Hello, I tell you basically my story. I was with a man I got pregnant. I APRIS to 5 months of pregnancy he led a double life, he was a manipulator and a liar and unfaithful / I had trouble deciding and cut but my decision is made. He has not acknowledged the child. but I blame a lot on the fact that I leave. and especially he did not like that I'm stronger than him I think. he said love me like never before. brief … That is not my question. I still agreed that it is there for his son. I loved the testimony of people who have experienced the same thing and how it is to try each brings to the child. I do not see direct. breastfeeding and more. But what can you share? I just hope that his love for the child is sincere and he does not use it for further handling. I remain cautious but granted him the benefit of the doubt .. the little one 2 ½ months

dirty sow, you will give birth to a sow, what could be more obvious? Looking for a guy that's here, right? Huh? HA HA HA HA HA

You did well to leave because a baby can feel a malaise if the couple does not live in harmony. You must think of the baby's safety. Does he want to meet the baby or is he wants to have a hand hold on you? If he really wants to see from time to time the baby, why does not he propose to keep the baby between feedings, time for you to go shopping etc and for him to regain a bit with the baby. You'll see over time if things go well and the day that you no longer nursing, he can have it longer. But it is clear that this is a situation that is not obvious … courage to all three!

Hello, delicate situation. I faced a similar situation during a separation. It is normally good for a child to know both parents and have regular contact with both, even if they do not live together (assuming of course that the parents are normal). But were you I would demand that the father recognizes the child as mayor and that contributes to the expenses of his education by paying him a pension. Love him or not her child, one must always assume its responsibilities towards him. Courage.

you did well to separate you from this manipulator brings all the love your baby needs

Separated before the baby is born? how? Hello, I tell you basically my story. I was with a man I got pregnant. I APRIS to 5 months of pregnancy he led a double life, he was a manipulator and a liar and unfaithful / I had trouble deciding and cut but my decision is made. He has not acknowledged the child. but I blame a lot on the fact that I leave. and especially he did not like that I'm stronger than him I think. he said love me like never before. brief … That is not my question. I still agreed that it is there for his son. I loved the testimony of people who have experienced the same thing and how it is to try each brings to the child. I do not see direct. breastfeeding and more. But what can you share? I just hope that his love for the child is sincere and he does not use it for further handling. I remain cautious but granted him the benefit of the doubt .. the little one 2 ½ months

Anyway it is quite simple, from the moment he has not acknowledged the child, he has no right over him (but he did not duties such as alimony) So you do what you want now! For now you're seen as the only legal parent of this child so you decide. If you want this situation changes, you can start proceedings. Apart from that: if your child really wants, why not be recognized? Honestly, I'm skeptical, and I fear that this is an excuse to see you again. I think we can not both want to be part of the life of a child and both not wanting to recognize it. Otherwise, at first, that the father comes home and sees her child in your presence. Possibly set a regular visit. Already, if it is held, it will play in his favor, and you can consider a greater proximity between the child and himself. Otherwise, you'll know what it is. I personally do not see this, but I have similar situations in my. I personally do not see this, but I monentourage in similar situations (with more concern for the distance since the father was English), but the child was recognized and was also the name of his father : this changes everything. I wish you good luck and hope you'll get more concrete answers than mine.

I quite agree with Stephanie, why did he not recognize your child if he wants to take? it is not logical at all?! About Me I live with a man who lived in the same situation as you (her ex left him 3 months pregnant) but they managed to keep in touch, he recognized his daughter was in custody, they try to become parents when they are no longer a couple. It is not easy because everyone must do things in perspective and maintain the separation but the slogans are "respect" and "commitment." The advice I could give you is actually to remain cautious that your ex does not use "your child to keep in touch with you and put it to the test of the investment it wants to set for your child . Will you be parents despite the separation and your story? Good luck anyway and kisses to your son.

hellos! I'm two months pregnant, I wanted to eat honey for sore throat but was told that it is dangerous for pregnant women in effect can cause an abortion. thank you in advance for your answers

From birth to a bee or a hornet.

I seriously doubt that honey can be dangerous during pregnancy but …

Huh? What? What is this madness?

Yes! The baby now has a chance of being genetically obese !!!!!

nawak port ….

From birth to a bee seems to me the best answer lol

anything! Honey is a natural product with very good health

anything! It's the children that he should not give honey because of botulism.

er I ate yesterday and baby is still always there in my canteen;) It just do bear grunts since;) I think the call Winnie at once;)

I think so, me

Who do you mean "we"? Anything.

Making honey lol!

hello this is the first time I hear it !!!!! avoids listening to nonsense, of course you can eat honey from time to time the only problem is the calories and subsequently the risk of diabetes if too much sugar during pregnancy

my god, how my girls have been born then?? no, honey is not an abortifacient.

That is clearly ridiculous advice! You can eat honey without restriction.

I do not think that eating honey is dangerous for your baby, honey is natural, so no danger cons like any good thing, do not abuse it.

it is safe but you'll gain weight ah AIIE

is no more risky than crossing the road or take your car cons, honey is not recommended for babies under one year because of the possibility of infant botulism, it's not because honey is natural it is 'safe'

Because sometimes the mother is too young so she too can not handle the baby, but instead of an abortion can be put in the freezer too like that the baby is too criohygieniser and mom has too much time and grow like that when she has too work too and can take care of the baby she is too much in the microwave (be careful too not to thawing and after cooking if it is a mess).

The freezes it leaves traces, better go to the Seine and attached to the baby swing. Neither seen nor known

That was a joke! Not funny.

Dummy! C You're not even funny HACA!

But one does not see the other!

Because god does not exist, simply

Virtual has found something new ………. a silly question to ask

Because the notice of God is unknown …. "God has spoken and never raised a seal of authenticity on an absolute revelation or a book …

They take into account for euthanasia or you can die in the worst suffering. They are hypocrites.

I just ask god if he was for abortion. He did not respond. And it's well known "Who says nothing consents." So God agrees to abortion. Moreover, it is logical for, as a result of history, in his infinite goodness he has a woman as a child who wanted to miscarriages.

Oh, you think someone has already spoken? I do not know if you realize, but we invented the sacred books into thinking that these books were written by the hand of God to ask why we do not ask God's opinion on abortion I seems a bit irrational. While we're at it, ask God why on earth is a mess and why he lets the men do that shit. And I hope he has a good excuse!

Because there are lots of different religions, because there are some non-believers, I do not see what right any particular religious ideology should apply to everyone including those who do not share. What would you think if, on behalf of my atheism, I prevented you from praying?

The authorities are elected by the majority, yet most men end up in hell (gate off Matthew 7:13), so why expect that those who were elected by the majority pay attention to God? .. .

Because the authorities are imbued with Marxism is to say human, earthly and devilish! All current chaos comes from Marxists because they specialize in bringing the confusion of values and stigma in the minds of simple! Sm

He does not answer the call or mail.

Hi, What is the lifestyle of your little 1 month? Mine did not really. She eats very often (breastfed) at times, then nothing for 5h. Ditto for sleep, there are days when she does not sleep, and others where it does just that. In contrast, the night she did not sleep more than 3 hours straight … In addition, we can not sleep alone make the day. When she falls asleep and we want to put it in his bed, it looks like she has radar, she wakes up! Good evening everyone

No worries. A baby knows exactly what he needs. His reflexes are basic. If he is hungry, he asked if he sleep he sleeps. Regarding the night c normal. the baby wakes up when he is hungry. Moreover, the main disadvantage of breastfeeding, you never know how much milk that take your baby. Thus, it has not sucked enough, it often asks for more.

Good evening! "Our small chip now 3 months and a half, but I remember his rhythm at 1 month because it was the same! It is the bottle, but did not really rate. But from the outset we have helped make the difference between day (portering, house noises, walks, small games, daylight streaming even when she sleeps) and night (silence, darkness, whispers) that does has not helped to do away his nights, but at least she fell asleep immediately after the bottle, unlike during the day. Hihi, I also had a baby with radar! Impressive! I thought she hated her crib, but in fact it must feel it has the smell of his mother and his warm arms. So I waited a good fifteen minutes or even 1 / 2 hours she is sleeping deeply for the transfer. If you feel it is asleep, is trying to put yourself already in position of gender equity in the supine position with the tip of your arms, you sat on a chair facing the cradle. When she sleeps well, putting all. When she sleeps well, and put toutlentement gently into the cradle and remove the slowest possible your arms. Matter of practice. You can also "soak" the cradle of your smell before putting a coat on you wherever it raises its head. Sometimes, she also fell asleep again, feeling my hand on her cheek, too cute Good luck!

Good evening, my Pépette 5 months now, but it was exactly the same even worse! she took the breast every two hours see all times until its 2 months! then she controlled herself, she took the breast every 3 hours and 4 months since its every 4 hours. She his nights from 2 1 / 2 months but it is at 21h to sleep, she sleeps until 3 in the morning she takes the breast and then sleep until 8am by cons she slept in our bed until his 3 months . this is from my pepettes good luck.

mon loulou at 6 weeks, and a rate of hell! : Feeding every 2 hours day and night, at most he can sleep 3 hours straight in first part of night … the night he hardly slept from 2am because is very bothered by his little stomach (he squirms because of small colon), as cododoté, I confess that I move from room nights! the day he was carrying in a sling when he was asleep, so he sleeps well good 2 hours against me This leaves me the opportunity to take care of the house and my 3 year old daughter, and then feeding period of awakening 1h / 1h30 before sleep … sacred ryhtme fortunately it is leave mater! ps: I hope it will mostly be paid on all feeding at least 4 hours before the resumption of job …

what is the number of meals, quantity and the recipe that is prepared for a baby of 5 months, I knew that breastfeeding, how to alternate between eating and breastfeeding.

it is best to ask this question your pediatrician every child has a different pace and you're lucky enough to be able to breastfeed I haven t been able to do so and baby has passed very easily solid meal to 4 months and half mashed vegetables ( No he did not like soup) and fruit compote with Betterfood c is a very good eater and I have the chance that he loves everything I wish you d get a pass that mantle with the advice of your pediatrician

The more gradual as possible and feeling. Normally, not before six months. Anyway .. Beware, however the feeling a little "next" I thought he loved her very much a vegetable, so I continued to give him, then I would have to give him a spoon … result in emergency doctor at night and winding straps. Softly, So. And always separate the food to see if there is an allergy, what is the food that would have caused. An allergy can be said that the second intake. Ex: carrots one day after the carrots (half spoon on day 1, half spoon on day 2, then you increase if all goes well). When you feel it, you pass a second vegetable few days later (artichoke is good to start. Well, not the leaves eh?! Pureed of course). Can you make a mix "artichoke carrot" Never raw vegetables at first. Neither raw fruit. Meat and Eggs: much later. In principle, the exclusive milk just to a year to cover all. In principle, the exclusive milk just to a year to cover Every other nutritional needs. Then you have the time. As you go more slowly, than you're likely to make him love the food .. And then: you can mix your own milk in its purees … they love it (of course). Ah yes : never add salt, at least in the first month. Attention: all pediatricians do not think so. Some go faster. Have no fear of contradiction.