I had an abortion there near 2mois.les 2 first weeks were difficult + that! Now it's better … but I saturates in my married life, I can not stand anything, I say hurtful things to my boyfriend, very difficult to understand, even for me! J'deviens contemptuous .. however I strongly feel that it is the relationship that drives me is the end .. (Basically, no direct unease with respect to abortion.) Yesterday he told me something like "before being pregnant, you will not saturate. And ca me like a bullet in the head. I wonder if the problem even if I did not really feel, would not the. I really feel to get better, but it is the pb in the abortion anyway? your opinion? your advice?
you have an abortion because it was the ideal solution and now you feel bad about yourself may be that you should see a specialist about a people who lived it and who supports evil and if your boyfriend you can not stand it is probably because for you it is the culprit I wish you courage
No I've never lived d abortion, but I imagine that you come out changed, empty of something my mother has suffered, but no I have never dared raise the issue with it, I myself have a child, my father would have wished that I did not care, brief …. Did you really long and calmly discussed with your friend? you could for example be used to couple therapy, that may be well to pass a test as it good luck to you kisses
abortion is never easy to collect! your man you should understand a little more! support you despite your different (earlier)! 2 weeks! is very recent! let you some time!
you feel that this is not abortion, I believe that indeed this is not it, otherwise you'd worry realized from the beginning, I think it's just the point in your boyfriend who has triggered these thoughts of guilt over the abortion. maybe you stresses these days because of work or family problems, or maybe it's just a combination of small cares which one usually does no attention at all, which makes its effect. especially trying to play sports, listen to music, reading a book, in short, doing so that you stop thinking about abortion, which I believe has nothing to do with ease your trouble. listen, it happens to tiut couple a hard time … it's only natural. I propose a game, put you agree with your boyfriend to act as if your relationship has just started, try You know new, appointments outside …. you'll discover that you love, you have neglected or forgotten a lot of qualities that is the other and you. you'll discover that you love, you have neglected or forgotten a lot of qualities that is another and vousadoriez at first, refresh your memories, appointments close to home, dinner alone, candles , music, dance … talk softly of what bothers you, try to be understanding …. everything will work out because you do something to make it succeed. good luck. YASMINA
If all was well in front and your friends that your boyfriend is obviously not the direct cause of your nervousness, it can effect whether a backlash unconscious events that you have suffered. There is talk of post-traumatic shock, it is a malaise that is expressed in different forms and comes from a trauma. The shock may be totally unconscious, which explains that thou be no reconciliation with your abortion. It also depends on the circumstances of your abortion, whether it's something you have to do reluctantly at the request of your boyfriend when you wanted keep example, it may be that you express an unconscious bitterness toward him.
This is not an impossibility. Why not go see a shrink to talk about? Possibly with your boyfriend? Do not let a rotten situation, wherever you come evil.
abortion is very difficult to live, physically and morally … it also depends on age and we have reasons that we grow here, but it scores a lot. To all those who condemn it should still say it's always the last possible solution being considered and that it is never wantonly. Instead of throwing the stone, he must still try to understand the suffering that it entails, even if we did not feel it exists, even if we deny it's there … and it keeps the mental scars very long And it has nothing to do with what is said anti abortion is not "killing babies" that hurts is the shame that is sometimes this act, you feel dirty, the physical shock is very tiring, and that ultimately they would prefer never to know it
at least l, abortion has taken place for a reason quelconte, then c, is the problem.
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