastfeeding is personal: If you could see it's a good thing. If a defect is an obligation, a nuisance for you, you're free! The bottle is like the pill: it lets you do what you want when you want, without obligation, that the choice.
BADINTER that means is that the bottle was a revolution for women, particularly in relation to work and to his emancipation! I breastfeed my daughter and Me, love is a very special relationship but it's tiring! the bottle is very convenient and it also has its advantages! every woman should do as she feels, without being judged!