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I'm Looking For Answers: Breastfeed Or Not The Youngest?

Tuesday, May 10th, 2011

I am currently 6 months pregnant. This pregnancy is desired, yet she arrived while I was on pills. Well, now I know it's true, pills are only effective 99%!! Today I have a huge fear: we had a girl last year in April. It will therefore be 16 months when his brother arrives. I do not know if it does not reject me if I eat it within. I am very afraid of this. Thank you for giving me your opinion. Your thoughts or advice.

Of course not …. if you speak to the great and you said … should not complicate the simple things!

Why is she rejected you because you feed him in the last? She may also want to suckle her. After all, there are children who breastfeed longer. My daughter who will soon head 2 years yet. While this would be a great moment of complicity between the three of you. You'll see it when the youngest born. If your breast look with envy and wants to attempt the adventure, you can give him a few feedings with hugs her little sister or little brother. In my opinion, it can be a great bond between you three.

in my case J had three children and the Gap was not important each one about 11 months and I breastfeed the boards and none of them has never been jealous or anything to the contrary, they adored me breastfeed especially was their little sister

she'll be jealous, so cry more often, stupidity etc. … show her you love her more than him by small details, she'll be sensitive then gradually rise to responsibility it smaller.

Why do you want your girl rejected you? You just explain it too when she was little you give him to eat "the milk of boobs" that's how I say it or enfants.Et will be no worries. Just that it will still be small so you have to expect that sometimes you want it sucked. Just a lil time, just to see, just to fairecomme the little brother or sister. Had me personally it does not pose a problem and I had to leave willingly. After once or twice he had to forsake my breast milk from a bottle to the taste of chocolate.;) Children do things simply, you just have to explain things. Good late pregnancy.

You offer him a doll and while you are breastfeeding the baby she does the same with her doll … My son is 16 months gives the doll bib in the nanny so they understand everything very well. By cons it will spare him nothing but her moments while the baby sleeps in it unto thee a little to herself as well.

I read in a book that a senior who wanted to taste the milk of his mother to "do as little brother / sister" had to take a little. Apparently, he hates the taste and not wanting more more .. More broadly, I will find myself in the same situation although I breastfed the first. I think we should involve them, be next to have a doll to feed … especially fit every key moment of the day. It is not easy, but you'll make it!

Among The Saints Of The "Memorial Of The Saints" By Attar, Do You Know Hasan Al-Basri?

Tuesday, May 10th, 2011

Sheikh Al-Hasan Basri [(641-642 - 728-729) AH, 21-110] Nicknamed Abu el-Hassan Seid bin Abil-Hassan Yecar, born in Medina, he was raised in the house of the Messenger ( saws) and sat among the companions, his first name "Hasan" he was also given by Umar (may Allah be pleased), who invoked God's blessings upon him. His father was a freed slave Zayd Ibn Thabit, and his mother a slave freed from the Mother of the Believers, Umm Selama, which takes care of him like his own son, suckling her milk blessed and said: "My God, provides your child with this and do that becomes the model of the Family "Al Ghazzali said of him:" He is the one whose words were closer to those of the Prophets, and one whose example the closest of Companions of the Prophet – peace and blessings be upon him. "Confirming the words of Imam An-Nawawi about him:" He is a leader, a scholar refined, a lawyer, a trusted man, a devotee, an ascetic knowledge. Once freed, the slaves from Hasan Basri seréunirent and spoke to him in his words: "O pious religion, we have to reproach you." "About what?" He replied. They said: "Why have you waited all these weeks to talk about our postage when you knew how much we needed it?" He replied as follows: "What delayed me is that I had no slaves or what to buy. When Allah gave me some money [by working for it], I bought a slave and then I have freed. So when I called the people to emancipate their slaves in my sermon, their hearts were open to my word, because I had first applied what I asked others. "Memorial of the Saints (Attar)

I think it is better to quote the Prophet's sira rather than other people at risk of them hoisted pae low times to a degree of sacredness, for Hasan al Basri you know that others have used his thoughts to create too u know Mâtazilites Cotesti,

The prophet that the salvation of God be upon him said: "I left you two things if you follow these you will never go astray is the Koran and the Sunna …"

I defy you asshole Wherever you want wherever you are!! allleez chick just for that ISLAM ??????????????

According to Aisha, may God be pleased with him, the holy Prophet, peace be upon him and hello, reported that God said: "Whoever offends one of my beloved (Waly Awliya plural) I declare war. My servant can get closer to me than through what I've ordered. By his acts of supererogation, it is closer to what I love. And if I like it, I get the eye with which he sees, the ear with which he hears, the hand with which he grasps things.

thank you for the reminder of this eminent scholar whose piety rahimahu allah remember Sheikh Cha'rawi rahimahu allah, I invite the opportunity to see mm exegesis of the Quran that man I admire as well.

Has links with Bin Laden?

Friday, May 6th, 2011

Friday, May 6th, 2011

My Son Refused The Bottle?

Sunday, May 1st, 2011

It will have 6 months to 30, I breastfeed exclusively for this birth, he initially had trouble making the breasts so I get my milk and give him a bottle without any problems, even when I had appointments and that stay with my husband he was taking a bottle. I started diversifying food and he soon took a spoon, sometimes when I put it too liquid in the bottle is more convenient. There I begin to introduce the second age milk (for personal reason I want to stop breastfeeding) 1 bib we put a little drop and that he took no worries, the next day we made a bib of 90 he took it without problem too, except that since yesterday he refuses to take any the bib, hungry after a stroke is no longer hungry. 6 months ago to the peak of this growth is that?

Should not mess about, at 6 months, I uncapped my beers already own.

to be honest, the question was first a physician or your pediatrician … many doctors think they are here, and I think we do not play with the health of a baby

The best thing to do, I think he is not to shine: he has associated with a milk bottle he does not (yet), and now he has tasted it, it does not yet appreciated enough to drink regularly. You can make him take another container (cup or other drink with straw) to habituate more slowly, regularly and offer him chances to accept it eventually. In the meantime, you can bet on other dairy products like yogurt and co. But for many foods, and even well beyond six months, children can enjoy a day and another sulk.

may be not what he likes milk?! or so after having to eat it does not want to try earlier fruit juice or water

He may be teething? When babies are ill they often refuse to eat …

My daughter 6months sulked a bit its bottles, so the doctor advised me to keep it in the morning and evening and at noon it's little pot of vegetables and a dessert (small smooth nature of Nestle) and such a 16h danone since it takes more bottles at noon and 16h must include a dairy product, and now she has never been so drunk the bib in the evening and the morning and take it one more night! After each baby is different so request advice from your doctor I think he will be best placed to advise you.

How To Choose Bottles And Teats?

Sunday, May 1st, 2011

Hello. How to choose bottles and teats? I intend to breastfeed, but hey, we do not know what the future is made. For a newborn, how many ml is needed? I heard about the bysphenol. How to be sure not to buy those bottles that contain? About the nipple, it seems that there is a carcinogenic texture (silicone rubber or I do not know.) Is there any new nipples to do? In short, tell me what you know! :) Thanks!

Good evening, my daughter bought in pharmacy bottles that I find very good. http://www.dodie.fr/produit-biberons-le-biberon-initiation, 2 Guaranteed without BPA, I found the perfect .. They completely dismantled, perfect for sterilization … she breastfed and they are ideal for babies who breastfeed in .. for small additions that have been set aside, etc. … then the transition to formula if you do. I do not advertise, but now I think she chose well. For doses, if you are breastfeeding this will demand … it will take what it needs. Bottle feeding, your pediatrician will tell you … and early motherhood advice will help you get started.

I took for my two MAM Dodds enfatns without bysphenol and anti-collic. I took 4 large and 2 small.

In the end, it will be the baby who will choose! I have Nuby, they love them but I can not find it convenient because they sink to the level of the bottle which is composed of two pieces of silicone that should fit …. it does not hold tight … I have several pairs of friends who use tipee Tomy and are very happy.

Hello, I too used the "Dodie" mentioned above for my first child: the only drawback is that the plastic bottle at the bottom of flexible wear relatively quickly and suddenly the life of the bottle is limited. Those I bought then (Advent) are much stronger, I still use them for my second child (I bought some 4 years ago!) Http://biberonavent.fr/biberon-avent/biberon- Advent-ergonomic-Newborn / Today there are models without BPA. I also know followers of glass bottles, personally if I had bought for my children there were many breaks!

Hello yes we no longer know where to head … I bought glass bottles when they were small (because the bisphenol is mixed with milk when it is heated …) rubber teat for my son and silicone nipple for my daughter … because one can not stand each other etc.. And greater when they want to drink alone I bought plastic baby bottles shatterproof ss bisphenol is marked above.

I do not think there have still bottle with bysphénol market. I bought her Nuk bottles at the very beginning he did not like too much, then he prefers Doodie Mom (he's 7months and I use those still there). take many newborn teats that are anti-colic, it helps! later, it will tell you that baby if the bib and pacifier you bought him suits him or not, they always have the last words the little angels;)

In Germany, 98% ¨ breastfeeding women. This means that the probability that a woman has no milk (an argument often advanced in France) is almost zero. 2) for ml: is it that the sheep have a watch and a balance? A baby knows better than parents that the books and doctors, how much milk he needs. And the advantage of breastfeeding is that the baby needs more milk the mother produces more, it is balanced naturally. Not to mention the practical benefits: anytime, anywhere, if the baby is hungry, just give him the breast, it's ready. 3) a breastfed baby is almost never sick. Ask yourself why doctors breastfeeding up to 3 or 4 years. 4) psychological benefits for the baby and mother. No bottle can replace the body contact. When I see how France is anti-breastfeeding, it makes me nuts! One is the country least lactating THE WORLD. (And the reasons are historical: during the First World War, women were. (And the reasons are historical: during the First World War, women étémobilisées in factories, and the bottle was presented as patriotic and was provided with all the virtues. Add to this the French normative bias, "a Baby needs to drink so much at such a frequency, grow so many grams per day, "and you have the explanation). Conclusion: do not ask questions of materials and quantities, do not listen to those who never breastfed, and therefore do not know whereof they speak, and you will not regret a single moment!

What kind of world that bottles …. I am a childminder and I know that each person has his mark. There are nipple-like shape of the breast of the mother (nuke and Advent). if you do not want bisphenol takes glass bottles, anyway, it is prohibited now in plastic bottles. Wary now when even some stores childcare is old inventory and do not hesitate to sell them. If there is no BPA is specified on the label. we also know that glass bottles are not sterilized in the microwave. Information before you purchase a product and if you want to sterilize baby's bibs.

I had Dodds. It was good … except the bottom of the bottle anti colic who screwed so badly, let in all the milk … must therefore be careful. Otherwise, I use Advent: no problem. Solid, without B., easily handled by me or baby. For nipples, bb has never wanted anything other than silicone. She refused and then the other bottles that I could give him.

Muslim Woman Or What Pious Companion Is Your Name?

Sunday, May 1st, 2011

In response to hope, I'm Halimatou Sahadia, a nurse who has nursed and raised the Prophet during his early years until the first purification of his heart. And you? Bella, bella, bella … I'm willing to pretend to believe you, but a challenge … is irrelevant to me. I'm not Arabic. That is the problem, you tend to ignore other Muslim ethnic strata. And when we fix on an individual because of his origin, sorry but I see only me of racism. Now your analysis is completely skewed by your hatred. Ok I'll give the French Arabs, young, are not necessarily angels. But to generalize with the Arab world. It is a matter of education. Education is not peculiar to any ethnic group but to the environment and society. The real issue is education FRENCH Arab-Muslim does it lead to behavior "uncivilized"? It is not always the fault of others. I think it would be good that you are questioning yourself.

There are more Muslim than the number you requested.

my name is Rachid which can be translated as "one who is mature enough to act always" is not my case I know, but that name, when written as it defined 'Arrachid "became the one of 99 names of God, Harun Arrachid, the great Abbasid caliph, it is also rated the name; @ Luqman ah, you're still in shock, sorry for you ^ ^

no mine!

I am an atheist, but I still bear the name of Luqman myth that never existed! But I think soon the change, the paperwork is very long ….. PS = To Maktub, you're so stupid as your parents would call you the "huileda" Rachid ….. @ Maktub, under the shock of what? The Mohammedans do not reach me, at least you anyway! I'll take a ride on your hard drives to see what you have really small in the noggin … trol as a Moslem fundamentalist who does not like you in the mosque (dirty gym) Friday c ' something fishy! If I find something not on your hard drives Islamic, I published here!

My name is a mystery word that nobody knows what is its meaning

I do not know "Jassem having had historical significance in Islam. I liked to wear the name of a companion or our beloved Muhammad (pbuh), even though I like my name.

I was named after the best of the woman who was chosen by God (swt): Maryam, the mother of Issa (3alihi salam) very beautiful name you have I do not know

Ultimately, your name not is not very pretty nor enviable … a heavy price to porter.le fanaticism.

I do not want to disclose this info on Yahoo Q / R, but my first name is that of a close companion of the prophet. tartatatata: So your name is Osama

Leila: I was named a cousin to my father

Treat others as racist Arab-Muslim allows not question their maladaptive behaviors and uncivilized. Whether you want to admit it or not, no matter where in the world where education is given arabomuslmane (Maghreb, Middle East, French suburbs), it always ends in fire and blood. At one time darling, must call into question …

The Wicked Stepmother Is A Myth?

Thursday, April 21st, 2011

I know more and more apparent personality … everything I do is never enough for her son for her grandchildren … fortunately it is far … but still not enough … And you worry I'm not alone in this case? Before I could think was the Best of Beautiful mother but since I had my children she can make reflections as if she had a right to his grandchildren. – She wanted to give its opinion on the choice of the nanny – she blames me instead of working to keep children BEFORE: – she reproached me for my work at home because I glands for her – she blames me to reproach to my husband … because a woman should serve her husband GRRRRRRRRRRRRR strangle him for that … because she is a slave of a man who does nothing and that is all macho like the only thing he does is good sexually, so why complain …. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR I hate … I hate it too because my stepfather is also a wound … -. He called to prevent their children will see it and wonder what I intend to cook … so called because it is always disgusting ;-( – after eating it will collapse on the couch, leaving me clear the table … – THE WORST OF THINGS: It is said that cons toujorus my authority in front of children Your Mum is bad … you can take a sweet Grandpa authorize you. For the work I had to do training so I left my children with my lovely parents. and my son told me that I was a BAD MOM and more it has captured my daughter who was only four months he would give me more GENRE AHHHHHH it will not sleep I'm going to bed … Fortunately I breastfeed my children because when we were in weekend home … baby crying and told them that many arrived to take me to give them a bottle … sorry for the pavement … I wanted MY SPITTING VENOM GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR … … my parents are the ones they call to 1O minutes before coming … they still ask me if. they still ask me s'ilspeuvent take the children … brief them they respect my choice … NOT EASY …

you are very badly fallen! I hope your husband takes at least your defense! Courage! We were fortunate to have great parents on both sides!

Unfortunately, when one marries one wife, family

Ah yes not easy. This is not my case, but reassures you, the wicked stepmother is not a myth, you're not alone! I had a stepmother who did not love me (I'm too shy apparently) and that allowed everything. Fortunately I had no children, otherwise I might bite. I know a girl in your case. The parents are beautiful so heinous they see them less often. Loved the stepmother said that under the law, grandparents have the right to take the kids (to go on holiday for example) even if the parents do not want. Incredible! And that says your husband?

I understand you perfectly because my stepmother is even worse, a vixen. It behaves even worse than yours and besides, she married a man much older than her, they do not love and therefore she leaves her husband dying in her bed all day and it passes his time running after my fiance. When she speaks of her husband, she says "grandpa" because it is more x's father, she believes that my fiance is his. She harasses the phone, even when you're traveling, 10 calls per day. If it does not, unfortunately, calls for the whole family and entourage to call. She must know where he is (40), blends of business, told my fiance that I am not good to eat him x (whereas the reverse). She tried everything to separate us, really everything.

Certainly it exists, no luck for you, my son-I love me and I can not get rid of (humorous because of course I love them too) the evidence they are leaving, they came to pay a little coffee

yes and no, thank you for your questions

Sorry but my stepmother is a kindness, it's a cream. You about, I think the best would be to play cards on the table with them and get your courage to tell them what you do not like. It is true that your in-laws go too far. They do not have to interfere in your choices regarding the education of your children. Good luck

I have not encountered such a problem but I had a beautiful sister who hoarding my brothers and manipulating them up against his sister, like her children, she did not want to come see her aunts. This is sure to be a real pain in the ass mother in law to the fullest.

lol yes for some

Kellk1 Hello, I read in you feel like you live with your parents-in ….. Why you do not tell them they should let you live your life … and then calmly discuss with your husband, he can understand .. I will not tell your place, but you must not be weak and accept all of them, they'll make life impossible and cover you with reproaches … When they call you to come to you, tell them you have a bar, do this several times and they will understand .. Kellk1 my dear, I wish you to be happy and put an end to all this …. because your beautiful parents intrude in your life together .. Good luck

Worry me either I do not like my step-mother but luckily for me I have no contact with her). Yours is on your husband to put her acting face reality. And especially do not let yourself be!

I also had ac, it will not comfort you but you're not alone. My beautiful mother had only boys and c a serial killeuses beautiful girls. I made a reason for it is like that with all these beautiful girls. Not bother to intervene mr is always the view of his mother. If so-called c dégeu what you prepared, leading him 40 euros and tell him "you have to do better tonight, the Auchan is not far!". On the other hand nothing prevents you to answer or lead you wrong when you go home. Good luck to you ….

Can You Tell Us About This Troubadour Fettis Food That Does Qu'inepties On Nonsense?

Thursday, April 21st, 2011

If your mother t'allaite Tamazight, it t'alaite poison. "

I think it's a Libyan poet? Am I wrong?

I do not know. salam.

How Have The Courage To Wean?

Thursday, April 21st, 2011

Hello girls! Baby will be 6 months next week, and I still breastfeed. I start diversifying. I know he's going to have to wean soon, but I can not bring myself to do: I love it. Since the delivery room, breastfeeding is going really well, very naturally. One little problem: between the afternoon where it is guarded by the nanny and therefore takes a bib, where she eats lunch mashed less milk, and at night when I got him a bib for the well stall for the night, I have concern for flooding very painful night. And I tell myself that it may be a sign of the end of breastfeeding, the need to move on … In fact, I fear the withdrawal because I know I would never have that happiness. It stuck me that, I know, no baby. It's like putting an end to our merger … You lived it? How did you do? @ Fummy: Because she spits, and that milk CA is thicker. She is savvy, and sleeps 12 hours straight … Hi Hi Hi @ Alinette: Thanks! But it's such a. Hi Hi Hi @ Alinette: Thanks! But it's so unbonheur … Yes, the bib is fun too … That's another thing. @ Mamzellz: What great advice! Last night I made a bib smaller, 150ml, to finish in, and this morning, no pain! The other problem is peer pressure: the "mooooore you breastfeed?" fuse, and it bothers me to have to justify myself. You breastfed how long?

this congestion is perhaps one phase of these changes (two feedings jumping) and it takes time for your body to adapt to this new rhythm. If it does not go with the usual methods to relieve congestion until it snaps into place, you can then consider the complete cessation of breastfeeding. But if you want to keep, there is nothing wrong with that

How's the courage? What happiness?

the merger will not stop breastfeeding. you will know the happiness of giving the bibi .. eye to eye … and Dad can enjoy. congratulation for your 6 months of lactation.

Why a bib over the stall occur at night?? I do not understand your approach. If you do not want to wean, do not do it! If you have a bottleneck is that your daughter does not drink enough, it's not a sign of the end of your breastfeeding. Moreover, if your body is accustomed to feeding in the morning and evening, you will, it will have enough milk to satisfy her. For my daughter, I introduced powdered milk (infant formula) before diversification. My son and I plan to continue breastfeeding longer. Ideally, up to a year for me or if it weans itself from before. So he will have my milk with solid food mm. The difference is that I'm on parental leave. So it's not quite the managing mm. ^ ^

Aaaaah as I understand you, but good memories …. I have arrested around 7 months but only because I had more milk, if I planned to breastfeed a year. If you're really not ready and you still have milk why not keep feeding pleasure in the day.

And the reason you should wean if you just do not want? If it makes you much trouble, why do it? 're Masochistic? ;-) Especially if it's going really well … There is no expiration date on your milk does not diversify and wean. I've never wanted to wean my girls, and they never wanted either (well the second 6 months, so obviously …). The nibbles that is happiness for us! By cons, some advice. At the age of your daughter, puree it after feeding. She needs much more milk than carrots, milk should remain the main food for at least 6 months. For evening, I'm not convinced that the bib "hold" your daughter better and enable him to sleep through the night, but really good so, file it the bib after feeding (at least after 1/2h), in addition . That way you will be less congested. The fact that you are congested is not a sign that you have to wean, but simply a sign that your daughter has to feed more at source. If your daughter is not feeding time at noon. If your daughter is not feeding time lunch aulendemain morning is normal for your breasts threaten to explode! Lol! It would take at least a small feedings at night, just to relieve yourself, or when you pull your milk. At this rate, not only you put yourself through unnecessary suffering, but your lactation is likely to go haywire … At the age of your daughter (or rather your lactation), the body can very easily adapt to such a long period without feeding (18h is huge). Just a little extra feed at night would change everything … There. Regarding weaning, do as you want. Know absolutely nothing obliges you there. If you just do not want, do not do it. It would be stupid to wean when you're not ready and then make a depression.

Replaces "Baby" by my daughter. "Bib" by bottle. and gives to suck your man. Everything should be fine. Sincerely yours.

Voucher the peer pressure you do not care eh! Believe me I had to right to me too "you still breastfeeding?" "Bah uh yeah it is a pb with someone?" No but that's the thing I will never understand … For my part I thought breastfeeding 6 months and point. And then I tried 2 / 3 bottles and saw the reception I gave up and continued breast. At 8 months 1ST teeth have pushed … Sir I had got bitten so badly that I had a sudden movement of which leave him cold feet, short weaning done almost immediately after this "incident". I have not lived badly, although I missed those times and I still miss sometimes, but I passed the bottle and I also appreciate. If you do not really want to stop then continues, nothing obliged thee. You followed good advice that has calmed your bottlenecks, keep it for a while.

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