Hello, After my birth, I still have not chosen a contraceptive method (also please tell me what you have chosen and what were the advantages and disadvantages). I wonder if one you became pregnant (again) when she was nursing and that in the reports, the ejaculation was outside … I have a feeling weird, even though I have not yet had my back rules … My baby has just come into the world (end March) and I'm worried about being pregnant again I await your answers, your testimonials (if this happened to you, if possible) Thanks in advance forward!

You do not know a single penetration without ejaculation may suffice to get pregnant ?!!!! And yes the seminal fluid may contain some sperm and get pregnant in your state is perfectly possible …. HOODS, you know? Congratulations to all cases for the baby.

I got pregnant with my second when my daughter was only two months, I took the pill and breast he jumped from the moving train but there is always a good drop and it is the drop that made the difference . If you're worried you can always do a blood test, difficult to know if you're pregnant because you have not got your back layer. Keep us posted.

Breastfeeding does not necessarily mean being pregnant is not a valid belief for all. When the ejaculation outside is rare but it is enough that a few sperm remain at the edge of the vagina or start a 2nd time to get pregnant. So not impossible, but if you went, he is normal that you are not your rules they will not return until the end of breastfeeding unless you fit the mixed feeding with baby bottles.

I have just given birth and it has been 5 months

Breastfeeding is not a means of contraception. So yes, there is a risk.

Oh misery! "It is still not difficult to take a contraceptive or your man use a condom As we do not really want to have children, you do what it takes

I do not understand what you mean by "if I do not spend all my rules" but one thing is sure is that you need a birth control method if you do not desire a new pregnancy. There is a pill is a pill Cerazette and effective things you can do despite breastfeeding and then if male condom, female etc.

The fact that breastfeeding is not a way to avoid pregnancy valid for all.

This is not because you breastfeed you do not risk becoming pregnant. You must have a means of contraception if you do not want to have another child right away.

since you are breastfeeding (you have lots of milk), normally you can not have your period and you can not get pregnant. if the opposite (having a light milk) you can get pregnant.

Breastfeeding is a form of contraception, the problem is that it is not 100% and in addition we do not know when it stops in any case he stops 11-16 days before the rules say "back layers" since there 11-16 days between ovulation and menstruation begins … So expect the rules is relatively dangerous, because a pregnancy after the first ovulation postpartum is not recommended (fatigue failures, unable to continue breastfeeding, and perhaps additional risk for pregnancy). There are ovulation tests, a reasonable cost in Germany but in France I think it varies considerably depending on the pharmacy and presentation. If you want a fairly natural method of contraception, or you have already established a way forward (Billings method, temperature) and you should consider whether it is always reliable, it is better to try to avoid, during intercourse, fertilization: ejaculation outside the vagina (everyone does not know …) or.) Oupréservatif male and / or female, the latter usually with spermicide. These contraceptive methods allow you to breastfeed without soaking the baby hormones … Enjoy breastfeeding is a period so pleasant!

My daughter, who made his night since its 2 days longer sleeps detachment is extremely hard for her .. then she wakes up 2 to 4 times a night … the method 5 10 15 j does not have the lesser good cry she is very stubborn and do not sleep on his worst day than it is not breastfeeding and I've liked him spinning bottles to assist in posting and when she realized that had to detach it refused to bottles so j ai plus return to work (I work in daycare) so I always have with me the day I 've no time in the evening on returning home for the household, I can not file it without qu 'she cries and I have two other children' s and occupy a house I would clean and a dodo I want to make the night I'm on the verge of tears discouraged! "I want to advise please

I do not know how old your daughter, but all babies go through this phase where they want to be in his arms. You have to explain that here you can not take care of her for it must you to do dining / household, but when you have finished you will see. You and the leaves from time to time you talk to him later, explaining that you are busy but there you have finished soon. For the night, unfortunately it is she who will decide to no longer reréveiller I think your daughter is anxious by this separation, to you the reassurance and listen to their needs you're his mom. You're not the father, is he now? It may be staggered hours. My man working in 3 * 8, the night he got up a little earlier to give the bib of 4h, and bah nothing but sleep 6 hours straight its good! Try to delegate things, and even that takes care of her daughter, she may cry in his arms, but her father, she must understand that he too can be reassured and him some. My man working in 3 * 8, the night he got up a little earlier to give the bib of 4h, and bah nothing but sleep 6 hours straight its good! Try to delegate things, and even that takes care of her daughter, she may cry in his arms, but her father, she must understand that he too can be reassured and dubonheur bring him, I wish you courage and if you just try to give it to someone she may not react like you and it'll let you breathe a little. By

Hello, I gave birth there soon 8 months now, I had about 20 pounds, and lost only 8 so far, I am all plump, but I stopped breastfeeding it is only 2 months and not yet begun to plan, my question is this hoooorrrible all soft pad is he going to disappear with sport and diet? I'm worried because I'm swollen like 6 months pregnant we often make me think I can not return my belly and I do "meaning" not my skin when I touch it at this point, it is insensitive . I did some abs and step but I hyper evil in today's belly-up in more I do not rehabilitation-short perineal afraid I never return to normal, with a belly size normal, I am ashamed. Thank you for helping me. Pocib Thank you all: I thank you for those comforting words that go straight to my heart, I share your opinion on the dictates of thinness imposed by society. Unfortunately relexa are not necessarily bad (my general practitioners who wonder how long I. Unfortunately relexa are not necessarily bad (my general practitioners who wonder how long jesuis pregnant …) but equally hurtful sometimes … at least your wife be happy you're my husband, thank you!

it's normal you're a mama

How horrible! Bof I mimi a year … for a 28 kg ai great course in short my baby weighed 4 kg 200! And it moua shrimp

The rehabilitation of the perineum really really helped me to regain my line almost before pregnancy. Then, one should allow time, sports and eat balanced will actually help you. It does not happen in two days but keep the morale, you'll end up get rid of your belly. Courage.

If you make people "thinking", why take you seriously? Especially on a physical appearance quite natural after such an event. I like very much and may be more my wife for our second child, the size of his belly, I do not care royally … sometimes I really understand some things … Nature, we must accept it. All these methods are only thin you feel guilty and feel bad, that's all! So the only advice I can give you is to accept you as you are and to hell with those who criticize you, is this criticism is unwelcome, wicked. My wife feels very good, because I support it, I did not thrust him saying "you're ugly", because it is not even true, my wife is a beauty even with pads. Society rec. I think more of my daughter, his well being, physical recovery of my wife to be in shape, only physical appearances. Perhaps you would not have these problems if you. Perhaps you would not have these problems if TUAV thought the real problems after childbirth and not the problems of appearance, completely useless. This I say what I think even if you have not in the 'air. I wish you good luck, good recovery and find yourself beautiful as you are

Too bad you did not do the perineal rehabilitation! You can maybe still address yourself in a midwife in private practice for a medical opinion on the issue, I say this especially because you evoke pain, and this is not normal. This is not very good to work his abs if the perineum is weakened. In order not to risk damaging it more, when you do the abs, it is always 1, contract your perineum in effort 2, blow into the effort and finally Do not worry, it's okay to fail tone after pregnancy. Those who lose all the pounds taken in 3 months are rare. Most of the time it takes between 9 months and 1 year, and sometimes it is 1 or 2 kilos tenacious (s). There's nothing to be ashamed. But think to contact a midwife to tell her about your pain. Take care of yourself, your body is even more important after having a baby!

All said everything: big thank you to you .. it's nice to see someone who speaks the truth and speaks well. It is not easy, I took my son to 20KG I took two years to lose everything, I would not accept me .. and the worst are the people around you that you are thinking: she has grown so … I think it's a bad taste .. and these people are stupid, they should think before speaking and should rather say she had a baby and that's normal. Do not be ashamed if you're not well, make a plan, take yourself in hand, but does not stay like that. Everything happens in the head, I have 2 kg less after pregnancy of my son and I feel strangely .. I was even told that I am and that I should not dieting while for my first pregnancy I was told just the opposite .. anyway, I'd like to lose 5KG minimum. When you've already lost 1 kg you will see that it'll boost, and you can very quickly lose all are eating properly, too. Courage!

Hello, I gave birth on 23/11/09, breastfeeding m girl and since 2 or 3 days I bled profusely (as strong rules) with small blood clots. I called my gynecologist who told me that this could happen with the pill Cézarette. Do you think it is the back layer despite breastfeeding? Can you lose small blood clots for the return of bed? THANK YOU

I was under Cézarette also during lactation and had my back to bed while breastfeeding. So yes it is quite possible and even more tiring but well … As for clots blood seen with your gynecologist I do not remember having had but it means nothing …

I was not under Cérazette, but I was punctually cycles (the first very abundant, such protections "night" to change every half hour) while breastfeeding. My periods are regular again become when I started to diversify. Knowing that you bleed profusely and you're still alive, I think it is not an infection but a cycle (or a back layer, but that you do know that the month forthcoming). As for blood clots: no idea, but if your gynecologist does not care … It may be dried blood for several hours has not been evacuated yet. Or solid parts of the endometrium that have accumulated. In short, it looks to me like Benin.

Often the return of menstruation is delayed by breastfeeding but it is not always the case. It depends on the number of feedings and the number of hours between feedings if your baby makes his nights, you're more likely to have a rapid return of layers, but not necessarily the case either. All this is highly variable from one woman to another, from one lactation to another. Anyway, after birth, when you are breastfeeding, your cycles are fairly anarchic, even if you take the pill. But it is roughly 7 weeks you've given birth, it would be very surprising that this is already your back layer. I'll put an article in La Leche League, which sums up the situation: ==> "Back In certain layers of women , there is what is called a "bleeding 6 weeks" return different layer. It is unusual to see occur in the back layers until 10 to 12 weeks in a mother who breastfeeds exclusively. The duration of amenorrhea lactationelle dependent women. Some women have a return. Some women have a retourtrès despite early exclusive breastfeeding, others have returned to their beds until several weeks after completely stopped breastfeeding. Major cycle disturbances may persist even after the return of layers if the child head still often (eg irregular cycles). "<== If you have your period again in a month is that it was the back layer, if not … I wish you a beautiful breastfeeding!