If you have already experienced this, what did you decide to do? Your spouse have finally accepted the situation, he was convinced? Thanks for your answers … I'm Always surprised by the brutality of some people we talk about this subject, especially when the attacks come from men, I am not sure that it is better for the baby, however, recent studies show that infants fed milk in Western countries are not poorer health than those fed breast milk. It's just that it must be lived well by everyone. I can not stand that someone treats con or upset because he does not like the idea of breastfeeding . I myself am not a big fan of seeing my friends when breastfeeding, but I just want to try. So thank you for making constructive responses! Siam & Junior: I saw this in the latest issue of Marie-Claire (p. 138): Probit study conducted by Michael Kramer, Canadian researcher and professor of pediatrics: Children. 138): Probit study conducted by Michael Kramer, Canadian researcher and professor of pediatrics: the enfantsallaités for at least six months are better protected against gastro, but not against asthma or allergy (study of 17,000 mothers in Belarus ). In fact, I am primarily motivated by convenience (I have not breastfed my other children) …
you do as you feel. It's better for the little one
Er …..!! It is stupid? He has mental blocks? It concerns not thee breasts when you go to act? Advise him to consult a shrink!
Currently I am pregnant and I asked him if his mind if the breastfeeding and it is my opinion. Tell your husband that it was best for the baby because it will have your anti body and after a month you Can your milk from her as he can given him the bottle and participated! courage
While breastfeeding! That is certainly what is best for the child. Avoid simply do to her if this is problematic. Anyway it is in the head, little psychological worries, nothing bad I think. Discuss this with your mother in law, it can be useful when counseling has your spouse. For the rest, it's your choice.
But how should you say. DO child with the BIG CONS.
Bjr, this is not your husband must suck then do it for your little, is there a better, more beautiful, more natural, talk together with a lactation specialist , understand that the health and welfare of the little must still spend a little before his moods, more we approach the cold season and breastfeeding protects better against bronchiolitis, and more with your antibodies is also very good for the harmonious development of the face, jaws and teeth, positive things, so why do otherwise when mom can make that choice, at least the first 6 months is still not monstrous the eyes of your husband .. you have the right to decide for yourself if you want to breastfeed Courage bne day
It's in your body and you do what you want. If he is not happy is his problem. It is necessary that the issue of breastfeeding is consistent with the ideas of the mother or you'll regret.
I read all …. it's better for the baby, do what you want is the baby is nursing, not your husband …. But I personally think you're right to ask you the question, it is normal Your husband has his ideas, his views and his dislike of breastfeeding (I do not think it is the only one). I find it normal that you worry preoccupations. We must stop telling all-is that once the baby arrives, nothing else or no one counts! So you hide to breastfeed … not great! What I would do in your place (I did not breastfeed not been in your shoes more than my man was not cons) is that I would make him understand my desire to try and if it continues to block or put him off, you advise, you stop or you try negotiation.
You really do you discussed with him, but he is completely disgusted, and not very attracted to you, you might have difficulty in convincing him. But disgust often comes from ignorance, the best may therefore be to inform and educate on the subject so that it sees the advantages, disadvantages and especially that he understands how it goes. Learn as much as you can (http://www.lllfrance. org /), and depending on what you learn, adapt your arguments and your speech to the character and motives of disgust in your dear husband. Some advantages in bulk, he could hear arguments: – it is natural Physiologically, there is no reason to be disgusted – he will not need to get up at night to give the bottle – it's economical, no milk or hardware to buy (and believe me , canned milk, it costs an arm) – it's practical, no equipment to lug around to hang out with, no bottles to wash out – is what is best for the health of child (yes I assure you,
I did breastfeed my daughter for 7 months and I'd surely if I have other babies for me to c is the best solution for your baby and for you too (I admit you'll be tired) c is no need to practice walking around with a bottle c is a good temperature and c is recommended as to your husband I'm not going to judge him after all everyone does what he wants but can be when you breastfeed your baby and that he will be at your side it will not be disgusted Now c is yours to see but I think that it is useless to you to pressure the babies who were bottle-fed is doing very well and vice versa
You have to think about what is right for your bb, koi you will not breastfeed any life not as he let you do what is best for the bb and ca health. I told my husband "even if you have to breastfeed a year (lol) there's no pb as that it 'good for bb is starting. told him to think of the bb and not have him
If breastfeeding is good for the baby, he must above all a breastfeeding mom calmly …. Otherwise, you might experience difficulties. You should address this issue with your spouse before birth and thus begin breastfeeding so that everything is in good condition. I can understand, I am a woman and Breastfeeding does not particularly attract me even though I'll try, but I am not psychologically disturbed or another …. Who knows maybe once you've started, he will realize that this is not that bad ….
breastfeeding is natural. svoir why we can not love? And you, why you're not a big fan of suckling see your friends? A serious psychological problem "I have nothing against parents who do not want their child to be breastfed, is a choice, but" not love "it, no I do not understand. oh no I read, it did not even like it, but he is disgusted! wé he clearly has a problem that is not normal! and what is it that disgusts?
If you want to breastfeed, try to explain the benefits of breastfeeding. Is he disgusted by the fact that you give the breast or the milk that comes out? My baby has difficulty with my milk (that is disgusted when he sees a drop, or when he sees my bottles with milk in it) but it did not bother to see our son at my breast. If it is clearly to see the baby in that disgusts you can get your milk may be (but you'll galleries). Or you can try a few days to put in, your husband will be eventually determine, or at least used to.